Jessie Speaks - Tumblr Posts
I'm watching Lyle, Lyle Crocodile with my niece (her new favourite movie, besides Frozen) and it's surprisingly good.
What can I say? I'm a kid at heart.
Aww, thank you! You and the other members of the Peaky Blinder fandom have been so welcoming and I really appreciate being accepted among the community. :)
Have you ever been knees-deep in a fandom and then found a perfectly good fanfiction on AO3 related to that fandom so you binge-read all the released chapters in one day, but then realize that now you have to wait for the next chapter to be released?
I Have.
"Therefore, I am not obligated to respond to messages that are inappropriate or rude. Like I said, if I don't respond to messages, it is because I am busy..." ----- If anyone is making you feel bad for not replying straight away, I'm sorry. Nobody should be forced or made to feel bad for not being able to reply. We are all busy, dealing with personal things or sometimes we just forget to respond. You seem like a lovely person and don't let anyone make you feel shitty for not being able to talk to them 24/7. If someone doesn't understand that others have lives and can't talk to them when it's convenient for them, then perhaps they need to take a step back and not blame others all the time, and be more empathetic) I have people on here that I don't reply to straight away, but we know life gets busy. We reply when we can. Doesn't mean we're mad or dont' wanna be friends anymore. I hope you are okay and have a good day!!
EXACTLY!!! I understand why it may be concerning that I don't respond right away, but who knows? They might be in school or have a job that take up a majority of their day and sometimes all they want is to rest and unwind, and depending on their time zone, go to sleep.
Just because they're active, they might be too tired to have a long conversation with someone, I would rather they take care of their mental and physical well-being. And same with me, I need to take some time to look after myself as well.
Thank you for your concern and for understanding. I am doing well, and I hope you have a good rest of your day/night. :)
Same anon here 👋
I forgot about timezones too. That plays a major factor in replying to messages. And for some responding to messages can be overwhelming, especially if you have had a long day or aren't in the mood. I rather someone reply when they feel better and actually want to, rather than feeling forced to reply out of fear/anxiousness that the other person will get mad. And also if the person doesn't check in and ask how you are doing, but expects you to, then that is wrong. You are 100% allowed to take your time in responding to messages or asks. Nobody should bully or make you feel shitty for taking your time and looking after yourself after a long day, ,personal issues, etc Thank you for answering my asks and being so lovely and kind. 😊
Of course! 😊
Same goes for the people on the other end. If things are busy or chaotic, or you just aren't in the mood or headspace to have a conversation or respond to my messages, I completely understand. I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to put your own mental well being first. Please take some time away, unplug from social media if you need to and look after yourself and feel free to come back whenever you're ready.
Hey there Jessyca! ☺️
I wanted to send a little sunshine your way in hopes that it’ll brighten up your day!
I’m so thankful you’re part of this community! 💕
Thank you so much! This is just what I needed to feel a little better. ✨
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR ALL THE LOVE!
hello beloveds ☺️
You know when you go on Tumblr and you look under a specific hashtag and then they show you a thousand other things that have little to nothing to do with what you're looking for? Yeah, so how specific do you want me to be?