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Forgiveness and moving on are two different things that people seem to forget aren't the same or that you don't need one for the other to work.

You don't need to forgive someone to heal, you need to move on to heal not forgive. Although yes forgiving someone can help with letting go and healing, it is not a necessity for the healing process to begin or continue further.

You don't need to move on to forgive someone. You can hate what they did to you all you want but that doesn't me you can't forgive them.

Just because someone tells you you should forgive them doesn't mean you have to. No matter what reason they give as to why they should be forgiven it is your choice to forgiven them. Forgiveness isn't something that should be rushed or forced, forgiveness should take time as much time as you need whether that be minutes, weeks, months or years it should only be given when your ready to forgive.

Same thing with moving on and letting go it should take as much time as you feel is needed. It takes different people different amounts of time to heal, it does not make you wierd or broken its completely human to take as much or as little time to heal as you need just remember your going to be ok. I won't lie and say everything will magically turn out ok but eventually you will be ok again no matter how long it takes it will happen I promise you

So I thought of something, No one intentionally hates themselves, they truly just want something in their life to make them complete. The same goes for hate, we're not mad at them but ourselves for getting mad, which then makes us mad lol our brain is literally thinking ontop of what you're thinking, no matter how hard you try saying, Don't be sad, Don't be sad. Especially when other people tell you not to be, you will be sad. It's kinda dumb but I have been lying to myself a ton lately! It has helped a lot with my own positivity to the point where I sorta start to believe the lies.. instead of being mean and lying to myself about how I wanna die, I truly just wanna live and be happy with my own life and not be in pain every single day... but this has put a new perspective i see on trolls too, They're the most unhappy people despite the Fake laughs to get you triggered. They have no hope or happiness in their lives, so they attack you or things you love. Cause nothing satisfying to them.

Isn't it strange to be self aware and sad all the time lmfao

~How quickly did I descend into a realm where I resemble that of a wild beast, due to the many times I didn't get the help I needed, causing independence to become my broken, flawed, and decaying excuse for a default?~

-a poem of a new kind

The #MeToo Movement: Empowering Voices, Catalyzing Change

Shaina Tranquilino

October 23, 2023

In recent years, the #MeToo movement has emerged as a powerful force for social change, shedding light on the pervasive issue of sexual harassment and assault. This global movement has empowered millions of survivors to share their stories and challenge the culture of silence that once shrouded these experiences. In this blog post, we will delve into the significance of the #MeToo movement, its impact on society, and its potential to bring about lasting change.

The Power of Shared Experiences:

One of the defining aspects of the #MeToo movement is its ability to foster solidarity among survivors. Through sharing their stories on various platforms, individuals who have experienced sexual misconduct are breaking free from feelings of isolation and shame. This collective sharing not only validates survivors' experiences but also highlights the magnitude and systemic nature of sexual harassment and assault – revealing it as a societal problem rather than isolated incidents.

Amplifying Underrepresented Voices:

The #MeToo movement has been instrumental in amplifying marginalized voices that were often neglected or silenced in discussions surrounding sexual misconduct. Women of colour, LGBTQ+ individuals, and individuals with disabilities have long faced intersecting forms of discrimination when it comes to accessing justice or support systems. By shining a spotlight on these diverse narratives, the movement strives for inclusivity and acknowledges that no survivor's experience should be minimized or dismissed.

Challenging Victim-Blaming Culture:

Historically, victims of sexual harassment or assault were subjected to victim-blaming attitudes prevalent within our society. The #MeToo movement challenges this harmful narrative by shifting blame from survivors onto perpetrators where it rightfully belongs. This shift in focus helps dismantle deeply ingrained cultural norms that perpetuate victim-blaming tendencies while holding those responsible accountable for their actions.

Confronting Institutions Head-On:

Another significant aspect of the #MeToo movement is its ability to expose the complicity of institutions in perpetuating sexual misconduct. High-profile cases involving influential figures have led to increased scrutiny on corporations, educational institutions, and even governmental bodies regarding their handling of reports and allegations. This newfound transparency has sparked conversations about implementing stronger policies and procedures that protect victims, address power imbalances, and create safer environments.

The Road Ahead:

While the impact of the #MeToo movement has been undeniably transformative, there is still much work to be done. The movement's success lies not only in raising awareness but also in driving systemic change. Advocates are urging for legal reforms that prioritize survivor support, improved reporting mechanisms, and enhanced education around consent and healthy relationships.

Additionally, it is crucial that we continue fostering dialogue surrounding toxic masculinity and gender inequality – both of which underpin instances of sexual harassment. By challenging societal norms that perpetuate these harmful behaviours, we can gradually shift towards a culture where respect, consent, and equality prevail.

The #MeToo movement has emerged as a powerful force for change by empowering survivors to share their stories, amplifying marginalized voices, challenging victim-blaming attitudes, and confronting institutional complicity. Through collective action and ongoing advocacy efforts, this movement aims to reshape our society into one that values consent, respects boundaries, and ensures justice for all survivors. It is essential that we continue supporting this cause while actively working towards creating a world free from sexual harassment and assault – one where survivors' voices are heard loud and clear.