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GUYS ,A QUESTION?(genuely serious and imp question)

is it normal for parents to like...say things like

1 "tang toar dungi/dunga"

(TRANSLATION:" i will break your legs!")

2 "utha ke patak dunga/patk dungi"

( TRANSLATION:" i will pick up and thow you on the floor !" thtas the closets translation icould ghink of)

3 " jhapad padega zoor se ! "

(TRANSLATION: ill slap you really hard/you'll get slaped realy hard !)

4 " school se naam katwa ke ghar pe jhadu pocha karwane bethake shaadi karwadijaygi ! "

(TRANSLATION: "well have your name cut from school, well make you do cleaning , cooking, then mary you off ! ")

5 " mu tor dunga/dungi"

9TRANSATION : "ILL BREAK YOUR FACE !")

etc etc When your were 11? 7? 4? and even now? for the smalest of things and geting a sum wrong.

is it normal or is like the thrats of voilence just normalised in our culture. also non indians what are your thoughts on yhis ? how bad is this?

add on too this is it normal for them to throw things at you and break you stuff?

is it normal to get yelled at for wanting to sleep alone since i am nearly alomst going to be 16?

is it normal to get yelled at for wanting a closed door?am i wird for wanting a closecd door?

is it normal for my father to throw me on the floor when i was in 1st 2 nd grade and i did a sum the way my teacher told me and not the way he said and i told him this but he just threw me on the floor brfpore slaping and bashing my head?

is it normal for parents to say " why do you make me do this? i dont like doing this to you." and i have to aopligise?

i genuionly dont know if its normal,part of culture or what so plesae people any one got htoughts becuse i am drowining in guilt and would like outside perspective pleases