It Takes Time To Heal - Tumblr Posts

Forgiveness and moving on are two different things that people seem to forget aren't the same or that you don't need one for the other to work.

You don't need to forgive someone to heal, you need to move on to heal not forgive. Although yes forgiving someone can help with letting go and healing, it is not a necessity for the healing process to begin or continue further.

You don't need to move on to forgive someone. You can hate what they did to you all you want but that doesn't me you can't forgive them.

Just because someone tells you you should forgive them doesn't mean you have to. No matter what reason they give as to why they should be forgiven it is your choice to forgiven them. Forgiveness isn't something that should be rushed or forced, forgiveness should take time as much time as you need whether that be minutes, weeks, months or years it should only be given when your ready to forgive.

Same thing with moving on and letting go it should take as much time as you feel is needed. It takes different people different amounts of time to heal, it does not make you wierd or broken its completely human to take as much or as little time to heal as you need just remember your going to be ok. I won't lie and say everything will magically turn out ok but eventually you will be ok again no matter how long it takes it will happen I promise you