Misha All Genders (and Not Just Binary!) Felt A Little Heteronormative Your Phrasing Is Irking Non-binary

misha “all genders (and not just binary!)” “felt a little heteronormative” “your phrasing is irking non-binary people” “stay strong and stay gay” collins reblog if you agree

How could I not reblog this? ❤️

THE CASTIEL EFFECT

My Mum: *S1* Sammy Forever!

My Mum: *S2* Sammy Forever!

My Mum: *S3* Sammy Forever!

My Mum: *S4* Goodbye Sammy.

(@narraukoiel your post about Misha’s lips reminded me of when this happened! And, if I’m remembering correctly, her actual words were: “The angel is mine.”)

The “close bond”-requirement can happen very quickly or very slowly, it’s a very individual thing, and is different from person to person. There is no time-limit, if it feels right calling yourself “demi”, call yourself that. 

I struggled with this myself. I felt like a fraud, because I had experienced primary sexual attraction once a couple of years back. But then it hit me, that it was probably more a case of “the exception confirms the rule”, more than “proof” of allosexuality. 

I call myself demisexual, because  it feels right, and nobody can tell me, or you, that what you identify with is wrong. It’s really only your decision what you call yourself, and you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. 

Am I still demisexual if I don’t require a super close bond?

Like, what it’s someone I’ve been friends with for a few months?

Would I be gray-asexual then?

so who else gets irrationally afraid and embarrassed about their interests being known to people in real life

Thank the Gods for Misha’s intagram account, and all the recent posts about West and Maison visiting the set ❤️ It fills me with so much joy ! I love the Collins-family 💖💖