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hiii dear, could I request some jealous tobirama headcanons? love your work! <3
A/N: Yesssir, and thank you a lot!💕 I'm very happy to hear that. A bit shorter than my usual, but I do hope you like these headcanons :)
Jealous Tobirama Headcanons
He'd be the overly silent and very brooding type of jealous
It would be a bit harder to tell since grumpy is one of his default looks, jealous or not
He tries not to think about it too much, he hates how it makes him feel and how it leads to him thinking he's doubting you or your loyalty to him
But when things get too much he does become more clingy,, in a sense that he suddenly wants to spend so so much more time with you, even physical affection increases from his side
Which is a bit off coming from him, he's not the one for too much physical affection, especially in public.
He would also try to pry subtly for more information about whoever/whatever made him jealous in the first place, trying to understand the root of his jealousy and maybe soothe it himself but jealousy is often blinding and it makes him feel worse and even more jealous
His clingy needs that stem from jealousy are push-and-pull. One moment he's hugging you and the next he's glaring daggers at you and wants to be left alone in his study
If his jealousy is at it's peak he would definitely be sassy with you too, bordeline rude honestly
It may lead to some banter between the two of you, especially when he hits that sensitive nerve out of the blue
You're more so confused than offended by his suddenly rude manners and demeanour.
And if you made it that far to be in a relationship with Tobirama, you'd be able to piece the puzzle soon enough
So you either confront him about it or wait for him to open up to you with the issue
If you confront him he would deny it at first, the Senju Poutâ„¢ obvious the moment you bring it up
"Me? Jealous? No" type of situation
But as you push on more, explaining he has nothing to be jealous of he just sighs and banters with you, feeling free to express his reasoning, but slowly becoming quiet as he sees that it was him being unreasonable.
Avoids eye contact for most of the conversation, tries to brush you off, he won't admit it right away at all that he's jealous. Never .
He is embarassed by how he was blinded by it all while he's known for how logical and calculating he is.
Low-key just go ahead and kiss him, to bring his full focus and soothe him, just- yeah.
Hold him later when you go to bed, pull him into your arms, cuddles before bed or early in the morning are the little things he finds solace in and are very comforting to him.
He doesn't like being too emotionally vulnerable too much, especially with the conversation/discussion fresh in his mind
So you initiating the contact, even if he doesn't return your affections at the moment, makes him feel calm. It really does return him back to earth and grounds him
He'll bring your hands up and kiss them softly, entwining your fingers together
Words aren't even needed then.
I wish you the best of luck with school and all, sending you all the hugs too! But could I please request some fluff, relax time with Tobirama, times are stressful ðŸ˜
SFW
Tobirama Headcanon

Tobirama isn't the type to be at home everyday, he would be in his office, working on a random jutsu or just taking care of some problems concerning the leaf village. So guessing by the amount of work he gets done, he's a tired man. So whenever he has the time to come home to you, he would make sure to spend such limited time with you and enjoy the moment as much as he could.
So the minute Tobirama is home and he closes the door, you're already embracing him in your arms. Pulling him for a warm hug as you reach to take off that stupid blue armor he had on for God knows what. He then takes the moment to feel your warmth; something he hasn't felt in a while and in what felt like years.
Tobirama isn't the type to vaguely and easily express his emotions, so in time like this; you are the first one to take the first step.
You plant a soft kiss on his cheek and smile. Not satisfied with your action, Tobirama decided to step out of his comfort zone and kiss you on the lips. The kiss went on for what could be described as a whole hour, he was expressing his longing for you. He was trying to show you how much he missed you without putting it into words. And you knew better than to not take this as a sign for you to show him how much you have missed him as well. So being brave the person you are, you deepen the kiss; making sure to pull him close enough to close the gap between the two of you.
Words can't explain how much you both miss this....
After showing how much you missed each other, you pulled away from the kiss and look at him; breathless.
"Welcome home Tobirama," you said so innocently, as if you both didn't just pulled that stunt. You took some time to analyze him, trying to see if there was scratches or any visible injuries on his body. But there was none, the only thing you could notice was his noticeable eye-bags and the tense in his muscles.
"Why don't you go upstairs and wait for me while I fix you a bath hmm?" You asks him.
"That would be lovely," he said as he lets out a huge sigh.
After you fixed him his bath, you watch as he enters the bath and let's out another long sigh when he feels the warmth of the water. Your gaze softens when you see how he closes his eyes as a sign to show that he's temporarily letting go of his unsolved problems.
Still noticing the tense in his shoulders, you gently place your hands on his shoulder; softly kneading his skin. He let's out another sigh as he tries getting more comfortable in the bathtub.
"You don't have to overwork yourself this much -Tobi, you know I'm always here to help right?" You asks but he just nods, getting lost in the feeling of you relaxing his muscles.
"I know, but you've done enough for me already...." He said and you stopped
"I will never do enough for you......I want to do more and I barely have the time to do so with you always being away!" You said then went back to knead his tense muscles.
"Fine, then why don't you join me?" He asks, this time opening his eyes to look at you.
"This bath is for you, not for me."
"And I want it to be for both of us, so join me?" He said as he returns to closing his eyes; maybe to give you privacy as you undress yourself.
"Can you promise me that you will not go to work tomorrow and just stay home to rest? You really need it." You said as you enter the bath and settle yourself in between his legs. Tobirama responded with a tired "hmm."
With the way his chest keeps rising and falling, and the way his breath his the back of your neck was enough to make you slowly fall asleep.
Tobirama didn't notice you feel asleep until the water was starting to get cold and he needed to get out the water to avoid getting sick. He softly calls your name but no answer. So he decided to get out of the water, wrap himself in a towel and then pick you up and wrap a towel around you.
After, he brings your sleepless body to the bedroom and dries you off; he dresses you up with one of his large shirts and then do the same for himself. He then lays on the bed, pulling you into his embrace. His back against the mattress with an arm against your shoulder, while your head is against his chest. He takes his free hand in yours and intertwine your fingers together.
He leans in and place a soft kiss on your forehead. Before he falls asleep, he takes a good look at you once more; wondering how lucky he is to have you in his life. After him basically admiring you, he fell asleep.
You on the other hand just woke up because you wanted to move around and then you find yourself in bed; wondering how you got there. The thought of Tobirama carrying you to bed sadden you a little, you didn't want him to work too much and you just ended up giving him more chores to do.
Even though Tobirama was sleepy, he still felt the shift and movements of your body. So he softly squeezes your arm, pulling you closer and that's what you did; you got closer to him and place a soft kiss on his lips.
That's not how you planned for the day to go, so tomorrow; you'll make sure to do everything and not just let him take care of everything. You felt the need to..
You knew that Tobirama was yours, no matter the distance between the both of you. And he himself knew that you were his, whether he was out of the village or not. He knew that you will always be at home or in his office waiting to pull him in for a hug or kiss every time.
That's why he married you in the first place...because no matter what; you were always going to be his and by his side.
Any confession headcanons for Tobirama? 🤧
A/n: Hello! I apologize for the long wait, I've been busy with work and studies but now I'm back to get some of these done. Hope you like them!
Warnings: none,
Confessions Headcanons

Tobirama would have a harder time acknowledging his feelings and coming to terms with them, even if you were someone he was very close with and if you were someone he had loads of trust in
That being said, his confession may take a very long time.
To his brother, his subtle changes in behavior around you, and the way he addresses you are a dead give away that you make his little brother feel a certain way
He just knows, with the almost bashed manner in which Tobirama sides with you that those feelings are positive.
Hashirama would feel obligated to give Tobirama and you a nudge, a push really, but the second Tobirama caught wind of that idea, he shut it down. This was his private affairs, he would deal with them himself.
Gradually, the time that takes Tobirama to accept his feelings turn into a period of mutual, at times oblivious, pining.
Then, he'd finally start planing on how to confess
It wouldn't be anything grandiose or that fancy, he just isn't a guy for it but he'd still like for it to have some meaning to add to the weigh of his words
It has been eating his inside out for the past few months, if not even years - he can't just blurt it all out no matter how he may come off as
So, he takes the chance to confess at your usual spot on a free weekend he has. A beautiful creek with a lush, giant of a tree watching over it. That was the place the two of you usually went to wind down together, to meditate or simply bask in each other's presence.
Tobirama remembers this spot all too well from his youth. Many memories surrounded that particular tree, with its branches hanging so low one might mistake the tree for an oversized willow. The tree had seen much tragedies over the years, including the ones from his youth but nonetheless the tree seemed to draw him in all the time. It brought him peace.
It drew him to meet you.
When he goes to confess, it's the first time he stumbles over his words, the first time warmer hues dust his cheeks, the first time Tobirama feels the anxious feeling of butterflies in his stomach - even if he tells himself he's perfectly calm, he is not.
You can feel he's nervous and trying to hide it
But he doesn't let you interrupt him, please don't, just let him get the words out
Finally, as he draws his conclusion, confession, to an end, he notices how your eyes twinkle with mirth and how your fingers flinch with withdrawn energy. Your chakra felt almost overwhelmingly excited and happy
He's almost confused, awe struck, shell-shocked - you name it
And when you take his hand in yours, he can finally feel the butterflies in his stomach explode into nothing and be replaced by a feeling of pure serenity. His peace of mind finally returned to him, and silently he vowed to make both of your lives better, as best his ability can allow.
Hi i'm new and i read and saw a lot of your work and all it's Amazing, i'm Just in love with your work,of i don't bother could i request a kakashi or hashirama or tobirama x self harm Reader,an headcanon or drabble where they found their lover cutting herself, Sorry if i bothered you or if i messd somethings up,cause i don't what Is a drabble but i think it's like a One shot bye
A/n: thank you so much for your kind words, I really do appreciate all of them and I seriously apologize for this being so late. Hope it's to your liking. On a more serious note, hope you all are doing well, take care<3
Warnings: Self harm, mention of knives/blades, blood, angst, sprinkle of fluff, some grammar mistakes maybe.
Characters: Kakashi, Tobirama, Hashirama x reader(separate)

Kakashi Hatake:
Kakashi is no stranger to these urges and strong emotions certain events(or people) might bring to someone, he has felt the same more times than he'd ever like to admit
He still sometimes looks back onto those dark days and recounts how many times he had almost lost his life due to those feelings and his irrational/hasty reaction to the same
During his relationship with his lover, he is certainly very gentle and soft, trying to accomodate them in any way he can to make sure they are alright
Even the thought of him accidentally causing you harm makes him gloomy and guilty
So, imagine his surprise and utter shock when he sees those scars littered across your skin, the skin he dreamt of kissing to show all the love he harbours for you
He had his suspicions from before, yet he never dared to point them out so early, so this truly broke his heart.
"Kakashi-" you try but you're immediately silenced, backed into a proverbial corner as he approached you and gathers your hands and arms in his. Pulling you to your feet he is quick to lead you to the bathroom and sit you on the toilet seat.
His lack of response is a scolding alone, a burn to the open wound in the moment and you can't help but feel guilty and even further horrible. But the moment you notice tears brimming on his lower lashes, do you understand that you misunderstood his actions.
"Y/n.. why did you do this?"
His tone is so shaky, unsure if he should even be speaking, fearful of making you close yourself from him. Internally he begs the heavens you comply and cooperate with him, he hopes he did everything right that you feel safe with opening up to him now
Kakashi had dressed up your cuts, the blood from before swirling down the drain. His fingetips are warm, palms lit with fire that strove to awaken the frozen forest, so careful in doing so.
If you start crying, he'll hold you, he'll caress your back and let you cry it all out. He'll lead you back to bed to get rest or to the kitchen to prepare you tea to warm you back up, a quick meal too if you so request
One thing is for certain and that is that he's going to become even more observant of you, spending even more time around you to ensure you're getting better and not getting any more of those horrible urges.
Kakashi reassures you how good you are, how special you are to him and to your friends, family, students; how much the elders love you and how much little kids yearn to hear your stories. He whispers sweet things into your ear before you fall asleep and even more encouraging words when you stir in his arms in the morning
"Darling, please, if you ever need any help - with anything - do not hesitate to tell me. I'm here for you.. you're not alone. You never were.."

Hashirama Senju:
As a legend of his time, both in war and art of healing, he has been met with the creatures that whispers bad things in one's ear.
Hashirama had that type of fortune that he was born into war, it molded him into the shape it willed and it almost made him yield. Almost.
As a healer, while in a relationship with you, he'd often check you for injuries - unconsciously so too. He had become so met with your body that he knew your immune system was lacking even before you did
Just by placing his hand on you, his chakra flows through you and feels around for any oddities.
"My flower, it's wonderful to see you again. How have you been?" Those words are the start of every conversation after his long days at work. No matter how tired he is, he still finds strength to smile and laugh for you. You are his heart, his sunshine and joy.
"It has been alright, I went to the market today and found some plants from lands afar. I'd like you to see them, perhaps you've seen one of them before"
His hands wrap around you, pulling you into a hug and as he goes to reply, all words suddenly evaporate on his tongue, his movements frozen.
You were hurt.
Hashirama is quick to question you about this, there is no way he is imagining this, he can't be that tired, can he?
Even if you try to shy away or hide this, he will be determined to check, especially when you display such nervousness as you never did before. Your relationship with him was always open, he made sure both of you had enough communication going on to avoid any possible issues
His reaction to wounds and scars you inflicted in yourself were rather too sad.
Hashirama exhales a shaky breath, his fingertips tracing over one particularly bad, red line and a small hue emits from his skin. The flesh beneath pales, stitching itself together with a small, pleasant, ache as it vanishes in the end. The man before you takes the arm he just healed and brings it to his lips, pausing as to reconsider his choices, or perhaps give you an opportunity to pull away- when you don't, he places feather light kisses along the skin.
As chatty and talkative as he is, he can't help but feel at loss for words in that moment, he doesn't know what to say. Images of the family members and close friends that perished float behind his closed eyelids
He vocalizes his thoughts finally, an awkward beginning but as he talks on his tone holds such color and warmth to them that rings true to your ears
He won't be satisfied until you both reach some agreement that would ensure you would stop this; if you don't feel like talking immediately he would understand and postpone this talk until you felt ready
If he wasn't gentle enough with you, he definitely was now. Treating you as softly as he treats the petals of the flowers in his greenhouse. There is no one more special to him, than you.
"Y/n, let us talk this out, I vowed to be with you through calm and storm alike. Don't hide yourself from me, my love.. don't hide your scars- the most beautiful flowers bloom from within trees damaged by storms."

Tobirama Senju:
The silver head, grumpy man never imagined he'd be in such love as he is with you, never imagined himself caring for anyone else so deeply as he cares for his last brother, but yet here he is
His feelings for you are unmatched, as much as he dislikes to put those on display, he does his best to make up for it through acts of service and occasionally a subtle word of encouragement and sometimes even affection
Through this silent language the two of you built, you strengthened your relationship even further with him.
Still, with how busy he gets, it is not rare that the two of you get separated for longer periods of time. Not seeing each other for so long is difficult, but the wait feels regarding nonetheless when he shows up to bring you to a meal, a stroll, anywhere to spend time with you
Tobirama is used to seeing you tired, especially during late nights when he returns from the office, tired himself. It's only normal you're tired this late at night
But one night at his arrival, it felt different. He smelled the signature irony smell too many times before, so when he caught scent of it he almost immediately felt his heart drop
He is a logical, strategic man, brought into the war just like his brother and the survival, warrior instinct that hadn't healed during the time of peace, swiftly set his body and mind into action
He was terrified inside, the worst case scenario question flaring in his mind - was he too late?
Much to his relief and horror simultaneously, he found you alive, but you were hurt, and the damage was done by your own hand
He didn't know how to react, but he called out to you, his gruff voice dropping an octave and going as softly as it could.
He approached you so cautiously, his eyes felt glued to you but they were looking for the towels in the shelf you were close to.
The silver of his hair shines in the golden lamplight as he moves with calculated steps, like in every aspect of his life these moves are also had to be perfect. Now more than any other time. His throat bobs as he swallows, his deft, calloused hands wrapping the bandages around your arms, although he has already healed mentioned wounds.
"Y/n.. I don't want to see this happen again.."
It's tough, what he begins his gentle scolding with, but he has to make sure to fill you in on what you were doing, what you truly did. In your mind, you may think you were giving yourself 'well deserved punishment' or something of that like, you were clearly distressed too.
His words carry the undertones of his own anxiety but he doesn't let his tone shake and weaver unlike his brother. That is not to say he doesn't care, or that he's trying to pressure you further, he just wants you to understand that he(or anyone else) doesn't see you in the same light you see yourself in
Tobirama isn't as showy and touchy, but he makes sure you feel especially loved and cared for that night. He caresses your hand and back, making sure you're tucked under the warm blankets and shielded away from the world as much as he can
In the days following he does have more talks with you, slowly taking steps to ensure you understand and are cooperative to let him help you out
If you agree, he'll also get Hashirama involved. Since Tobirama isn't as bright or bubbly as his brother, he truly believes another, more energetic presence may aid you further into letting the stress and worries go
He leaves notes around the house when he's away, and little snacks and trinkets for you to find, just a small show of his love while he's absent. And when he returns, he makes sure to show you himself too, that you're loved and cared for.
"Today was quite eventful, wasn't it? But today is now gone, and tomorrow is soon upon us.. I have been able to postpone some certain matters ahead to free up this week. From this day on, it will all be eventful too. I'd say it's time we make a schedule, what would you like to do, my dear?"