I May Pursue Phallo In The Future, But I'm A Bit Of A Fence Sitter.

I may pursue phallo in the future, but I'm a bit of a fence sitter.

trigger warning: TMI, dysphoria and talk of genitals, obviously. thought I'd give the option to opt out of the rest of my addition to this post.

I'm salmacian, but am also unsure if I want to go down that route or the 'complete' bottom surgery route, i.e. hysterectomy, scrotoplasty and vaginectomy as well as the dick. The thing is, I don't really want a hysterectomy because having a uterus and shit is metal as fuck (it's funny, I used to want to rip apart my body to get that stuff out with my own hands), but I'm not a big fan of the Hole (trademark) at times and find myself fantasizing about just being born with a dick. On the other hand, I am allergic to adhering to normativity even when it comes to sex characteristics, and if I were to get bottom surgery I have half a mind to preserve the hole to achieve that, even if it's a completely useless wound on me.

I'm also just worried about complications.

hey a quick shout out to transmascs who want to get a phalloplasty. mfs are so toxic to you for wanting a dick which imo is stupid as shit. live ur life!! u deserve your dick!!!! don’t let mfs who don’t understand judge u for vibing!!!!!! I hope your current or future healing goes well and it makes you love yourself even more than you currently do

I'm not going to dictate your gender, anon, but I just wanted to drop by and let you know (if you ever see this) that you can be transmasculine and a lesbian. Hell, you can even be a transmasc girl. Just thought I'd throw that in there in case you weren't aware of the option.

today’s gender thought it was transmasc for months and then remembered how amazing it was to be a lesbian and is now realising that the transmasc-ness was actually just a bad reaction to puberty and it’s actually a girl or some sort

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me too, random internet person's uncle. me too.

where is transgender flag "I'M TOO FAT FOR THIS HEAT"

When will Gen Z stop feeling threatened by ftms for identifying with the lesbian community, calling themselves lesbians, calling themselves male lesbians, ftm lesbians, lesboys, etc. Go to a lesbian bar please.

Gender and sexuality is weird. Telling ftm lesbians to "identify as nonbinary" is weird. Some people just aren't nonbinary, they're ftm and lesbians. Who are you to tell someone how they experience their gender and sexuality?

Lots of people make the argument that "identifying as contradictory labels invalidates everyone." Other people's identities are not invalidating your own. Your validation doesn't depend on how other people who don't know you exist. There is no wrong way to identify or express your gender.

SOAD watching their fanbase be flooded with auDHD trans teens and young adults

also it's important to highlight the overall lack of choice. you can't control how your attraction feels.

a lot of the perception with male lesbians, specifically trans man lesbians, is the implication that Every trans man attracted to women is a lesbian so it’s misgendering. but that’s not what being a trans man lesbian is, it’s choosing the lesbian label. not every trans man attracted to women is a lesbian, but some are because they choose it. i’m not misgendering myself if these are the labels i choose because i’m using them in a way that reflects my own identity. ofc don’t assume every trans man is a lesbian bc that is misgendering but that’s not what being a trans man lesbian is