69constellationsinatrenchcoat - misadventures of a queer disabled DID system
misadventures of a queer disabled DID system

No, there are not 69 of us but we are hiding in a trenchcoat.. medically recognised adult DID system studying to become a clinical psych. We are aware we make mistakes, we know we make mistakes, we're open to kind discussion!!!! 🇳🇿🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Please remember, there is a person behind almost every post on the internet, including syscourse. Be kind.

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Random Thought: Why Did "hurts Like F-ck" Become A Phrase?

random thought: why did "hurts like f-ck" become a phrase?

...f-ck = sex Why is painful sex so normalised that this came into the general vocabulary for extreme pain? Or am I just.... overthinking the idioms again??

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New Zealand too!

in australia if a girl goes to the bathroom and comes back with a seemingly random fact then you know exactly what time of the month it is

international people start calling our country aotearoa instead of new zealand challenge

I was mostly thinking the word origins rather than current usage.

But sweeet, I'm definitely overthinking idoms again 😂 thanks everyone

random thought: why did "hurts like f-ck" become a phrase?

...f-ck = sex Why is painful sex so normalised that this came into the general vocabulary for extreme pain? Or am I just.... overthinking the idioms again??


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It's amazing what people can say behind a screen. How much cowardice they can display. We see the worst (and sometimes best) in people when they have the ability to hide their identity.

I would like to answer this and be a passive-aggressive little shit. in other words, if you're going to be a dick to me, I'll return the favour... with more sass. I really wish I could block and report you, anon.

"You don't have DID" ...so, I don't have DID? Tell me, whoever you are, how you know more than a team of psychologists, hundreds of hours of research on dissociative experiences, therapy and exploring our symptom set we have been displaying since a child. How about you explain how our alters names have been dropped in and out of our books and drawings since we were a child. Tell me, how you can diagnose that having never spoken to us in real life nor messaged us?

"You're just another rich white girl who wants to be special" hm, hmm, I'm white… yes, that's correct. But if you're implying that I'm not in any marginalised communities… you… may want to check your privilege. We're queer, trans, disabled, neurodivergent and mentally ill… and 90% of our country's health system doesn't know what DID is, nor endomentriosis... I would love to say that I'm not marginalised in any capacity but alas, some people.... just have to remind me why that's wrong. I'm not in a position where I get racial slurs thrown at me down the street... but.... well, what did you just call me? hm? F*ggot? hmmmm...

I'm in a position of financial privilege in comparison to some people, yes. However, I'm unemployed due to my disability and living with my single mother... soooo... I wouldn't say 'rich'... and money has always been a source of anxiety for my family.

I know I have been open on here about my experiences with periods and menstruation, but having a period does not make a woman. Nor does having breasts. Nor does having a vagina. Many women don't get periods. Many people who were assigned female at birth don't get periods. If your argument for what makes a 'woman' is the ability to give birth to children or someone who menstruates, you need to stop and reconsider. If that is your argument... then anyone who has a hysterectomy, is on the pill or has the IUD is not a woman. People who were born and assigned male at birth have had periods. Some intersex people are born with the ability to have periods, but get assigned as male. It's not just women. It's never just been women.

Now, in terms of wanting to feel special… well, under no circumstance would I like to be “feeling special” because of a life altering trauma disorder. If I wanted something like that, I'd go dye my eyebrows neon orange or something.

// mentions of religious, sexual and emotional abuse in detail //

“You've never had a bad day in your life" hm.... interesting... fascinating even. Perhaps you'd like to be run over, drugged, raped, and impregnated by someone you called a friend... or maybe, if that doesn't suit your fancy... we could try putting you under a priest who rips your vagina open at the age of six because you "acted gay*" and he wanted to "teach you a lesson" (*comforted a friend who was crying by giving her a hug)... or maybe even we try... hmmmm.... having your grandmother try to drown you?

Never mind, that is just the tip of the iceberg... let's not talk about anything else that happened *picks nails*

no? you wouldn't like that? oh…. how about you shut the fuck up then 🥺💞

// end detail //

And yes, I will claim f*ggot. I'm queer as fuck. And if you want to try and insult me by saying that, I will smile and wave.

I'll admit, we still have some growing up to do, we're still learning this world, and I would like to think we'll be learning until the day we die.. but telling someone to grow up where you don't even know their age... well..... that might be hilarious if you're younger than we are. <333

You don't have DID, you're just another rich white girl who wants to be special. You've probably never even had a bad day in your life. You're attention seeking. Grow the fuck up, faggot.

Question, when did any of us say we were female?

And btw, you're Not our psychologist. You don't know our story. So kindly, shush.

If you're going to send hate mail, don't send it anonymously. <3


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You don't have DID, you're just another rich white girl who wants to be special. You've probably never even had a bad day in your life. You're attention seeking. Grow the fuck up, faggot.

Question, when did any of us say we were female?

And btw, you're Not our psychologist. You don't know our story. So kindly, shush.

If you're going to send hate mail, don't send it anonymously. <3


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