*Ships Your Ships But In A Cooler And More Aspec Way Than You Ever Will*

*Ships your ships but in a cooler and more aspec way than you ever will*

Pride Flag Series 2024: Purple Fields

It’s the Asexual pride flag!!

Reblog this if you support sex-averse and sex-repulsed aces, including:

Aces who never want to have sex

Aces who had sex in the past but don't desire it anymore

Aces with sexual trauma who feel like their trauma ties into their asexuality

Aces with sexual trauma who don't feel like their trauma caused their asexuality

Aces who don't want to talk to you about sex

Aces who don't want to hear about sex

Yes even aces who do not want to engage with any sexual content and don't want it in their own personal spaces

Yes even aces who express the desire to have more spaces for queer adults where their boundaries are met (on top of the queer spaces that exist, we do not want to sanitize your existing spaces ffs)

If you cannot be normal about these people existing, if you believe they're a threat to our community and to how we're viewed by people who aren't aspec and the rest of the LGBTQ+ community, you are not an asexual ally. Yes, even if you're aspec yourself. Especially if you're aspec yourself.

Because it's been pride month for 4 days and I'm already seeing people trying to throw us under the bus or pretend we don't exist because that makes the ace community more palatable to exclusionists and people who swallowed too much "aces are puritans" propaganda.

Shout out to all of my asexual alloromantics who have been told that their relationships are invalid because "you're asexual you can't have a romantic partner"

Just know they're wrong, and your romantic relationships are valid, even if you're ace <3

Shout out to all my aromantic allosexuals who go through the same thing (but vice versa)! I have a harder time understanding you (as a asexual biromantic person--) but that does not make you any less valid. You're just as valid as anyone who's part of the LGBTQ community <3

Happy Pride Month to all the aroaces who get told that their friendships will "turn into something more", especially those which are with the opposite gender.

Shout out to sex/romance repulsed aspecs, shout out to sex/romance positive aspecs, Shout out aspecs!!!

Happy Pride Month Aspec community :3

Happy Pride Month to my girlfriend who isn't on here but who I'm running off to smooch rn

Also I hope this post made sense I'm not very good with words LMAO

Don't come for me I just wanted to show love to my aspec friends and fellow community :3

I, a radiant and dazzling demisexual,...

Pride Month Aspec Headcanons Day 3

Anne Shirley - Green Gables series and adaptations - Demiromantic

I love Anne a lot and related to her a lot growing up. I hc her as demiromantic partially because it takes her so long to recognize that her feelings for Gilbert have turned romantic. There are also a few other things:

She idealizes what she thinks she wants in a romantic partner based on the books she grew up reading

When she finally does have this, she has to come to the realization that she's not actually attracted to men like that and that her romantic feelings are inclined in a different way than she had expected

When all her friends are starting to fall in love with people around them (and not just crushing or romanticizing), she is still figuring out her feelings and how they differ from those around her

Also, Project Green Gables made their version of Anne demiromantic, which is amazing, so go check that out if you're an Anne fan and haven't yet