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“Saying men can't be lesbians is exclusionist to multigender lesbians.” Mx, let me tell you something: Multigender people are not binary men.

I think y'all forgot that the multigender spectrum falls under the nonbinary umbrella, and I'm not down for that.

“Saying men can't be lesbians is exclusionist to multigender lesbians.” Mx, let me tell you something: Multigender people are not binary men.

Identity police alert!! Mind your own fucking business

Mx, the only things I said were:

Men (and by that, I mean BINARY MEN, since y'all love to twist it) cannot be lesbians, and saying that they can is actually fucking dangerous to lesbians, because we are constantly forced into and invalidated for not liking men. Saying that binary men can be lesbians is only reinforcing that and do no good for the lesbian community at all.

Multigender people don't fit into the gender binary. We are nonbinary exactly because we don't identify exclusively and/or 100% with male nor female. We are included inside the nonbinary umbrella by definition, there is no fucking denying that. We are not binary men nor binary women. Point. Blank. Period.

Long story short, if you're gonna call me “Identity police” for saying literal FACTS about both the lesbian and the multigender community, go on. But do note that labels DO mean something, because they have history, they have definitions and erasing them meanings makes no good for the community.

Greetings and salutations to trans men who are lesbians. You aren't straight if you don't identify as such, and you're certainly not invalidating other experiences! There's no one way to experience being a trans man, nor is there a wrong way to express being a lesbian.

Hello and welcome to people who otherwise identify as lesboys for whatever reason! Are you multigender? Cool! butch who also considers themself a man? Tubular! Genderfluid? Rad! Man adjacent regardless of gender? Wicked! Keep being you!

Guten Tag, Guten Abend (good day, good evening) to gaybians! Don't let nobody tell you your identity is invalid. You're allowed to use all the labels that feel comfortable to you!

Make some noise for the people who use/identify with xenogenders! It's your gender, so do whatever you want with it! This includes those of us who are xenic adults, as well.

Can we get a warm welcome for endo systems? How about tulpas? You're not racist or ableist for having a different system origin! Mixed origin? Quoigenic? Any other type of origin? Y'all are rad, too. Keep being you.

Keep vibing, everyone I mentioned here, as well as those with any other good faith identities I missed!

Man lesbians are rad, actually.

You're a lesbian if you feel like one. You're a lesbian if you also like men. You're a lesbian if you ARE a man. You're a lesbian if you're also aro. You're a lesbian if you're also ace. You're a lesbian if you're aroace—

Lesbian is not non men for non men

Even ignoring m-spec lesbians you’re completely ignoring the existence of multigender people. Just shut up

LOL some TERF (literally a TERF, if they weren't they definitely sounded like one) went to one of my posts and screamed at me about how 'homosexuality isn't about gender nonsense'... And only picked at the lesbianism part of the post. Typical, really.

Anyways, repeating myself here but: lesbians can be men, lesbians can like men, lesbians can date men. This does NOT mean every lesbian HAS to do these things. Being queer is all about the freedom of identity.

'I support nonbinary lesbians!' motherfuckers when the nonbinary person in question is a man in any way: tells the person to kill themself, how they're invading lesbian spaces, how their identity doesn't exist and isn't valid, 'men can't be lesbians!', screaming and crying about how they're lesbiphobic and transphobic for existing, 'you just hate lesbians don't you, that's why you're pushing for acceptance of your own identity!', calls them disgusting and sickening, throws around blatant misandrist comments, claims they're the reason lesbiphobic straight men think they have a chance of 'fixing' lesbians, 'oh well you're not an ACTUAL man, so it's okay!', crosses into borderline TERF territory, becomes an actual TERF, etc.

Yeah, I can feel the support radiating off of my screen. /sarcasm