I Was Not Sure If I Enjoyed It Fully Last Night, But I Am Now Very Turned On By It. And With The Trees

I was not sure if I enjoyed it fully last night, but I am now very turned on by it. And with the trees in my yard, many more switchings will come. :)

Got me so turned on this afternoon... grrrr.

Hey boys and Sirs. Hope everyone had as fun of a Monday as I did hehehe. Sir and I met for play time but we didn’t get to do his gym workout since his boss couldn’t get off the phone fast enough so we ended starting later than normal but that didn’t mean we didn’t have tons of fun hehehe.

The pic is of my ass after a good switching. If you don’t know what a switch is it is a thin branch usually about a quarter of an inch thick that has been stripped of all knobs and smaller branches. It needs to be a recently cut branch so it has some bend to it and doesn’t break over a boy’s ass lol. Fathers would use it on their boys bottoms in the US usually in rural areas and part of the punishment involved having the boy cut his own switch.

Luckily I didn’t have to cut my own switch lol

I had joked with Sir last week about a switch while he was doing yard work. Little did I expect that he would show up with a freshly cut one on Monday lol. Now I have never had a switch or a can used on my ass so I didn’t know what to expect. I like trying new things so it was an adventure. I have always been more attracted to the use of hand or paddle on my ass.

Well after Monday the switch will be added to the play list lol. You wouldn’t think it would hurt that much since it is such a thin piece of wood. Well I have to tell you boys that it hurts worse then a paddle at full tilt lol. Sir didn’t have to smack at full swing for me to be so close to calling orange. I was in sooo much pain with such a tiny instrument lol.

My ass is still sore and its been almost 24hrs since he smacked my ass with it lol. Sir finds that the smack isn’t as satisfying as with the paddle but apparently the noises I made made up for the quieter smack of the switch. Also he loves how he was able to send me to bed in the morning with a sore ass. He has only gotten to do that once and really likes to do it. And the funny thing is my ass is still sore but the switch didn’t leave any bruising ir marks of any kind. I suggest to you Sirs that if you need to truely punish you boys don’t use the paddle use the switch lol.

After the switch we went to the hot tub got hit on by a cute bear and then went back to the room and had the real fun. Sir humped my ass till he spewed cum all over my ass hehehe. I felt like such a lucky boy that my ass was being marked by Sirs seed hehehe. MY Sir! Hehehe

It was such a fun night and I get reminded about it every time I sit down lol. Hope you all are staying naughty and having fun. See ja alls later :)

How to get your boy into Chastity! (updated)

If you want to develop a relationship with a male as your sub, this is the most potent thing you can do. Take away his manhood. Whether for a long term relationship, or a casual hookup buddy, this will consistently work….(as long as you hold the key). At first he will hate it and love it. And then he will crave it. Whether he is into kink or not. It will change his focus and he will hunger for more. Even a hardened Top will crave this new feeling. Make a bet with someone you like and then take him down his new path.

1. Tell him why you want to place him into a chastity cage *”I want you to be your horniest around me"*. 

2. Start Cheap. I recommend a cheap device from Ebay. Search for  Male Polycarbonate Chastity.

3. Put it on for him. Be careful and gentle. Don’t start out with uncomfortable pain. You want to integrate it seamlessly. The first time takes a while. If he has hair down there, leave it. He will discover he needs to shave on his own. Shaving will be his gift to you, if you want it.

4. Put his clothes on and take him out somewhere where you can both see how it feels while walking, sitting etc. (If he has pain, take it off. You want to get him into chastity, not hate you. Try another device.)

5. When you get home, take it off. Have him jack off for you. Then have him do it again. And again. At this point you should have no physical contact with him until he is caged.

5. Have him put it on himself. This is usually the time he will bring up shaving. This is up to you. If you let him shave, do it right. Downward strokes. You also want that freshly shaved area dry and exfoliated to prevent razor bumps. (While you have his clothes off, try to sneak the extra key into his wallet for emergencies etc.)

5. Tell him he will be in it for three days. That’s just enough time to drive him crazy. All he will think about now is his dick and how horny he is.

6. Introduce him to his nipples. Have him wear a Shirt and lightly play with them. Not nipple torture, light pleasure. Explain to him that the nipples are directly connected to his prostate area, and with training he can have an orgasm that feels great, but leaves him just as horny. This will take the attention off his penis while giving him a new path to pleasure. Anal play is for you, not him.

7.  Monitor him. Check for his comfort. This might not be the right cage for him. It can be too tight over time or too loose and pull out. (Try the Holy Trainer!)

8. On day three he will really want to cum. (You can play with him befor this time). It’s time for his first ruined orgasm. Have his hands behind his back, take the penis portion of the cage off only and stroke him making sure to let it go just as he is about to cum. This will ensure that this way of cumming is not pleasant for him and over time, he will not want it any more. Lock him back up. This time for 7 days. (He might not want to now, but he will soon. It is highly addictive.)

9. Have him really concentrate on using his nipples for pleasure. After some practice he will be able to release some boy juice into his cage relieving some pressure from his balls, but keeping him horny.

10. On day 7 give him another ruined orgasm. Keep on this 7 day schedule until he requests more. He will.

Now you have a good boy that wants nothing more than to please you, because it pleases him in his very depths.

We are getting there... Hehehe

Doesn’t my ass look damn hot boys and Sirs hehehe. Sir gave me an awesome switching before play time ended yesterday hehehe. You can see all the welts easily hehehe. I am soo happy with my Sir and his readiness to beat my ass when I need it :).

Sir and I had a really nice play time yesterday. We hit the gym HARD with Sir making vast leaps and bounds on his reps from last week :) I hope he felt the results from it today hehehe. He is sooo hot when he is all exhausted from a hard workout that I helped with :)

After the workout Sir let me do something that I talked about in my last post that I didn’t get to do last time. Ear his tasty ass. I am such an ass muncher that I really want it everyday all day lol. It just tastes so good and Sir makes such delicious noices from it hehehe. And sweaty post workout ass is even better :)

That got Sir riled up to take what he wanted hehehe. He had me on my stomach and humped a load into my ass crack grrrrrr that was sooo damn hot. I need that again right now grrrrrrr. Then after Sir got off we chatted and cuddled for a bit. This is just as important as play to Sir and I. You get to check in after play and see what was good and such. And cuddles are always awesome :)

Then we went to the hot tub to soak. Which I always enjoy. A big perk if the club is the hot tub. I really like hot tubs but don’t have access to one anywhere else. After hot tub soak we went back to the room and played around some more hehehe. Sir got soooo horned up that he was ready to stick his dick in my ass and fuck my pussy hehehe. It was a process since I kept forcing him out by accident. I not use to having other people shove things up my ass so my hole reacts accordingly. But for the first time ever I was able to relax my hole all by myself and let Sir in to my ass hehehe. I feel really guilty that he got part way in and then I told him to stop. It was starting to hurt and I didn’t want a repeat of previous times with my ex where I had to grin and bear it. But Sir isn’t my ex and he is more concerned about my comfortablility. I should have told him to wait a second while my ass got use to his dick being there and then have him keep moving forward. I really want to enjoy getting fucked but it us a process. I hope Sir will forgive me for my hesitation and will still be willing to explore anal with my ass as the prize to win hehehe. I want my pussy worked out by Sirs huge cock. Make me anal orgasm Sir grrrrrrrrr :)

Till next time boys and Sirs. Gute nacht

So your the master? Are you real dominent are strict? You kinda look cute silly and goffy, it's hard to see you being a "master" like other people mean it as pushy controlling my way or the high way kind of person that only cares about what they want. Are you like that?

Yes, I’m very silly.

Contrary to our portrayal in porn and media, Doms aren’t all pushy egomaniacs.  My partners’ needs are my needs and I do my best to keep our powerexchange-based relationship healthy.  foxbear says it best in this excerpt on his piece about surrender:

Contrary to popular portrayal of “Masters” and their “slaves” (mostly in porn), where Masters are all swaggering egomaniacs bent on crushing their pitiful slaves into a humiliating and degrading submission for a brief time before fucking their brains out, most Masters of my acquaintance are fairly humble people, and their ego is FAR removed from their ownership of slaves. Good Masters whom I know and respect take their responsibility for their slaves so seriously, view the gift of their total surrender and trust as so precious and awe-inspiring that they are humbled to their core by it, and respond accordingly, taking up and shouldering that responsibility with a kind of egoless symbiotic purity of need meeting need. A good and well-balanced Master/slave relationship is a beautiful thing to watch and see in motion. 

Read the entire piece here.

Also recommended reading: Practical BDSM for everyday relationships.

I had an amazing evening, I also enjoy it alot and with everything going on, it is quite relaxing and enjoyable.

Slow and steady makes Sir feel good :)

Hey boys and Sirs. Its a brand new week time for some more dirtyness hehehe. Sir had the day off so he was raring to go early in the day lol. Its a good thing that I woke up earlier then I was expecting so I could take advantage of Sirs day off hehehe. We were able to hit the gym a full hr early :). I put Sir thru his paces so he’d keep growinf his muscles hehehe. He was talking about how much they had grown by the next morning lol. Its a good thing that I insist that he works out so that he makes those gains because when he is super horny he always tries to escape his gym time lol.

But he always gets me back for his gym time lol. When we got back to the room he unlocked me from my chastity cage and I almost doubled over with how hard my cock was when it was coming out. The head almost didn’t want to come out of the cage lol. Sir was using the cage as a little makeshift jack sleeve. He claims he was helping :p uh huh lol so he did a quick suck of my engorged cock and then he wanted to go to the hot tub grrrrrr. Such an evil Sir lol. Me waiting there with my cock at full mast needing attention and he makes us go out into public so the whole club can see my hard cock lol.

He knows how to have fun with my mind lol. So we went to soak in the hot tub for a bit which I always enjoy. If I could install my own hot tub I would now lol. When we were nice and hot and my dick had decided to calm down we went back to the room and to a nice long night of sucking, fondling and rubbing hehehe. I was going back and forth between suckinf Sirs cock with all the gusto in the world and jacking him with just as much hehehe. I love how hard Sir gets when I jack him. I wish my hand could stay lubed all the time so I could keep jacking him without it getting sticky. Sie rhen would flip over and I’d feast on his ass grrrrrrr. I want my last meal to be Sirs ass hehehe. I get sooooo horny from that ass that I can’t hlelp but jump on it and hump it till I have no energy left in my body hehehe.

Then I’d go back to sucking and jacking Sir. Getting him close but him not coming for like an hour hehehe. I even hopped on top of him and was squat fucking his cock. Showing that my skills in that area were improving :). I can’t wait to use just my ass to make Sir cum hard hehehe. So finally when Sir just had to get off he climbed on top of me and first humped my ass some and then turned me over and jacked on my chest. Man was it such a hard cum for him hehehehe. He was in such a good mood foe the rest of the night that we went to the hot tub and then lounged by the pool for awhile just chatting and enjoy eachothers company :) I enjoy this aspect of our play sessions just as much as all the dirty sex. The emotional connection is what makes our play time sooo awesome and meaningful. :) I hope all you boys and Sirs are working towards the same goals in your kinky relationships HUGS you all have a nice day and stay kinky :p

Oh it was quite a fun night Boy, and we will have to see what we can do to edge you as much. hehehe  You did make awesome noises.

Edged till crying lol

Hey boys and Sirs. Hope you all are having a wonderfully horny day. I am still recovering from all the fun Sir and I had last night hehehe. Oh man was I one horny little boy all night lol. we didn’t even make it to the gym before playing lol. Sir pushed me against the wall of our room and was kissing me hard. Then he took out his dick and was rubbing it against me grrrrrrrr. I couldn’t help it. I pushed him onto the bed and attacked his cock with my mouth. I needed to taste it and make it hard and creamy mmmmmm. My knees hit the floor and my mouth was having the time of his life. Eventually Sir laid back and pulled down his pants and his shirt up so I could have full access to everything that I needed to make him real happy hehehe. I was all over the place doing everything I could till *pop* Sir came hehehe. I didn’t wven take any clothes off lol.

So after our little detour Sir and I hit the gym as usual. Sir is trying out a new app that we were working on figuring out. I kind of like it. It is more informative then the last one we used and the workouts are really helping Sir bulk up hehehe. He keeps trying to beat me so I have to keep upping my game so he doesn’t surpass me too badly lol. Its becoming a real challenge to keep up but the most important thing is that we are both making progress and not damaging anything :) if both our progresses keep up we will both have damn sexy chests by the end of the summer hehehe :)

So after the very successful gym time Sir and I hit the room again. Sir was playing with me the whole time about not unlocking me during our play session. As you can imagine I was not too pleased with hearing that idea. If I can’t get off its at least nice that I can get out of the cage for the play session. My dick looks forward to having some breathing time three days a week lol. So Sir was trying to cime up with a solution to the problem by suggesting that every forth time he got off he’d let me out lol. I’d say that I made such good worrisome noices to that idea that he finally settled with if I could find the key to my cage in the play bag he’d let me out. Thank goodness he didn’t distract me too much and I was able to find the key and get unlocked. And man did Sir not regret his decision lol. I was so FUCKING horny from the minute I got out of the cage. My dick was standing at attention and having soooooo much fun with Sir sucking on him and fondling him and making him scream with pain. I have never had that much fun being edged lol. I was going INSANE. I was humping the air, Sirs abs, him ass…..anything I could get my dick on! Grrrrrrrr if Sir could’ve taken it I would’ve fucked him into the next decade last night lol. I don’t know what was up but I hope it continues. I so enjoyed getting to be that horny. The time just flew by. It was almost time for us to leave before we even knew that it was time lol. I didn’t get off but I was really close. I think that the next time I get this horny I should be able to get off hehehe. I can’t wait. :)

Well you boys and Sirs enjoy your end of the work week and stay horny :)