The Best Thing You Can Do Is Live As Happily As You Can. Exist. Because Some People Really Don't Like

The best thing you can do is live as happily as you can. exist. because some people really don't like that, and it makes them angry that you can smile and exist as yourself.

'trans men need to read theory by trans women' is so ironic when we do (and more!) yet you refuse to read and understand a 30-100 word post about literally anything we have to say

oh my fucking god. My thoughts and metaphorical prayers go out to trans men and mascs who think like that person. When hatred towards men and masculinity goes so far that even those affected negatively by it espouse and even indulge in it themselves, you know it's bad.

There was a person in the transmasc tags who just posted that their friends would use he/him more for him (who uses they/he) when they were upset with OP, because it was easier to be mad at a he than a they, and that OP understood the thought process. And it was treated like a joke by OP, but it just made me so uncomfortable because like ??? Why on earth would someone’s pronouns make it easier to be mad at them, and why would OP think that it was okay to post that in the transmasc tags, full of people who use those pronouns sets.

Jesus. That's so fucked up. The level of internet brainrot that leads to this kind of thing...

"never mind “the man haters” to refer to a group of feminists you don't like. page one of the anti-sjw playbook" (previous tag) hot take, but using feminism as an excuse to hate men isn't very feminist, and it's immature in the very least. I know, it shocked me too... when I was 13 years old. Additionally, you are just grasping for straws now with your 'pick a random feminine name and you'll get a trans woman who has been harangued over this discourse' comment. Is that supposed to be a gotcha? Pack it up, guys, you can't use feminine names in your post about people who misuse 'transmisogyny' now because somewhere a trans woman has that name so you're singling her out! Get over yourself.

This conversation is over, as you're just losing your shit over nothing. Thanks for the engagement💀

we need to take the word 'transmisogyny' away from the man hating crowd because they literally have no idea what it means.

No Patricia, speaking about transandrophobia as something that exists isn't transmisogyny. That's like a TERF calling everyone who disagrees with her a sexist. If anything, denying the existence of transandrophobia is transandrophobic, because you're actively denying the existence of real issues and erasing struggles because you don't think the issues are actually that bad because 'women have it worse'. It's not a competition. Active attempts to erase the struggles of a group sounds like textbook bigotry to me, it's exactly what transphobic cis people do.

so real. 'queer' ties things in nicely for me so I don't have to explain every identity and why I identify with them and how, yes, they are """"valid"""" ways of identifying

saw someone claim that 'transandrophobia truthers' are 'so white' so as a black person: transandrophobia exists and is very harmful, regardless of how much you close your eyes and plug your ears. Hope this helped!