Been Tightlacing For A Long While Now. I Can Damn Near Close It Completely. This Waspie Cincher Is A

Been tightlacing for a long while now. I can damn near close it completely. This waspie cincher is a 22 inch steel boned from a Jacksonville local goth store called "Subculture Corsets" i can't wait to be able to close it completely and I can move down an inch or 2. I have been wearing it to this warehouse gig i had for over 2 years, I'd wake up at 4am to get my son and I ready in a timely fashion without feeling rushed, and the cincher would go on when I got dressed. I worked an 8 hour shift (under normal circumstances) and I wouldn't get home until 5 or 6 pm depending on if I had errands to run directly after work or not. Then come straight out of it the second I get to my room.

One morning I had it so tight I couldn't breathe normal....but even when I got to work I still didn't loosen it. By the time 2pm rolled around it felt loose on me. So in the middle of a meeting I stood there and untied it, tightened it more to where it felt like a comfortable hug then tied it back. It felt like progress to me and it made me feel so good inside.

Can't wait for the next size down though. Also also after my car accident back in November I got xrayed and found out I have 12 herniated discs in different areas of my spine. And I have to admit that wearing a corset DOES FRICKEN WONDERS FOR THE SPINE!!!! Keeping a great posture helps prevent those annoying as hell back aches. So I havent looked back on not going a day without the corset ever since I realized I can work a physical job with it on and not be in pain. 😄💯🥰💓🤙🏾

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Funny thing. The mass majority of my ex's have admitted this to me. And it has me looking at them like 🤷🏾‍♀️"well you should have realized that when we were together butthead!"

People love to come back to me once they figure out that my aura, personality, energy, and love is one of a kind. Trust, you won’t find me or the way we meshed in any replacement. I’m unmatched. Period.

SPICE WORLD — 1997, dir. Bob Spiers 

And people who talk to me (like family and coworkers) just don't get that. They get mad at me for not talking to them like Disney princesses do to customers/guests. And have to keep reminding people. THIS AINT DISNEY WORLD. And you're not a child anymore.

“I’m not going to censor myself to comfort your ignorance.”

— Jon Stewart

Say it again

“You will not recognize me. This time, I put my pieces back differently.”

— Malia Makana, Like Differently Love