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God I'm so fuckin tired of trying to find new xenogender servers to join and almost all of them are anti mspec lesbian/gay, anti endo, or both. Like Jesus Fuckin Christ, dude.
Anyway, if you're xenic and are an mspec les/gay or endo system (or supportive of mspec les/gays AND endo systems), please feel free to join our server. Yeah I got ya, this is an ad/hj
⚠️new plan for joining, DM me for a link to the server, as I am too bad at keeping up with replacing the link here⚠️
Also we're age regressor friendly.
Exclusionists, please respect that this is a safe space, so keep your opinions to yourself and leave us alone. Thanks. <3
Plain text: Exclusionists, please respect that this is a safe space, so keep your opinions to yourself and leave us alone. Thanks. <3
Oh, and any contradictory label havers/supporters are allowed. This includes, but isn't limited to, lesboys and gaybians. Hope to see you there!
Edit: so we've had a few people join and then leave — not that that's an issue! — so I feel the need to explain how to get verified if that has been or is a problem for anyone. You go to the channel labeled 'rules-verification' and fill out the form by interacting with it. Once the form is accepted by a mod, you'll be verified. Please note that you have to have an account (It can be on any platform, not just tumblr) that we can look at to ensure that you're chill (as in, not an exclusionist): this is a security measure to help keep this space troll free. Thank you.
Another edit: heads up, our mod team gets inactive at times, meaning the verification process can get rather slow. Additionally, if you're likely to just up and leave, maybe don't join the server; I don't mean to vague anybody, but we've had people do that and it causes me slight to moderate stress when people just… leave.
You're a lesbian if you feel like one. You're a lesbian if you also like men. You're a lesbian if you ARE a man. You're a lesbian if you're also aro. You're a lesbian if you're also ace. You're a lesbian if you're aroace—
Guys I've struck gold
⚠️Trigger warning: mspec lesbian exclusion (though this is funny to me it still may be a trigger for somebody)⚠️
This is fucking hilarious

[ID: some human Trixie x Starlight Glimmer fanart is in the background. Red text with a white outline that reads 'literally heart broken i loved this art just to find out the creator supports mspec lesbians' followed by a sad face emoji. End ID]
How pathetic do you have to be to be 'heart broken' about the fact that an artist supports someone's identity? 'Wah I can't believe this person supports an identity that my single braincell can't comprehend!' Like imagine you see some cute art, and then you see that the person doesn't scream at people for using comfortable labels and then you're like 'my day is ruined' 💀💀💀
Also TikTok sucks lmfao, at least when it comes to stuff like this; I highly recommend not going on there in hopes of good mspec les/gay content because I swear to fuck most of it was just people whining about our existence in the 'mspec lesbian' tag. I mean, you will find gems like this, so if you want to torture yourself I can't stop ya.
Oh, and if somebody knows the artist, can you send me their way? I love their art style sm./srs /nf

[Banner ID: DNI system/queer exclusiomists, TERFs/SWERFs, truscum/transmeds, anti recovery for harmful paraphilia, anti otherkin, pro-lifers, anti xenogender. A more detailed DNI is in my pinned post. End ID]
⚠️Mild trigger warning for exclusionism⚠️
The 'lesbian means wlw' or 'non-men loving non-men' being used to delegitimize mspec lesbians is so fucking funny, cuz you wanna know something? EVEN THEIR OWN DEFINITION DOESN'T STATE THAT THIS ATTRACTION TO WOMEN IS EXCLUSIVE. Sure, you have exclusionists who add on 'exclusive' somewhere in the definition to make it fit their narrative, but overall 'wlw' is an inclusive term for every sapphic woman.
Exclusionists are so fucking stupid that they don't realize they're validating mspec lesbians with their definitions LMFAO
Exclusionists remind me of a preschool kid who refuses to share their toys with another kid. It's on the same level of stupid, immature entitlement to tell people what labels they can and cannot use, and it gives me so much secondhand embarrassment to see whole adults throwing tantrums over bi lesbians or some shit lmfao.
Friendly reminder that you aren't the problem, exclusionists are.
Another banner dump!
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[Banner ID: 'Evil queer' in gold fraktur text. The background is grey-black in color. On the right side, a diagonal queer flag is visible. End ID]
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[banner ID: 'Angry queer' in hot pink text. At the top and bottom of the banner, there are dotted borders of the same color. The background is black. On the right and left ends, Gilbert Baker's pride flag sits at a vertical angle. The dotted border ends where these flags begin. End ID]
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[banner ID: 'There are bigger issues than people being bi lesbians or lesboys. Get your shit together!' In black fraktur text. A lesboy flag spans horizontally across the middle of the banner, and near both right and left ends sits the aurora lesbian flag at a vertical angle. The background is a faded dark magenta in color. End ID]
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These are free to use with credit.
[Pt: These are free to use with credit. End Pt]
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[Banner ID: There's no DNI for this post. However, there's nothing stopping me from blocking you if you're a weirdo or an asshole. End ID]
(Shameless self promotion)
Alternative Black cat lesbian flag


[ID: seven stripes, top to bottom: magenta-ish purple — with the next two stripes being creating a gradient by being slightly darker each time — crimson, dark blue — with the last two stripes creating a gradient by being slightly lighter each time. The left version has a black silhouette of a cat, with a white 'shadow', and the right version does not. End ID]
Definition: a lesbian that is seen as harmful to the community, much like black cats are seen as omens of bad luck.
Real
If your account isn’t a safe space for Mspec Lesbians, Lesboys, Mspec Gays, Turigirls, Straight Lesbians, Straight Gays, Cis Trans folks, AFAB TransFems, AMAB TransMascs, Mspec Straights, etc. then don’t call it a “LGBTQIA+ safe space”.
This blog is here for bisexual lesbians. I refuse to be complicit in allowing the continuation of radfems kicking sapphic women out of sapphic spaces. Its not 'centering men in lesbian spaces' to acknowledge that women who love women AND men have always been a part of this community and don't deserve a percentage of the bullshit the lot of you give them
pretty much. I brought up being basically the entire LGBT community to a queer person in real life and they didn't bat an eye. Being an exclusionist truly is on some terminally online shit fr.
tiktok user gojosleftnut: grrr LESBOYS ARENT REAL!! I HATE BI LESBIANS!!!
people in real life: hey man hows it going
because the very possibility of men being involved in someone's lesbianism is enough for the baby TERFs in lesbian spaces to lose their shit. There's definitely misogyny in gay spaces but jesus christ is the anti man crowd of lesbian 'feminists' really loud.
why is it so much harder for people to accept bi lesbians than bi gays
ID: a tweet by user @/jesterhat03 that says 'people tryna tell me that by being a bi lesbian I'm forcing men into lesbian spaces. what lesbian spaces? my bed?? girl, mind your own business' end ID

wanted to say im reblogging your post about lesbians dating men / lesbians who are men / etc in spirit :)) as a bi lesbian in a happy relationship with a man i feel really seen and appreciated 🫶🫶
hell yeah! I'm happy the post reached you and provided that appreciated representation <2
this is so fucking cool, can this be used by all m-spec lesbians or just bi lesbians specifically?
I have a proposition for a bi-lesbian symbol, and it's the Lilith symbol "⚸". Here's why.
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my first thought when i saw the symbol of Lilith, was that it's a mix between the double venus ( ⚢ ) and the double crescent ( ☽☾ ) symbol. therefore...
☽☾+⚢ = ⚸ !
i've always known about the tale of Lilith and how she was cast away to flee the garden of eden in many a religious myth, and the reasoning behind her being "turned into a demon".
she is a symbol of rugged feminine strength, self-protection, and assertiveness. in many myths, she "disobeyed" adam (fought back against abuse/sexual assault and would not submit) and was banished from the garden of eden to become a "she-demon".



i believe that her story feels somewhat similar to how we as bi-lesbians are treated and percieved in our communities and throughout history, measured in worth by our proximity to men, sexualized, fetishized, cast out to make our own spaces, violently hated, threatened, abused, harrassed, demonized, and seen as harmful just by existing and asserting ourselves, even though we aren't "harmful". we're just people asserting our equality like lilith "was".

this is precisely why i decided that her symbol symbolizes us as bisexual lesbians! i hope people pick up my idea, i put a lot of thought and effort into it :)

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-kaz


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Loona from Helluva Boss is a bi-lesbian

Emma from Total Drama (The Ridonculous Race) is a bi-lesbian

Mabel Pines from Gravity Falls is a bi-lesbian