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How do you tell the difference between romantic and like aesthetic attraction or just the want for closeness. I think I might be aroace but…

Ive gotten nervous and giddy about people’s pretty smiles but with the one I dated it wore off entirely.

Ive had happy melty warm feelings about friends too.

Every feeling I had about my partner while in a romantic relationship felt no stronger then the hyperfixations I’ve had on characters in media.

I regularly imagine myself in romantic relationships with people but if I do too realistically I feel rlly uncomfy about it but mainly because I feel like it’s hard to make connections with anyone.

watching certain romantic shows n stuff I feel like I want what they have but at the end of the day it’s the intimacy I feel like I really want.

Basically I don’t know what I’m feeling and wanted to tell this out into the void and maybe delete. Who knows.