Yes, I Quite Enjoyed The New Pin Wheel. Sooo Nice A Response You Had To It.

Yes, I quite enjoyed the new pin wheel. Sooo nice a response you had to it.

And I second My Boy - any info on paintable latex (used for costuming) that would be helpful.

Play with storycrafter42

Hey followers! Hope everyone is having a fantastic thanksgiving holiday in the United States and a wonderful day else where in the world :) Sir instructed me on our last play date that I am to post about our play times so that you kinky fellas can enjoy our fun too hehe.

Sir got off early from work for the thanksgiving holiday so he went to a local kink store and got some new toys for us to play with hehe. He has gotten a lot of new things to play with this last week lol. He got the line pin wheel thing. Its like a wartenberg wheel but with 5 rows of pins *shiver* it was sooo good. A completely different feel from the wartenberg wheel. I was a puddle of goo soooo fast with this pin wheel thing. I highly recommend it. Hehe He tied my arms together and used the wheel on me drool. Loved it. His other purchase was a tube of liquid latex. To put this in context I am hearing impaired and I have to have my ears cleaned by a doctor every year. The doctor rips off a layer of skin from my ear drum since I have too much scar tissue for my ears to naturally clean themselves. The peeling feels soo good I actually look forward ti that appointment every year lol. So Sir wanted to explore that feelung with peelung the latex from my upper back. I have to say it is a messy process and don’t apply it to any wet surface or it won’t dry :(. What did dry was fun to peel. If anyone has any advice on how to make liquid latex work batter please contact me :). I think we need to try again when my back isn’t soooo sweaty from humping Sirs gorgeous ass. Grrrrr I want it sooo badly again. Hehe. Never saw myself as a top but Sir is training me to be one lol. It is such a fun process. I can’t wait to stick my dick in his hole and hump till he is a pile of goo under my hot bod hehe. Well I’m off to bed now. Stay horny guys and I’ll keep you posted on all the fun we are having :)

Hey guys. Sir got from vacation and we were able to play yesterday :). But I was disrespectful to Sir and skipped my workout yesterday so I could get some extra sleep to be better rested to play with Sir but I did not ask if that was ok. Sir feels that I am being too dom recently so to show that I am HIS boy I am to post pics of 5 of my favorite undies that Sir is takibg away from me permanently when we meet tomorrow :( I am sad but I understand where Sir is coming from and I accept my punishment.

Hello! Husbear and I only just started exploring bdsm lifestyle. Do you have any advice how I, deeply submissive and exploring that now, can make it comfortable and easy for my partner to show his dominant side? So far our dynamics have been the oposite, and we were both unhappy about it but made do for 8 years. :D Any input appreciated. Have a nice day

This is a really good question. I feel like I understand what induces submissiveness in me, but… what kind of behaviors induce dominance? How can you help your partner take the control you’re offering?

I asked SIR, and he told me that for him asserting power is natural, but he has to know that his boy wants to submit–and I think that’s a key part of any power exchange. It’s hot to play with control taken by force, but in order for the exchange to be safe and–perhaps stable is the right word–the Dom needs to know that control is welcomed, is safe. SIR writes, “that he will love and trust me unconditionally even when I am hurting him - and that he knows it’s part of training and development. In many ways the sub brings out the Dom by his need.”

With that in mind, I think it might be helpful to start by talking with each other and making sure he truly understands your desire–and limits–for submission. It sounds like your partner has a desire to be more assertive but he may need time to learn that it’s really okay to express it with you. We’re acculturated to express power in… very specific ways, and it’s usually taboo to just grab someone by the throat and push them against the wall, licking their–um, sorry. Where were we?

Ah, right. So when your partner knows you need him to take control, and you’ve offered it, I’d look for specific contexts and behaviors that can bring him into that headlong rush of top-space. SIR writes that for him, it’s “You physically below me. On the floor. At my feet. Strict SIR/Master protocol when speaking to me. Showing me you need to be used.”

Some submissive behavior seem widely embedded in Western culture; you can play on and amplify those. Height differential, for instance–try finding ways to look up at him, even if only by a few inches. Lay your head on his chest. Avoiding contact, eyes down, is a common submissive indicator. Allowing him to initiate eye contact and repeatedly breaking downwards is a pretty submissive move. Lip quivering, letting your head sink a little… Play around with your posture and expressions and see what happens. For me as a Dom, there’s nothing cuter than an eager lil puppy smiling up at me, so mileage varies!

Pick a title (Sir, Boss, Master, Daddy…) for your partner that makes you feel most submissive, and that makes him feel most powerful. Greet him on your hands and knees, licking his boots. Give him those longing puppy-dog eyes that say “I’m wholly yours.” Beg him to bite down harder. Thank him every time he exerts control. Don’t feel like you have to follow anybody else’s protocol–it’s OK to mix and match, and choose the things you most enjoy. :)

Adding physical restraints can induce a power differential too. Mitts make you dependent on your Dom for pretty much any human task–which gives them the power to deny you those privileges. Let him talk to you while you’re gagged–it forces you to listen, and gives him freedom to control the conversation.

It might be worthwhile to try D/s as a scene first. Maybe just an evening where you sink into the roles. Use clothing, posture, and language to establish a clear dynamic, enjoy a little impact play or sex or whatever, and then return to your normal roles. Take time to reconnect with each other and reassure one another that you still care and enjoyed the experience. The next day, when emotions have had a chance to settle, talk about specifics–what you found hot, what didn’t go so well. Try something new, repeat.

Having a clear delineation between D/s time and equal time can make it easier to deepen that trust we talked about earlier, and I think that’s key. In the 24x7 relationships I’ve been in, we fluidly switch between heavy protocol, a moderately playful level of dominance, and time as equals where we check in 100% earnestly with one another. Either way, he’s got to know you want it, and you’ve got to find what works for him!

It was a very enjoyable evening and we will be doing it again really soon. :)

Me and my dildo :) results of playing with Sir last night. Sir and I hadn’t seen eachother in two weeks so we had a lot of pent up sexual energy to express. It was such a hot night. I plugged myself with my dildo so my hole was nice and open for Sir to have his way with it hehe and did he. He restrained my legs to the arm straps of a standard bondage hand-feet restraints so my legs were up in the air. Perfect height for Sir to have access to my ass, hole, dick and balls hehe. Sir slipped his dick in a hollow shaft dildo and fucked my ass for the first time :) grrrrr it felt good. Usually when I’m fucked I either can’t feel anything or all I feel is pain. With Sir I could feel him hitting my prostate hehe. I need a lot more practice before I reach my full bottom potential but it was a great start :D. Hope we can do it again real soon since my ass seems to need a fucking more often now lol

I will be doing the same as my Boy with his break from porn and tumblr - I will be reblogging his updates, but no map porn from me! :) It is going to be a long two weeks.

Hey everyone. Here is the results of play with my Sir on Saturday. We actually got to play at his house since everyone was out for the day. We had a lot of fun. Sir was in a very sadistic so my nipples got worked really hard, to the point that Sir just brushing them ached. I am always amazed by the strength of his fingers lol

He than ran the prick wheel over my whole body back and front. We discovered that I like to have my feet worked over. The fun there started with Sir caressing the soles of my feet with his big toe nail and that felt great so he moved on to the prick and then finally whipped my feet with a riding crop and I have to say that was lots of fun hehe. It felt awesome!

The play time was fun but I have to see my dick never did get hard…which I see as a problem. Sir and I have discussed and we think that I may be having an adverse reaction to too much porn. I am so use to watching porn to get off that I am not responding accordingly to stimulation from an actual human. Therefore we have both decided to take a two week break from tumblr and see if that helps me with my issue. I will miss you all and I will still be posting about the play sessions and maybe some map porn but besides that I won’t be on tumblr. I want to thank all my followers for their support of my tumblr feed and I hope to see all of you in two weeks when I rejoin this awesome community :)