Thefemininerage - "Unbowed, Unbent, Unbroken"

There had been a time when she had been well loved by highborn and commons alike, when they had cheered her as the Realm’s Delight. Many a young lord and noble knight had sought her favor then…though how many would still fight for her, now that she was a woman wed, her body aged and thickened by six childbirths, was a question none could answer.

I fucked around a lot w rake brushes on this one and I'm not sure about them, still. However, book Nyra! I've been reading fire & blood (to keep myself from rereading asoiaf, mostly) and if there is One thing GRRM does very well is making you forget that the characters live in a hellish lovecraftian world by distracting you with mundane politics and misogyny. Or maybe the misogyny is part of that, who knows. Wondering if I will have the time or the willpower to also do book Alicent

Hey can you explain what are stellium because I googled it but couldn’t get a clear understanding. If you want to though.

Lots of love 💗.

Birth Chart Stelliums

Hi sweetie! Absolutely I'd be happy to explain :)

A stellium is when you have 3 or more planets in the same sign or house. Some people say it's when there's 4 or more planets, but generally speaking it's 3 or more planets.

For example: if you were to have Mercury, Mars and Pluto all in Scorpio; you would have a Scorpio stellium. Or if you were to have Mercury, Mars and Pluto all in the 3rd House; you would have a 3rd House stellium. Obviously it can be any of the planets, in any of the signs and any of the houses though.

Now, what does this mean? How does it affect your chart?

Whichever planet(s) or house(s) your stellium is in has a general influence over all aspects of your life. This can cause people to not relate to some aspects of their other placements.

For example: If you're an Aries Venus but have a Capricorn stellium; you might be much more committed and traditional in love than Aries Venus usually is. You might take things much slower, and be more financially stable and reliable.

Now you may be thinking, great! You know what a stellium is, but what does it mean to have a stellium in the specific sign/house you have it in? This is what each stellium could mean for you:

Aries/1H Stellium: A lot of your life, and your lessons, are about yourself. I'm not saying you're selfish (although you could be), I'm saying there's a lot of personal work you need to do. You could be an incredibly passionate person, or quick to anger- but also quick to cool down. Other people could find you very motivating and energizing to be around. You could be rather impatient. First impressions and outward appearance could matter a lot to you, or you could be a very different person from what everyone else first sees. You could have an issue with authority, or relying on others. You prefer to lead, generally speaking. You learn by doing things. You may be quite honest and upfront. You might say a lot of things or have a lot of friends, but it's very hard to actually get to know you.

Taurus/2H Stellium: You may be a very indulgent person. While that is not bad, you might have to learn to watch yourself sometimes. You're incredibly hardworking and headstrong. For you, financial security is so important. I mean it's important for everyone obviously, but you'll sacrifice and work your ass off and consciously make SURE you are financially stable. You may be quite a romantic person. By romantic, I mean seeing the beauty in the essence of everything. You are the type to stop and truly appreciate a pretty flower you see on a hike, or really savour a bite of cake, or sit there and think about how wonderful your friends are. Material possessions may be very important to you. To you, it's a clear way of seeing your financial success and stability. You also definitely like to feel/smell/taste/look nice.

Gemini/3H Stellium: You are an overthinker. You are a truly gifted communicator. Your writing, speaking, multi-tasking, learning skills are all amazing. You might have messy handwriting though, because your brain works VERY fast. You like to know exactly what's going on in the world and with the people around you. You may be something of a gossip. You have an excellent understanding of people, especially the people you surround yourself with, though you may struggle to emotionally relate to them. You're talented at actually connecting with people, but forming very deep and emotional relationships may be the struggle. The way to truly get to know you is through intellectual discussion. You are quite open and honest if people ask the right questions. You are the definition of 'work smarter not harder'

Cancer/4H Stellium: You have been put on this Earth to create. 'Birth' or 'creation' is a massive lesson that Cancer and the 4th House teaches, and I think you guys have it down. You may be very nurturing or maternal (no matter your gender). You may be a homebody. You may strive to help others, or make them feel comfortable. You love healing people, in whatever way that might resonate for you. You may be very selfless, which is noble, but please remember that you matter! Your wellbeing is paramount! Anyway, there is tenderness at your core. Tender because you have been hurt and tender because you strive to make sure that everyone (including you) is able to heal. You are deeply empathetic. This very well may be a result of trauma, especially familial trauma. You may have this sense of needing to 'break the cycle' or 'rewrite the story' when it comes to your family or any trauma you have.

Leo/5H Stellium: Creation is at your core. In a much different way to Cancer, though. You create for self expression and joy. Or at least, to bring joy. There's a lot of emphasis on self love and acceptance for you. You fiercely love and defend the ones you care about, which is wonderful, but you need to learn to feel that for yourself as well. You may thrive on the attention, or at least the praise of others. You could be rather flirty at times. You try to think with your head, but ultimately that just won't entirely work for you. You are passionate and dedicated. Use it. Don't try to be too logical, because that's not how you will become your happiest and most fulfilled self. Allow yourself to do the things you always wanted to when you were a child. You may find listening to your creative desires can help heal inner struggles as well.

Virgo/6H Stellium: There may be an emphasis on health throughout your life (please simply take that as it resonates for you). You're quite analytical and methodical. You're incredibly observant, and ever-curious of people; especially the people around you. Animals and pets may be important to you. You're a fast learner and have the potential to be a great leader. You are very hardworking and your career is incredibly important to you. Not necessarily for the money, but because you want to contribute to society and whatnot. You're just naturally a good worker, reliable and continuous. This isn't to say you're especially stubborn though. Honestly you're quite flexible and can easily adapt to your surrounds. You may be very interested in politics. Your debating skills are unmatched.

Libra/7H Stellium: Balance and fairness are key virtues of yours. This applies in pretty much every area of your life. Most typically though, the law and in partnerships. You may be very passionate about social justice causes, or they may be very close to your heart. You are the type to hear someone out when they make a mistake, and be relatively non-judgemental to those around you. Like Taurus, you are quite romantic. You are romantic in less of a deep appreciation way, and more of an optimistic and dreamy way. Your relationships, romantic or otherwise, serve to teach you the most lessons. They are incredibly important to you. You could get married young, or it may be incredibly important to you (especially if you have a 7th House stellium).

Scorpio/8H Stellium: Your life is likely to have gone through a lot of changes. Possibly a lot of moving house/city/state/country, possibly death, possibly a lot of difficult lessons learned early on for you. You may have a lot of karma, or a lot of the things you go through may be karmic lessons. You may serve as karma for other people. You are incredibly observant and have this innate ability to see through people. Lying to you is useless. You may have struggled with loneliness throughout your life, with your greatest wish to be truly known and loved for who you are by another person. Trust is the most important thing to you. You may be talented or interested in the occult. You are a very sweet, sensitive person. Although that's a part of yourself you're reluctant to admit and petrified to show anyone.

Sagittarius/9H Stellium: For someone who always seems so youthful, you have an abundance of worldly knowledge. Learning is a passion of yours, and a talent too. You learn through experiences, which is why you may thrive in higher education (university, apprenticeship, internship, etc). You see the universe in a truly unique way. You pick up little pieces of everyone you meet and talk to, you truly value everyone's story. You may be very interested in other cultures. Discussing philosophical and fundamental questions that have no clear answer is real past time for you. I say 'discuss' instead of 'debate' because you do not believe there is any correct answer. You're open, and understanding of everyone's beliefs. Probably the most true humanitarians.

Capricorn/10H Stellium: You may have heard they you're 'mature for your age' quite a bit when you were younger. There may have been an emphasis on career or school for you throughout your life, however that resonates for you (could be that you struggled and couldn't do it, or could be that you excelled). Regardless, you are incredibly ambitious. You feel a sense of panic or dread when you think too hard about the future sometimes because you don't know what's coming. Security is also paramount for you. Money struggles may have a big issue in some points in your life, and it's a major goal for you to never struggle like that again. You are very sarcastic, honestly super funny. You may love giving gifts, feel the need to 'provide' or show through physical possessions how much you care about the people in your life. You may have a reputation for being a certain way, or skilled or very interested in a certain thing. You may get married or get involved with romance later in life.

Aquarius/11H Stellium: You are deeply empathetic and humanitarian. The world and the state we are in may be quite overwhelming for you at times. Social justice causes always very important to you. There may be an emphasis on friendships in your life. More specifically, the struggle to find long-term and deep friendships. There's a lot of people you end up invested in that may leave. You are wildly intelligent. This doesn't necessarily mean you had amazing grades in school (although it could), it counts for any kind of knowledge. You may become successful in life through the connections you make or people you know. You could be skilled in things regarding technology or social media.

Pisces/12H Stellium: There could be a lot of themes regarding spirituality and the universe in your life. A lot of lessons could come to you in dreams, or in spiritual readings. You are also deeply empathetic. You may use your empathy to ease people up and help them. Especially with people suffering from mental illness or otherwise struggling to open up to people. Music may be a key way you express your emotions. You may use more personal things such as clothes or makeup express yourself creatively. You may have a lot of karma or lessons to learn in this life. Most likely things that have carried over from past lives. It's possible you have a strained relationship with your mother in some way. It's possible you didn't excel in school, and were better once actually working or doing emotive, creative things. You are truly a soft soul, though.

This is what I have for today! I really hope this cleared things up for anyone struggling with stelliums. Thank you so much for reading, and thank you so much for asking. Sending you all lots of love <33

House Tyrell. New Great House portrait from ASOIAF.

placements i dislike as an air dominant ｡˚۰˚☽˚

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❍ sagittarius moons,

i know many sagittarius moons, and they all share something similar in common. they don’t. shut. up. and it’s not like the funny kind of talkative, they’re just always saying random things that are so annoying and off topic. they mostly don’t think before they speak, and say things that offend others easily. also, another observation with this placement, they tend to show off often? they like to brag about their “talents” whether it’s subconscious or not. personally, i find them boring and unoriginal.

❍ a mix of leo + virgo placements,

some of the most. demanding. judgy. and hypocritical people. ever. the type of people to give you unsolicited advice that they literally never even follow. they have this ego to them that is difficult for them to see in themselves, because the mix of these two placements creates an individual who often feels they’re always right. and many times they are right when it comes to practical things, because they stick to the facts. however, they seem to have a hard time understanding that MY perspective is different from YOUR perspective.

❍ virgo venus,

i’m not 100% against this placement, but i have a problem with them because they seem to always have an opinion on your relationship, when they’ve never experienced a solid relationship before. it’s like they always have a problem with everything, and their standards in love are so picky and finicky, and then when they finally get in a relationship you look at their partner and are like.. “you were giving me advice.. and you pull this..?” LMFAOOO..

❍ scorpio stelliums,

just.. uncomfortable energy. because i can’t read easily inside the minds of their thoughts, i can only feel them. they’re so used to manipulation in their lives, they’re masters at it. they know how to twist your words and make you feel powerless and make you question yourself, even if you’re using logic. it’s scary because you can catch these people CONSTANTLY lying and creating situations that aren’t real. their words are so convincing and convicting that you question yourself. little sneaky ass bitches.. your trust issues give me trust issues lmao.

❍ personal planets in the 7th house,

there is definitely something respectable about this placement; they’re kind, easy going, friendly, and never really bother you up front. but truthfully they’re just so wrapped up and involved with the way people perceive them, that they struggle to really benefit anyone. they care so much about relationships and being in love and having someone around them and being perfect and making sure everyone likes them. these are the friends to constantly be talking to someone romantically, and oftentimes they never learn from their past relationships and experiences because they’re stuck in constant loops of getting involved with the same types of people. they can be really wrapped up in their own “perfect place,” and not realize how delusional they look lol.

❍ pluto in the 3rd house,

you just cannot be trusted. pathological liars. it’s like.. gemini moon x10. these people struggle with friendships and staying upfront. this is like a mixture of scorpio and gemini energy, and that creates someone who is a master at lying. they so easily come up with such intense, bizarre things that it’s difficult for you to not believe them… because… who would say that? but often times they tend to avoid and dodge conversations that they know will get them in a fickle, because they always find themselves caught up in the middle of drama. seriously the hardest people to put your trust into.

❍ scorpio venus,

listen i have nothing against the love a scorpio venus can provide.. but.. if you’re a scorpio venus and you make an opinion on someone else’s relationship.. shut the fuck up. just shut up. because you’re so afraid to be vulnerable and open up to someone but you crave it so badly. must be so sad.. do not project your insecure problems onto other people. your love life is bland but mine isn’t, so if there’s envy just keep it to yourself.

please do not take these 100% to heart! these are just my opinion, and everyone views things differently

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- ᥫ᭡ liv

Ppl really be assigning themselves into noble houses from asoiaf as if we don't all belong in flea bottom. Like bestie stop lying to yourself and see you in flea bottom, ya filthy fucking peasant.