No You Don't Understand, I Find It Cringy So Therefore It's A Cardinal Sin To Do It- Some Fuckhead

No you don't understand, I find it cringy so therefore it's a cardinal sin to do it- some fuckhead

Y'all need to realize that people's identity doesn't harm you, like bro who cares if someone named bug, who uses cat/it pronouns, identifies as a fox and has xenogenders? Like it's not harming you is it? Let people live their life, if they are happy and they're not harming anyone or themselves, who the hell cares?

See, this is all people have to do. The world would be a much better place tbh

btw, if you say you're a system, or if you say you're plural, I will believe you. no matter what. it doesnt matter how many alters you have, amounts of amnesia you have, how good or bad your communication is, whatever. if you say you are plural, then in my eyes, you are plural, and I will love you no matter what.

God, this is so relatable, especially the part about transitioning to be accepted. When I was openly non-binary, not many people took me seriously. People just saw me as my AGAB and that's it, no pushing of they/them pronouns and outward insistence that I wasn't my AGAB changed that. Eventually, I snapped: I have the resources available to me and I DO want the changes, so why not transition and try to pass as a binary person?

It was fine at first. People stopped forcing me into the box of my AGAB, and instead started forcing me into another box... one that was less cramped. I lost sight of my true identity, hiding behind this mask that I so meticulously created to blend in. But... that started getting suffocating, too.

It's comforting to know I'm not the only one.

chameleon chameleon

... the second part of a personal essay i wrote about being bigender. this time, about being bigender and transitioning. thank you to everyone who read and enjoyed part one!

the existence of endogenic systems really helps me accept being a traumagenic (and endogenic) system. i'll be picking myself apart going is this real? is this possible? does this really happen with [diagnosis]?

and then i remember endogenic systems exist and im like. who cares actually. there isn't one way to be plural and there never was. why judge ourselves based on the psych system. our experiences are real just by experiencing them.

There's more exclusion on tumblr than I'm comfortable with, too. Which is unfortunate cuz why can't we just vibe? Why does it matter how my headmates spawned into my life? Why does it matter how I label myself? Like my God, why can't people just,, not be dicks and acknowledge that there are diverse experiences with things like queerness and being plural?

Playing a silly roblox game to relax and I find this. aaaaaa

I'm surprised, so many non-tumblr spaces are aggressively anti-endo I feel.

Social transition being seen (by some) as this super easy thing that isn't as hard as real transitioning (medical) is bullshit. Be critical of the idea that there are some trans people who just "have it easy" because they are trans or because they are trans in ways you may not be.

Social transition is just as difficult, hard, and rewarding as medical transition. Maybe it is not as hard for some, sure, but that is not the same as thinking that social transition is inherently easier or lesser. If you're socially transitioning, your voice still matters.