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Friendly reminder for lgbtq+ ppl

❤️ It’s okay if you thought you were bi and find out you’re actually straight or gay. That doesn’t validate the people who told you that bi isn’t real or to “pick a side”

🧡 It’s okay if you thought you were pan but find out you’re actually bi or straight or gay

💛 It’s okay if you thought you were gay but find out you’re actually bi

💚 It’s okay to switch to new pronouns

💙 It’s okay to switch back to your old pronouns. That doesn’t validate the people who told you your new pronouns aren’t valid/real or “it’s just a phase,” that doesn’t make them in the right.

💜 It’s okay if you thought you were aro or ace and find out you’re not. That doesn’t validate the people who told you that you’re not ace/aro or that ace/aro isn’t valid/real or “you just haven’t found the right person yet,” that doesn’t make them in the right.

💗 It’s okay to be unsure/questioning or to change the way you label yourself. It’s not right for someone to invalidate your feelings. Even if they accurately predict that you’ll change your mind, that doesn’t mean that what they did is right.

Hiya friends!

I have been overcome with a massive bout of gender confusion at the moment, he/they just doesn't really sit right with me at the moment but neither do any other pronouns but i guess for now just use They/Them when reffering to me.

Also a thing that i have somehow completely forgot to mention is that i am comfortable with two separate names: Evren and Markus/Mark, i like both but currently have a preference for Markus.

I will edit my pinned post accordingly <3

I was honestly just trying to figure my sexuality out and then Boom! Gender confusion. I did realize i am demiromantic but in the process i became sort of detached from the Demiboy label i used previously.

In conclusion: I'm having gender identity struggles and want to be referred to by They/Them pronouns, you can call me both Evren and Markus, and i figured out that i am pansexual demiromantic.

Also Expect more stuff soon, in maybe the next few hours because being on hiatus really annoys me more than it does to anyone and I've been feeling way better physically and no longer burnt out :D