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Your monthly reminder that proshippers, comshippers and new ‘darkshippers’ are NOT allowed on my page. Go fuck yourselves, no one wants a predator.

𝑾𝑯𝑨𝑻 𝑰 𝑾𝑰𝑳𝑳 / 𝑾𝑶𝑵'𝑻 𝑾𝑹𝑰𝑻𝑬 ⸻ i will write fem , AFAB , masc , AMAB , and gender neutral reader . there will be dark content present in my writing such as gore, vomit, family abuse ( only in my self insert stories (s) ), torture, body horror, power dynamic(s) / power inbalance, victim blaming, death, murder, very morally wrong things, and things of that nature . etc !

i will not write nsfw . dark content nsfw . pedophilia . incest . anything pertaining to ‘de-transitioning’ . age regression . sexual assault . rape . cheating . physical self harm . etc !

𝑫𝑶 𝑵𝑶𝑻 𝑰𝑵𝑻𝑬𝑹𝑨𝑪𝑻 ⸻ basic dni criteria . (homophobia, transphobia, zenophobia, ableists... etc.) . doesn't support neopronouns / xenogender . people who age up minors and write erotica about them . pro + com shippers . lolicons . mlm & wlw fetishizers . minors dni blogs, i am a minor and if you interact with my content than i'll interact with yours . under the age of twelve or over the age of twenty-one . constantly gets into online discourse . if you’re a dream / dsmp watchers & fan . if you're a zionist / israel supporter or if you're 'neutral' gtfo my page .

There has been some light drama happening between one of my mutuals ( @silvashapeshifter ) and a group of proshippers on this app recently, and i decided to speak up about this.

My opinion and my DNI can be summarized by saying "illegal or problematic shipping is something somewhat bad,it makes me uncomfortable therefore stay away please."

The argument with the proshippers that my mutual was facing was that "proship doesn't mean problematic shipping, it just means open to all shipping!"

Okay. Awesome. If that's how the non-problematic ones want to define themselves, all great, I support you guys to a certain level.

Except the problematic ones don't bother using a term specific for them. They call themselves proshippers, that's facts. "Emm you say "Proshippers DNI" but you dont know what proship achtually means!!" I do, but sorry y'all, you are under the same term and I want to keep myself SAFE. I cannot stop using that term because a few of you sticked to the original meaning while a disturbing amount of them romantically ship minors and adults/family members... and interacted with me a few times.

I am not pro bullying, doxxing, harassing anyone. I want my page to stay a safe place for me. And that includes calling problematic shippers proshippers until their community collectively decides to use a new name.

*drops the mic and dramatically leaves the stage*

look you’re allowed to be and feel uncomfortable with anyone and anything but proship really just means open to all shipping, even the “problematic” ones.

Also even if they do like that kind of ships, it’s completely irrelevant. You mind your own business? You don’t go out of your way to harass people? You’re not openly calling them kid fiddlers? You mute tags and block people? Congrats, that’s what proship means. And seriously I mean it, go on. Block. Mute. Set down your boundaries! I encourage you, I want you to do this

I'ma reply the same way Silva did : please don't hide behind anonymous asks, I know you can do better than that

I do block and am dedicated in that, I just wanted to speak up about that tiny issue that exists in this argument of how to call problematic shipping.

Non problematic shippers can't expect people to read their minds and be kind/accepting to them when they share a name with the problematic ones. No idea if Im being clear..

People are allowed to like fiction you are uncomfortable with. You are allowed to feel uncomfortable with fiction other people like. But in the end, it is just fiction. No one is being hurt. No real person is a victim. You should start curating your own online experience. Block and mute and move on. You'll feel so much better when you stop wasting time whining about what fiction other people like.

You seem a lot more dedicated in this whole thing than Silva and I ever were if you ask me. I was literally just saying I block and mute, but the one time I started stating boundaries you jumped in ; then ask me to move on.

"No real person is hurt" is an outright lie because young people exposed to proshipping might get biased ideas/REAL people have been hurt by issues like this.

Either you get off the anonymous asks and start being proud of your statements so i can block you LIKE YOU'RE TELLING ME, either you stop this at all. Have a good day /gen

YES!! There are moments when I'm just relaxing and doing nothing, and I really want to hug him, he's the type to take a while to process and he doesn't give in easily, but he returns the hug!!

Are there moments where you just cannot resist your f/o? Where do you have to hug them, nuzzle them or pat them? Either because you desire to feel their body warmth or they are just being so adorable that you cannot keep your hands off of them? Because they are smiling so brightly that you are just overwhelmed with the urge to show how much in love you are with them?

Are they returning the embrace without hesitation or do they need time to process it? Or perhaps they are flustered, trying to resist the urge to return the favor yet give in eventually. They appreciate it regardless of the reaction.

Long story short, make sure to show your f/o as much affection as possible, even in your own way. No matter what you do or how you do it, they will appreciate it!

Proship/Comship do not interact please!

「 ✦ DNI ✦ 」

˚₊‧꒰ა ☆basic dni criteria ໒꒱ ‧₊˚

⤷ I'm not completely knowledgeable about all the terms for people I'd like to avoid so apologies if you get blocked unexpectedly!

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ people against self shipping (your in the wrong place then buddy)

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ people against object self ships

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ proshippers or conshippers please do not interact it makes me uncomfortable!!

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ people 18+ can interact but don't be weird lol

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ people against therians/otherkin DNI

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ people who like to make or bring up drama

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ people who like to bring up politics

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ completely nsfw accounts, tagged and minimal nsfw content can interact (text only)

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ against or sexualizes age regression and/or pet regression

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ blogs with lots of controversy on them

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ blogs with downer vibes (just overall sad or depressing vibes, related to last point)

˚₊‧꒰ა PLS DO INTERACT ໒꒱ ‧₊˚

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ neopronoun & xenogender users

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ other selfshippers!!

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ therians/otherkin

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ LGBTQ+ folks

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ people who gush about their favorite things (I love seeing people passionate about even little things ^^)