Xenogender Positivity - Tumblr Posts
omg!! i'm so happy!!!
i was scrolling through instagram and i saw a post about xenogenders(it was really good and they explained it well). as i was curious to see the comments, i did it and i had a surprise...
among the 145 comments only 2 were hateful! i saw so much positivity about xenogenders in the comments! and what surprises me the most is that most of people in the comments were adults and cis! like i've never seen cis and adult people being so positive about xenogenders!
like damn people ain't that shitty after all!
i love xenogender and xenopronoun users and y'all are so valid!!
Not forcing!!
(Image by ♡ Apollo ♡ on Pinterest)
Edit; forgot to include that I’m also xenogender and a xenopronoun user xD I hoard dog and wolf xenogenders and currently only go by pup/pups, though I don’t mind any other dog Xenos :3
Also guys ur blowing up my phone GAHHH thank you all so much 😭😭😭🫶🫶🫶
i love xenogenders because they reveal how arbitrary gender symbolism already is.
we can say ‘my gender is space, cool rocks, and curiosity.’ 👽
is that any more strange than saying, ‘femininity is empathy, flowers, and the color pink’? 🌸
gender is what we make of it, whether practical, picturesque, poetry or prose <3 💖
NEW XENOGENDER ALERT!!!
Xenoflux
Similar to girlflux,non binaryflux,boyflux
Where your xenogender identity fluxs
As in,sometimes you feel 100% xenogender,50% xenogender,20% xenogender,10% xenogender, and 0% xenogender
You feel your preferred xenogender identity at different strengths and percentages
Example: your froggender and nonbinary.you aways feel non binary but some days/times you feel 20% froggender.and sometimes,you're just non binary.your not xenofluid so it's not like you feel a different xenogender tho you can be xenoflux and xenofluid.if you are xenofluid and xenoflux,your current xenogender may flux
I actually really like how this turned out!
xenogenders are so cool like... they're almost like metaphors. like "i have a gender and the way it makes me feel reminds me of a shining sun, so im sungender" is so? poetic? it's beautiful?
they're also like abstract art... with the way a painting can look like one thing but actually be mentally connected to something else. like a abstract painting in varying shades of blue can represent the ocean.
i honestly think xenogenders are one of the most beautiful displays of gender variance. it taps into the emotions that gender draws from, and instead of clunking into the box "male" or "female," or even man/woman, they create an entirely new, personal experience
xenogenders are the essence of gender.
I don't know who needs to hear this, or if it will even reach an audience at all, but you're valid. I'm talkin about the people who are constantly told they aren't valid by their own community: the lesboys, mspecs and everyone of the like. Those of us with 'contradictory' identities. The people who use neopronouns, nounself pronouns, emoji pronouns, and/or xenogenders. You're just as valid as the people who fit neatly into simpler, more 'acceptable' and 'normal' identities. And don't let anyone tell you different.
I know it's hard. I've witnessed a pan lesbian get doxxed on Twitter all because they identified as such. You see, people like us aren't what's harming the community, but some people will try to make you feel that way. Try not to let it get to you.
Greetings and salutations to trans men who are lesbians. You aren't straight if you don't identify as such, and you're certainly not invalidating other experiences! There's no one way to experience being a trans man, nor is there a wrong way to express being a lesbian.
Hello and welcome to people who otherwise identify as lesboys for whatever reason! Are you multigender? Cool! butch who also considers themself a man? Tubular! Genderfluid? Rad! Man adjacent regardless of gender? Wicked! Keep being you!
Guten Tag, Guten Abend (good day, good evening) to gaybians! Don't let nobody tell you your identity is invalid. You're allowed to use all the labels that feel comfortable to you!
Make some noise for the people who use/identify with xenogenders! It's your gender, so do whatever you want with it! This includes those of us who are xenic adults, as well.
Can we get a warm welcome for endo systems? How about tulpas? You're not racist or ableist for having a different system origin! Mixed origin? Quoigenic? Any other type of origin? Y'all are rad, too. Keep being you.
Keep vibing, everyone I mentioned here, as well as those with any other good faith identities I missed!
Normalize queer people being weird. Visibly trans trans people. Gender nonconformity. Neurodivergent queer people. Queer people with unconventional genders. Otherkin queer people. Mentally ill queer people. Disabled queer people. Queer people with 'odd' pronouns or pronouns that don't 'fit' their gender. Anyone who's queer and is considered 'odd' or 'cringe' for reasons that may or may not be tied to their queerness.
Hey, if you're an adult who identifies with xenogenders, please know that you're not being immature or childish. It's not childish to feel like your gender is better represented by a constellation, feels more like an abandoned house, and sounds like that one specific song you've been listening to. It's not immature to see your gender as a dinosaur, or a neon radioactive cat.
The 'hey that person who's catgender is 15 years old and neurodivergent!' argument, while made with the intention of legitimizing xenogenders, doesn't do justice to ALL xenic experiences. I know multiple xenic adults. Hell, I knew someone who was, like, 26 at the time I was in contact with them. You're never too old to identify with one, two, or THOUSANDS of xenogenders. Please remember that.
-a xenic adult
[Banner ID: DNI system/queer exclusionists, TERFs/SWERFs, truscum/transmeds, anti recovery for harmful paraphilia, anti otherkin, anti self dx, pro cringe culture, pro-lifers, anti xenogender. A more detailed DNI is in my pinned post. End ID]
Queer Affirmations
[Pt: Queer affirmations end pt]
There is no such thing as ‘having too many’ labels. Your identity is your own, so have fun with it!
Queer experiences are highly diverse; no two queer people are exactly the same.
Wear what makes you happy!
Use whatever pronouns you feel comfortable with.
Label your attraction however you see fit.
Go by as many names as you want.
Being trans doesn't have to be defined by suffering.
Being queer is not something to be ashamed of!
Your identity doesn't have to make sense to other people for it to be valid.
You aren't ‘invading spaces’ by being yourself.
Love isn't what makes you human. Having sex isn't what makes you human.
Your body isn't an ‘error’ of nature.
Being a ‘cringy’ queer person is rad!
You don't have to change your presentation or body to be a valid trans person. You don't owe anyone androgyny.
I adore this (not my term, I just thought it was cool asf)
The moment I discovered xenogenders the possibility of having a normal identity was shattered
It's not your job to educate the willfully ignorant; the best thing you can do is to be yourself, despite the fact that some people don't want you to.
So be 'cringe' and embarrassingly queer! It's your life and your body.
The best thing you can do is live as happily as you can. exist. because some people really don't like that, and it makes them angry that you can smile and exist as yourself.
I don’t know if anyone following me is xenogender or uses neopronouns, but if you are/do, you’re amazing! And you’re safe here! I accept you!
reblog if you think that xenogenders and neopronouns are valid!!
or, also
reblog if your blog is a safe space for people who use neopronouns or xenogenders!!
Emotiongender Pride Flag “when your gender is affected by your emotions and feelings“
🦚gender Pride Flag
“🦚gender is an emojigender relating to the "🦚" emoji in some way.”
Diamoricgender Pride Flag + Symbol "diamoricgender is a xenogender that has something to do with being/the term diamoric.”
Chiakiecoric Pride Flags + Symbols "chiakiecoric is an aesthetigender relating to the aesthetic of itschiakie."
NOTICE: I DO NOT IN ANY WAY SUPPORT ITSCHIAKIE/JENNA
Pupcatgender Pride Flags + Symbol
"Pupcatgender is a xenogender term for people who are both pupgender and catgender."