Last Minute DTIYS For @bestjeanistmonster !!!! Happy 1k!!!!Original Here!!

last minute DTIYS for @bestjeanistmonster !!!! happy 1k!!!! Original Here!!

You've heard of the autism (tbh) creature, you've heard of the adhd (btw) creature, you might even have heard of the depression (wtf) creature

But are you aware that these conditions often occur in combination with each other?

So together with my friend, who struggles with both adhd and depression, we've come up with this:

always think weird when people say that quiet and not bright is best best best way be sensory friendly because not true for all .

some people need places louder or else feel like brain scratch self just same way others need quiet . and some people need be loud because make sounds is how regulate input , need shout and jump and stomp .

and of course , some people can not hear or see as well as others , so turn down means less able to understand or sometimes even navigate .

just , not one size for all .

Also, while we’re here:

Not all non-disordered systems are non-traumagenic. Trauma-formed systems can and do exist without also having DID/OSDD/etc.

Not all non-traumagenic systems are non-disordered.

A systems ORIGINS, a system’s FUNCTIONING, a system’s DIAGNOSTIC STATUS, and a system’s SPIRITUAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL BELIEF can all be very different things. 

Ie, you can have 

a trauma-formed system that isn’t disordered and isn’t dxd with anything, who see themselves in a spiritual light

a non-traumagenic system that is disordered, is diagnosed with DID, who see themselves in a psychological light

and many other combinations!

Please stop using DID/OSDD/etc as a synonym for “trauma-formed”.

Please stop using traumagenic as a synonym for disordered.

Please stop using non-traumagenic as a synonym for non-disordered.

Please stop assuming all trauma-formed systems see themselves purely psychologically, and all non-traumagenic systems see themselves purely spiritually.

The plural community, on all sides, is so rich and diverse. Community support, and an individual system’s needs, are not always so easily divided into two very small boxes.

Stimming isn't enough. I need to violently vibrate out of existence

Actually, speaking of the tags on my last post, you guys get so violent over online queer discourse and it’s honestly really fucked up.

I’ve seen baeddels talk about how they want to misgender and beat up “transandrophobia truthers”. I’ve seen people say they’ll kill fellow queer people who use the “toothpaste” ocean mlm flag. I’ve seen exclus talking about sending gore to mspec monos.

You guys seriously need to go outside and maybe get therapy if you have such violent tendencies towards fellow queer people. Like you honestly sound insufferable if you act like this. Where’s this energy towards the politicians killing us? Or do you just hate other queer people who aren’t queer in the way you like?