If A Person Wants To Be A Part Of Your Life, They Will Make An Obvious Effort To Do So. Think Twice Before

“If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do so. Think twice before reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay.”

— marcandangel

why tf is every damn good writer of jjk smut or maybe just a lot of random ass smut abt anything gotta have this female y/n who’s always fucking whimpering and stuttering like why do ppl gotta be acting like being submissive or something somehow means u don’t know how to talk or ask and receive what u want anymore without having to be a whiny bitch who’s just taking it as if it's not supposed to be a mutual fun experience like just write your damn smut without making y/n seem like such a fucking loser.

don’t even get me started on how a majority of smut normalizes y/n being solely the submissive crying-when-he-puts-the-cock-in-cuz-it’s-just-so-damn-good type and enjoys being degraded constantly like damn.

like it’s not to say that other ppl might not enjoy those things it’s just that there’s not enough smut where esp the female reader is just another person on equal footing or is the more dominant one verbally or psychologically or just switchy behavior.

this is just a mad rant where i’m complaining that’s all.

everyone thought i was too woke when i posted abt how i think sometimes the way people will refer to asmo as a GBF or see him as a "rival" is rooted in homophobia because he literally is obsessed with mc no matter what gender u are. he wants you so bad. he wants you so bad it makes him sick and crazy because hes not used to feeling this way about anyone . crazy that people feel like hes less of a romantic interest just because hes gender nonconforming & also talks abt being attracted to both men and women.. ???

Fernando pessoa // Frida Kahlo

gifts to give capricorn venus explained-ish!

@astrogre (sorry this has been in my drafts for months)

i was in a mood that day that i commented on this post of yours so please do forgive my bluntness in my comment on your post i just didn’t like that you didn’t capture the essence of what i wanted to hear about myself and that made me upset even though i could literally just write up a post myself on it and i did not have to take it out on you like that.

i would be honored (!) to explain to you that capricorn venuses don’t have to come off as capitalistic materialistic rich freaks unlike the stereotypes that are spread around like wildfire, so i don’t blame you obviously. like yes all those gifts would be nice i guess if you were a middle aged ceo but not every capricorn venus grows up to be a billionaire and those gifts come off to me as so impersonal and how do i say….? corporate culture ugly. i’d also like to argue that what you were saying wasn’t very “traditional” things to give to someone.

lol can you tell i have some 5th house/11th house placements teehee

firstly a little analysis in general. capricorn venus is literally saturn and venus meshed. so they’ve experienced frugality potentially in their ways of loving or being loved and may have felt like they couldn’t indulge in certain things at some point in their life. so they have a good understanding of their basic necessities they need to go forth and continue in life.

luxury and quality things aren’t always material things it can also just be quality time spent together, doing things for each other, spoiling them with specific items that peak their specific interests, etc. but yes quality materials are awesome and special to capricorns because they can be afraid to buy things for themselves. sustainability and longevity is ideal!

this venus sign likes old things! vintage and minimalism but not in the new modern age sense as in their home is white and classy and green or whatever, but they carry with them the things they’ve carried with them through the past. so can like definitely be old fashioned timeless type of antiqueness.

something useful that you can take with you and hopefully treasure that'll last forever and it doesn't need to be flashy unless it has some sort of significant meaning associated with capricorns. i feel like they might be picky or selective about what specifically they enjoy or who they like and indulge in but when they do set on someone or something they really will love it for as long as they can.

but truly just honoring their time with you is more than enough. like go ahead and throw some money at them and hug them and tell them you appreciate their presence in you're life and they’ll be happy. (if they actually like you of course) but i'd say verbal praise is wonderful in general for a capricorn venus especially from ppl they respect!

:)

“I’m not into convincing people I’m worthy. I’m into people who’ll convince me on my worst days that I’m still worth the world.”

— Reyna Biddy