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antiblackness yeah and then the way some lgbtq people act like they're morally superior to straight ppl for not being straight some nonblack people act like they're the best person in the world for dating a Black person to the point that they either do not warn their partner about their family's racism or that they IGNORE the genuine RISK their family poses to their partner and thus put their Black partner in a precarious situation and you can only HOPE as a Black person that it only leads to mental distress and nothing more bc these racist family/friends can and have physically hurt and killed Black people and the nonblack person is all 'oh no who could've prevented this' YOU motherfucker so just like how some lgbtq individuals end up having to cut off homophobic family members nonblack people SHOULD cut off the racist family members for the sake of their partner but lbr often they do not and often - should the Black individual have the confidence or the means to leave bc lbh this is an abusive relationship if your partner continually exposes you to this or acts clueless either bc they're actually ignorant or just don't want to deal with the discomfort of choosing you - the nonblack partner acts like the Black partner is blowing things out of proportion I won't even touch on the nonsense of Black men refusing to date Black women lmfao but nonblack people dating Black people should look at themselves and who they expose their partner to and really fucking think bc ppl seem to acknowledge the mental burden of women in relationships bc society has socialized us to be the household manager and shit they need to acknowledge that Black people often have to justify just existing. your Black partner should NEVER be put in that position with your family that is for YOU to deal with nonblack partner and if you fucking cannot remove yourself from those ppl or be honest with your partner because stress literally kills us ^^ prev tags anti-black racism