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How Can Someone Identify As A Guy And Be A Lesbian? I Genuinely Dont Get It. Doesnt Being A Lesbian Means
how can someone identify as a guy and be a lesbian? i genuinely dont get it. doesnt being a lesbian means liking non-men, and being gay liking non-women???
The most common explanations for it that I've seen are multigender people who are men to some extent, butches who are cusper (in between) between man and gender nonconforming woman, and people who would otherwise fit the 'non-man' label (genderless people, women etc) but use masculine terms. As far as I'm concerned, it's up to the individual.
The thing is, with LGBTQ identities, having a baseline definition is alright. But often, people will blur lines and defy the 'rules' of certain labels and that's also alright!
I appreciate the reach out, and hope this cleared some things up./gen
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Heads up, may change the theme of my side blog (link) to match another kin type of mine (sharks most likely). Thought I would warn anyone who cares, just so it's not thrusted on you like the theme change with this one lmfao
hey guys
saw a youtube video today that shocked and scared me, so im going to say something as a bit of a reminder.
do not give out your address online publically. state, city, school, ect. do not do it.
that makes you prime material for doxxing and sharing that kind of information publically online is an awful idea.
the video was talking about finding therians near you and to comment with your country, state, and city. it did specify not to share school or street name or actual home address but that is not enough to stop someone.
yes, there were many young therians commenting their cities.
regardless of how small the channel is, regardless of how few views the video has, regardless of how safe you feel on this person's channel
that is public knowledge now. commenting that is something that could cause irreversible damage to you.
i understand wanting to make irl therian friends, i do. i want to as well.
this is not how you go about it. ESPECIALLY if you are a minor.
please, please, please do not put yourself in danger like this. please. it will never be worth it. it will never go well. it is not safe.
remember, the internet is public. anyone on the internet could find that video and if they dont have good intentions could do serious harm to you.
thank you.
The transmasc experience of being a dog
Average boomer logic/not at you đ
yall when children play on their cellphones: I CANT BELIEVE... đĄ KIDS ARENT ALLOWED TO BE KIDS ANYMORE... đ THEY DONT EVEN PLAY OUTSIDE... 𤏠THEYRE ALWAYS ON THEIR SMARTPHONES... đ
yall the very minute children try to have fun in real life:

Okay so I have a lot to say about this (not aimed at you OP)
'Validity' doesn't exist in terms of identity. I hate that validity culture has polluted the OTHERKIN COMMUNITY of all communities; it's a parasite that does nothing but cause infighting and distract people from actual issues.
Who cares if someone kins Rainbow Dash for fun? Who cares if their kintype is a sparkly pink wolf? Who cares if they can influence shifts or can't experience shifts at all? Someone's experience is their own and is wonderfully unique and real. Being 'valid' has nothing to do with that.
Communities are supposed to uplift each other, damn it, not make certain individuals of said community feel even more isolated.
I see a lot of posts listing experiences we have as alterhuman/therian/otherkin/nonhuman folk and exclaim that every one of them is valid.
Which they are.
Why does it bother me? Because I hate to see that this is needed at all. That we need to slap a âvalidâ sticker on our experiences.
It doesnât matter whether or not we, (as individuals), decide they are or arenât valid.
it doesnât matter. What happens will happen regardless of whether or not you have an opinion on how âvalidâ it is.
So what if youâre nonhuman but also human? Thatâs an experience, it wonât magically stop happening because someone goes ânyeeehâ. (Just an example. You can insert whatever gatekeepers like to complain about and it would still work).
Itâs saddening, more than anything. The fact gatekeepers think they can push people out for having different events happen to them ended up making us feel the need to say âhey, your experiences are real and they donât make you lesser than those who have more common experiencesâ.
Imagine saying to someone that is crying that itâs okay to cry even though you and/or others arenât. Of course it is. It should go without saying.
But these are just some Kxena thoughts, hopefully I was able to put them clearly into words heheh
I donât believe uplifting posts are bad in the slightest, itâs just saddening to see we need them at all. Keep on lifting each other up! We all deserve to feel accepted and respected in this community. Write some words of kindness today!