"Therefore, I Am Not Obligated To Respond To Messages That Are Inappropriate Or Rude. Like I Said, If
"Therefore, I am not obligated to respond to messages that are inappropriate or rude. Like I said, if I don't respond to messages, it is because I am busy..." ----- If anyone is making you feel bad for not replying straight away, I'm sorry. Nobody should be forced or made to feel bad for not being able to reply. We are all busy, dealing with personal things or sometimes we just forget to respond. You seem like a lovely person and don't let anyone make you feel shitty for not being able to talk to them 24/7. If someone doesn't understand that others have lives and can't talk to them when it's convenient for them, then perhaps they need to take a step back and not blame others all the time, and be more empathetic) I have people on here that I don't reply to straight away, but we know life gets busy. We reply when we can. Doesn't mean we're mad or dont' wanna be friends anymore. I hope you are okay and have a good day!!
EXACTLY!!! I understand why it may be concerning that I don't respond right away, but who knows? They might be in school or have a job that take up a majority of their day and sometimes all they want is to rest and unwind, and depending on their time zone, go to sleep.
Just because they're active, they might be too tired to have a long conversation with someone, I would rather they take care of their mental and physical well-being. And same with me, I need to take some time to look after myself as well.
Thank you for your concern and for understanding. I am doing well, and I hope you have a good rest of your day/night. :)
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Someone PLEASE put these two in a movie together! Please!!!!
I FOUND MORE BABY MORPHEUS! 🥺






Okay, I am calling it now:
His name may be Death, but wouldn't you know it? This eight, maybe ten-foot floofer has an absolute soft spot for children. This might surprise some people, but even though some younger ones may be frightened of him at first, with a few little tricks on his part, they will eventually warm up to him and soon enough, he's got a whole group of kids crowded around him, petting him and as I have said before, he might not admit it, but he loves pets and ear scritches. He also knows to keep his sickles out of their reach because next thing you know, they'll be fighting with them like swords and it's all fun and games until someone gets poked in the eye.
Anyway, that's all I have to say.


high five!!....... ....???
Hello!
For those who are just following me or who've just become mutuals with me, here's a post that can help you get to know me a little bit more.
My name's Jessyca and I'm from Canada. I post now and then if I have anything remotely important to say or just wanna spew random thoughts. I'm also Batman, but you're not supposed to know that so forget I told you.🤫 (This is a joke, by the way. I WISH I could be that awesome!)
I am in a lot of fandoms including (but not limited to) Avengers, Good Omens, James Bond, Peaky Blinders, Pirates of the Caribbean, Puss in Boots, Sherlock Holmes, The Sandman, Three Musketeers (2011) Twilight, and Umbrella Academy. I'd be happy to talk about any of those topics, or maybe you can introduce me to some new stuff.
Sometimes it takes me a bit to truly feel comfortable with someone, but I promise you I don't bite! 😁
As far as activity goes, it's a bit of a toss-up. I will usually pop on in the early mornings before starting my day or at night just before bed, but other than that anywhere from 11:00AM - 8:00 PM is usually when I am busy with projects or staring at a blank screen watching the cursor blink.
Sorry, I was trying to be funny there.
Seriously, though. I have about five or six different stories that I am working on and have yet to publish to the world wide web, including two fanfictions, I make audios for YouTube and Patreon that I have to write scripts and record, I also make edits for TikTok.
By the end of the day I am left feeling pretty worn out mentally, so sometimes all I want to do is kick back, relax and watch a little bit of TV and unplug from social media.
On top of that, there are real life obligations I must tend to, as I am sure a lot of you do, and I have family coming over almost every week, which I honestly desperately need because it encourages me to unplug for a bit and live in the moment without worrying about deadlines and stuff.
It is tricky to juggle it all at once and schedules can change and if I don't respond to comments, messages and posts you've mentioned me in right away, please be patient with me and understand that I am in no way doing it on purpose and will respond when I can, even if it takes me a while to do so.
I wish I could just set a consistent schedule and tell myself to work on one thing at a time, but my brain hasn't gotten the message yet, so until then, I greatly appreciate your patience.
Just because we don't talk everyday or sometimes have periods where we don't speak for weeks or months at a time, it doesn't mean we're not friends, it simply means we trust each other enough to check in every now and then.
We all have struggles, some we keep hidden from the rest of the world, we all go through rough times, and if you are one of those people, I see you, I love you and I support you and I want you to take care of yourself, even if it means taking that extra step. Find your safe space, find a place where you can forget about your troubles for a bit, be it online or offline. If you are not in the right headspace to be on social media and need to take a break for the sake of your mental health, please do so!
I value healthy friendships, which means when we have conversations, we both feel comfortable around each other and we respect each other's time and feelings. Therefore, I am not obligated to respond to messages that are inappropriate or rude. Like I said, if I don't respond to messages, it is because I am busy with the things listed above, or I am asleep and I don't have the talent to text people in my sleep and need I go into time zones? They are wacky!
I am sure a lot of us would prefer to keep any sort of conversations light-hearted, and I can understand that because I do tend to worry a lot about everything and everyone, sometimes to the point I can't even sleep at night.
Anyway, that's all. I am sorry if this is long, I feel like I just needed to post this just in case any of you wanted to know a little more about me and my life behind the screens. Get it? Instead of behind the scenes? ...... I'm gonna show myself out now.
Autocorrect is hilarious. Every time I have been trying to write this man's name, so far, they have tried to correct it to "Alabama" and "Obama"
Like, c'mon. I already have enough fanfic ideas, don't make me wanna make Obama a member of the Peaky Blinders.
