You Are Suffering For Hurting Me And Are Reminded Of The Pain You Cause

You Are Suffering For Hurting Me And Are Reminded Of The Pain You Cause

A request! This hex sigil can be incorporated in spells against an abuser or someone who has deeply hurt you. It will remind them frequently of the pain they have caused and haunt them.

*remember to cleanse yourself and your space after hexing. Protect yourself.

Coming into a fandom late

Powerful trinkets of protection - The Hag Stone.

Uses:

• Protection

• Warding

• Healing

• Perception

• Good luck

• Ridding nightmares

The Hagstone, also known by its other common names; Adder, fairy, seer, witch and Odin stones, are rocks with holes piercing thoroughly to the other side formed by running water.

They are incredible useful amulets and talisman and have been used for centuries alongside ritual and spell work.

Commonly desired objects of magical intention throughout older folklore - Some legends say that the holes are formed where serpents gather together and their venom erode it.

Other lore say that they bare the mark of spiritual beings and even more commonly known say looking through them will allow the wearer to see the unseen, particularly the fey.

They are also very good for finding lost things.

Due to the aliments they are formed in these stones are lovely allies, especially in dire times.

So where do you find them?

Rivers, creeks, streams, lakes and oceanside! As long as there is running water, there very likely well may be one near by.

something that has really worked for me in terms of self improvement is trying to form a single habit at a time. i’ve self-sabotaged countless of times trying to turn my life around in a single night, like, writing down a schedule where i’m going to wake up early, do yoga, cook my own food, work six hours and then write for another two, etc, etc, and like, that does help form a coherent picture of what you want your life to look like, it helps visualizing the path before you, but it just like… the Disorders get in the way, and even with a quote unquote healthy brain it’s not something anyone can just achieve overnight. so like, for example, last year i started forming the habit of reading for half an hour before i go to bed instead of scrolling my phone, and this year i added journaling, too. i just started forming the habit of not scrolling tumblr as soon as i wake up and i’m saving a lot of time in my mornings. and like, it wasn’t something that i immediately got used to, i was so upset the first time i forgot to write about my day or sometimes i end up googling useless stuff instead of reading a book, but now it seems more natural than not to do these things.

i think my point is, and maybe this is obvious but it truly has been a reality check and a revelation for me, is that focusing on a single, small thing is so much more helpful than beating yourself over not being able to suddenly become a healthy person with healthy habits. forming habits takes time, adopting healthy routines takes time, and trying to do it all at once is incredibly discouraging, but little things add up.

MC’s Guidebook: Cleansing

The first thing any good witch should tell you when you ask where to start is cleansing. I know I know. I never claimed to be a good one as this is clearly not the first guidebook post in this series, but hey, I’m going over it now aren’t I? 

Let’s Begin!!!

What is it?

Cleansing is how it sounds. It is what a witch, priest, priestess, or anyone does to make a space clean. This can mean physically or cleansing by energy. For our sake this is meant to be cleaning out energies. Namely the negative ones.

How do I do it?

Pst. There are probably over 1000 ways to cleanse a space. The most popular way is to cleanse using a sage stick and letting it’s smoke waft through the area you have. I will go over way’s to cleanse here shortly and how to do them :)

Do I need to buy things?

No. Not unless you really want to. Cleansing really requires nothing, but it’s nice to have a few things to assist. But again. Not Necessary to have them :)

Where do I cleanse?

Anywhere. Most will say your altar, but come on that can get a little unrealistic. Walk around your house etc whatever. Anywhere is perfectly fine.

Why do I Need To Cleanse?

Your room is clean. You leave it alone for about a week and suddenly, there’s things on the floor that slipped by without you taking notice. You shrug and say you’ll do it later until theres so much stuff on your floor you can’t walk properly without stepping over a few things. Yet, you shrugg it off saying you’ll do a deep clean soon. Eventually all of it is going to get so messy you could get sick from walking in there.

That’s what happens when you don’t cleanse. All of the negative energy builds up to a point it can be harmful.

When Do I Cleanse?

As soon as you can. Every time you can. Schedule it something to ensure it gets done.

What happens if I don’t cleanse?

Things get backed up and it can make you feel shitty. It can mess up spells and honestly having negative energy filling a room sucks even for those who aren’t as attuned to feeling energy.

What things require cleansing?

Honestly let me make a short list here.

You.

Rooms.

Divining tools

Altars

Crystals

New homes

New Objects

What ways are there to cleanse?

A lot. Here’s a list of ways that I know of. Anyone can add onto this!

Smoke cleansing: 

Done with an incense stick or a sage stick, maybe herbs if you don’t have access to either of those. Light it let it burn for a few seconds and blow out the flame. This will create a smolder and smoke, all while it is burning. If you are cleansing a room, walk around the room with it or just let it sit(I do this, but I’m trying to do 20 things at one time so don’t judge me). Note: If you have pets, this shouldn’t be a preferred method, especially if they are smaller animals like birds. If you do chose to use this method PLEASE make sure you open your door, windows and have your fans on. Breathing in any smoke is bad for you and your pets.

Visualization: 

This is done through meditation. Sit in quiet or with voiceless music and imagine the object/room/thing you wish to be cleansed. Now imagine all of the energies that could be attached to it(I like seeing it as bacteria. I hate germs but not on a high scale)and then imagine washing the energies away or a light taking place of the negative(lmao disinfecting the negativity away). It is usually best to have the object in hand. If its not an object you are cleansing then be in the room or area you want cleansed while you do this. Note: Visualization takes time and effort. It is also harder for some. So just take your time with it. Don’t get panicked and don’t give up if you can’t do it right the first time :)

Positive Energy :

You must think I’m joking right? Nope not at all!! Being positive is actually a good way to diminish the negative energies. How does it work? Think of it this way. The energy you are trying to get rid of is just a lot of people talking. You are a speaker. If you start blasting music(the postivity) the negative will eventually shut up and leave because who can have a conversation when its soooo loud am I right? I did this a lot. I would sing and dance in my room because it made me happy! That room, my friends can attest, had the most positive and most calming energy in the house. So calming that friends who had trouble sleeping at someone elses house could just crash five seconds after sitting in the room. I no longer have that room, but my mom uses it for her meditation and the energy still remains :)

Sigils:

Sigils can actually boost or do the cleansing for you. Just make the sigil and activate it!(I do have a post on how to do this if you’d like more information. MC’s Guidebook Sigils) Note: you can use premade sigils. You do not have to crate them. Even if you put them on something, if your intent is there the sigil will work.

Again there are may methods of cleansing but these were the ones to stick out  in my head the most. Good luck to you all in whatever you hope to acheive today, tomorrow or in your life!

Sincerely,

The Sleepy Witch

Created: 10/13/2018

Posted: 10/14/2018

Compiled from my personal Grimoire

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The Significance of Rings

Rings add weight to the area of life that the finger represents, or could reveal imbalances. A ring placed with intent can enhance areas of your life. This can be strengthened by rings with corresponding crystals. When a ring is worn unconsciously, it more likely refers to the negative trait or imbalance that corresponds with that finger. Left hand: Corresponds to your personal and private life. Connected to family and personal identity or internal issues. Your left hand reflects the energy you take in. Right hand: Relates to your public life. Connected to work and your relation to society. Your right hand reflects the energy you give out. Middle Finger Element: Earth Considered the finger of cultural identity. It reflects how you related to justice, law, order, and responsibility. Can also signify inner security or materialism. Consciously placed ring: Reduce anxiety, improve stability, desire for self-development. Unconsciously placed ring: domestic unhappiness, insecurities, judgmental, lack of security. Crystals: garnet, onyx, agate, topaz, tiger’s eye, jade.

Index Finger Element: Water Considered the finger of personal identity, how you relate to and see yourself. Associated with leadership, ambition, and self-confidence. Consciously placed ring: Boost self-esteem, increase authority, improve confidence. Unconsciously placed ring: Damaged self-esteem, feeling not good enough, feeling better than others, controlling personality. Crystals: tourmaline, lapis lazuli, peridot, opal, emerald. Ring Finger Element: Fire Represents your extra-personal identity and self-expression. It represents creativity and love of beauty. If it’s a wedding ring or engagement ring, it represents success in finding a mate. But if bought by the wearer it can represent self-love. Consciously placed ring: Strengthen creativity, express friendliness, improve aesthetic awareness. Unconsciously placed ring: Creative frustration, concern with image, desire to be liked. Crystals: garnet, ruby, pink tourmaline, diamond. Little Finger Element: Air Considered the finger of impersonal identity. It reflects communication and sexuality. Also represents confidence in relationships and strength. Consciously placed ring: Improve communication, express sexuality/sexual identity, gain confidence in regards to relationships. Unconsciously placed ring: Poor communication, lies, difficulty with sexuality/sexual identity Crystals: blue topaz, sapphire, aquamarine. Thumb Element: Ether Your thumb symbolizes your spiritual identity. It relates to your will power, determination, and application of personal energy. It also reflects your ability to reason and apply logic. As the thumb is separate from the rest of the fingers, and a very useful finger, it also represents strength, independent thought, and freedom. Consciously placed ring: Boost energy level, increase will power/motivation, provide comfort, increase reasoning, increase personal strength and independence. Unconsciously placed ring: lack of energy, feeling powerless, lack of control, poor reasoning, feeling trapped, stubborn/stuck in own way, need for control, aggressive/forceful Crystals: moonstone, diamond, amethyst. Rings on all/many fingers This can indicate a negative circumstance that you are being faced with. It shows a likely lack of feeling safe or secure in your world, and that your putting on a front. It can also signify avoidance to deal with issues affecting your life.