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Me at 18

Me 29

Shaved me beard!!

6 months man!!!

using any pronouns is so fun to me because nothing someone calls me is going to make me feel dehumanized like they want

I know it’s been done before but I wanna compile some voice training resources for my friends and mutuals. Please let me know what has worked for you!!! 💖

I’m kind of in the camp that if you CANNOT UNDER ANY REASONABLE CIRCUMSTANCE find out someone’s gender and what they prefer to be called then sure it’s ok to use they/them… but like. especially online… it only takes a little research (clicking on bio) not to misgender someone. Like there’s no reason that someone who doesn’t use it should get they/themmed at that point other than transphobia or willful neglect.

IRL, i use they them as well as she her, but i know that it feels so bad as a trans girl to get asked what my pronouns are, and to get automatically they/themmed bc of someone’s preconceived notion that that’s the default pronoun when they’re unsure.

“Shouldn’t it be obvious?” I’d tell myself. I’d be wearing a full face of makeup and girly clothes, and trying to speak in a feminine way, and this and that and the other, and it just gets exhausting when all you want is for people to see you and it to instantly click that you’re a girl. Even among queer people, it’s so hard to be a trans woman and not get misgendered.

this may be controversial, but if you’re meeting someone IRL, I think the best policy is to try to WAIT until they tell you or clue you in to what they wanna be called, rather than outright asking for pronouns. Telling someone yourself feels better than having that interrogation moment, where someone has to reveal that you’re third gender enough to get hit with the they/them beam automatically. Let’s be honest… do people who say they use they/them as a default really use they/them with cis women who present feminine?…I’m sorry but it’s usually the fact they’ve clocked you. They/themming IS misgendering folks who don’t use it. Period. We may need to re-interrogate whether we should have a “default pronoun” in the first place.

like, really? I can’t be transfem and post outfit pics and about being trans on this website without being harrassed by some random dude named dicklover88… fuck. please somebody tell me how yall keep unwanted interactions like this to a minimum. this is why i have the cis men DNI, I gave yall a shot to be respectful and you can’t manage that. apparently the DNI is not enough. blocking is not enough because more of you come out of the woodwork every time i post. i’m so frustrated… i just want to use the platform without being catcalled by strange men who think i’m a porn account… you’re talking to a girl, a human person with feelings who just wants to exist without being sexualized by men without her consent. CIS MEN: NOTHING I DO ON THIS ACCOUNT IS FOR YOU AND YOUR ENJOYMENT. You aren’t talking to a fetish, a vehicle for your wish fulfillment, or a circus freak show. You’re talking to someone’s friend, someone’s sister, someone’s daughter. I KNOW VERY WELL NONE OF YOU WIL READ THIS OR CARE BECAUSE YOU HAVE MADE IT VERY CLEAR THAT’S HOW YOUR KIND IS. I could continue, but it’d just be venting at this point about how hellish this site is for trans femmes. I’ll stop now.

pls somebody dm me other than chasers i’m begging you lmaoooo

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