You're A Lesbian If You Feel Like One. You're A Lesbian If You Also Like Men. You're A Lesbian If You

You're a lesbian if you feel like one. You're a lesbian if you also like men. You're a lesbian if you ARE a man. You're a lesbian if you're also aro. You're a lesbian if you're also ace. You're a lesbian if you're aroace—

I’ve grown to prefer boydyke over lesboy so here are some butch/femme boydyke flags !

(these flags are in reference to the lesbian subculture, not in the general queer masculine/feminine presentation terms)

Every time I hear someone say something along the lines of 'physically disabled people get so many benefits!' I just think about that one video with the wheelchair accessible door leading to a flight of stairs💀

I'm not a wheelchair user myself, but from what I've heard the world isn't very accessible in general. Doesn't sound very 'beneficial' to me if I'm being honest.

Do people not remember that period on Tumblr where neurodivergent people completely threw physically disabled people under the bus to further their movement? And then they wonder why we want our own space.

Things used in arguments I heard about 10 yrs ago:

- "you wouldn't say/do that to someone in a wheelchair"

- "we are literally physically disabled too bc our brain is an organ!!!"

- "physically disabled people get everything look they have special parking spaces and ramps!"

- "when you go to the doctor for physical illness they immediately give you all the medicine and work hard to find a cure like Dr. House, but when I go to the doctor they throw me out the window" (stuff along those lines at least)

Y'all kicked us out, ignored us, made your own lil club with its own terms, turned us into jokes and strawmen, and abandoned people who are both physically and mentally disabled.

We wanted solidarity and you all didn't.

But how dare we make our own community so our voices can be heard, god forbid we discuss issues important to physically disabled people in this community without mentioning neurodivergents. And when we get even a little pissed off? How dare we.

And it's happening again. I've seen the same rhetoric repeated. No one is saying that mentally disabled people have no issues or don't face ableism at all. Stop bringing up your issues on our posts, it derails it and clogs up the notes.

We had to separate ourselves because you all kicked us out first so that neurotypical people would accept you. You didn't want to be associated with the gross ugly cripples.

Cripplepunk community is not the same as disabled community. It's under the same umbrella, not a replacement. Stop taking over our spaces and stop posting shit in our tags.

LMFAO you're so correct 💀

bi lesbian exclusionists acting like lesbian is some holy word that cannot be used by anyone that doesnt fit the cookie cutter textbook definition of the label aren't that different from tiktok baby gays who say you're going to hell for calling yourself gay when youre bisexual or whatever.

Screaming and crying rn /j /pos

to any plurals out there

you're not fake you're real its ok to have different experiences (like we do! :D) it what make us unique ignore the sysmeds/fdc and sc (i know its hard but we get through this!) dont be afraid to be yourself you matter your health is important and if the haters are press just think they dont know your experiences drink water take your meds if you wearing a binder stay safe and remember to take breaks give yourself a hug you deserver it proud of you! stay safe and i love you/p

In case you didn't know 💙