Trying To Overthink My Actions And The Other Person's Actions Should Not Also Be Expending My Energy - Tumblr Posts
9 months ago
As an autistic person, the implications of "if they really cared I wouldn't have to say it" culture are really scary. Because I want to know what hurts your feelings, what crosses your boundaries, where the line between teasing and being mean is at for you, what you need, and how to make you feel loved. And the implication that if my disability makes me unable to figure out these things through intuition alone, then I'm just not worth having around, is genuinely heartbreaking
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the biggest reason for me to cut off a friendship is if they dont communicate properly
i have too much in my life that i need to spend my brainpower on
trying to overthink my actions and the other person's actions should not also be expending my energy
i would prefer spending that on fun time with a friend
or having nice chats
like cmon