Sapphic-baby-girl - Sapphic Expressions Of A Dirty Mind

eating a girl out for the first time? as someone with a couple of decades' experience (i started young, ok?), can i offer some advice?

take your time. your aim isn't to make her come as fast as possible, it's to make sure she enjoys every moment. slow down, revel in the process of finding out what she likes.

tell her how beautiful she is, how tempting her cunt looks, how intoxicating it smells, how sweet she tastes. she might be feeling vulnerable, especially if she's inexperienced too - it's your job to make her feel safe and adored.

enjoy the journey - i know you just want to feel your tongue on her clit NOW, but exploring her thighs, working your way slowly to her folds, trailing all the way up her cunt, drinking her juices, letting her feel your breath before she feels your touch...it'll be worth it. for both of you.

learn to read her body with all of your senses. she might be vocal but she might prefer to bite her lip or enjoy being gagged. you don't need to hear her words to know what to do. you'll feel her muscles twitch and relax - learn what it means when she lifts her hips, squirms or sinks into you. she might taste and smell differently when she is close to coming for you. pay close attention to her clit - if you're lucky and you've done a particularly good job, you might see it twitch as she recovers from the perfect orgasm. enjoy it.

you can be vocal though. moan into her. use every sensation you can. light flicks to determined, long, slow licks. blow gently on her wetness. how does she react to your lip piercing? your teeth?

build and add to the experience until she's completely overwhelmed. play with her nipples. run your nails over her skin. lift her legs and spank her.

chances are, she'll get to the point where she really needs you to fuck her. slip your tongue all the way down and inside her. if you can't breathe, you're doing it right. that means you probably won't be able to keep it up for hours, so save this move for when she's right on the edge and you're ready to let her tip over.

if you're especially lucky and she's a squirter, you will get absolutely soaked. enjoy it. show her you're enjoying it. moan into her cunt; she'll come even harder.

if she needs to be fucked harder, slip your fingers inside her cunt and curl them up towards your tongue as it circles her clit. all of her most sensitive nerves will be between your tongue and your fingers. you'll be able to feel every tiny twitch inside her; it's the most beautiful place in the world to be.

when she can truly take no more, stay close to her as you drift away from her cunt. kiss your way up her tummy and her chest, let her taste herself on your lips as you hold her and let her ride out the aftershocks. trail your fingertips over her back. whisper in her ear. tell her everything you loved about eating her out.

You trace the outline of my body like you ache to be one. I feel heavenly when I’m being held by you and i feel hell when we are apart. You look at me and i can feel love through your gaze, like your eyes are the sun and i am merely a cat basking in your light through the window. The overwhelming joy and calmness you bring me is something i can never take for granted, growing up in the crazy environment i did, where love was loud, angry, and distant. Your love is soft, sweet, and near-never harsh. When people say that love is supposed to hurt i can’t help but deny what they are saying because loving you has never hurt me. It’s made me better each day and calmed my anxious mind. Your love has softened the harsh reality of the world and how i view myself. I’ve loved you the moment i laid eyes on you, it’s like my heart just knew that you would be the one i spend my days with. I can’t be more grateful to have found someone who truly softens my everyday burdens of just being alive on this earth. We are meant to be like how the clouds are meant to have moisture from water to cause rain, you cure my droughts and provide food and nourishment to my body by loving me the way i was intended to be loved.

With lots of love,

merc

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Amen!!