Ok. That Makes Sense.

Ok. That makes sense.

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Ok so… in response to this poll that I made last night, why is the entire system at fault for what one alter did?

Because if everyone was their own separate person outside of the system, then the blame would be placed on that one person who fucked up.

You wouldn’t go around blaming their friends, family, and entire social group for what they did, right? Or would you?

Because last I checked, the only person responsible for someone’s actions is themself in the end. You can try to sway them, you can manipulate them, you can convince them, but ultimately they have a final say in their actions.

At least that’s what I’ve been taught.

So please enlighten me on why the entire system is at fault for the actions of one alter? I am just trying to learn why so I can try and better myself and keep all of my headmates from being at fault for my own stupid actions. /gen

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We’re re-reading A Christmas Carol. And all I can think about is…

Cry of Fear Christmas Carol where Simon is Scrooge, or the Scrooge Adjacent figure (because not everything has to be EXACTLY the same as the original.)

That… that is all. I can fucking see it so clearly in my mind. Why is it so fucking clear in my mind to have Simon as Scrooge??

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Agreed. It’s not a haha funny meme but it’s what I could come up with 🤷‍♂️

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This shot really has meme template potential

A collection of funny things involving our headmate (he’s a little don’t you dare harm him) Candy🍬

🍬: Grrr! I am a terror to this system! My source caused irreparable trauma 😈

🩶👻+🍓: Awww! You’re so cute!!

🍬: FEAR ME!!!

🍓: *headpats*

🍬: Thanks Mama 🥰

🩶👻: *minding his own business*

🩶👻: AAAAAH!! A BIRD!!!

🩶👻: Oh wait no it’s just Candy

🍬: :3

🩶👻, jokingly: Polly want a cracker?

🍬: I will end you… 🙂

🐶: Candy, no. You need to go to bed

🍬: FEAR ME MEER MORTAL!! I SHALL DESTROY YOU!!

🧸: Candy listen to Isa

🍬: Ok :3

🐶: How do you do it?

🧸: He crossed me once. He learned not to do it again

*flashback*

🍬: *biting the bird cage* LET ME OUT OF HERE!!

🧸: No.

🍬: WHY????

🧸: You bit me. Now you’re in baby jail

🍬: But I hate baby jail ☹️

🧸: Too bad

🍬: I wanna play gmod… ☹️

🍓: We can’t

🍬: Why?

🍓: We can’t all play together because we all share a body now

🍬: Oh… ☹️

🍓: That and our computer is broken…

🍬: ☹️

🍬: You’re eating it wrong!

🩶👻: Candy, you may be a bird but I can and will punt you

🍬: You’re still eating it wrong

🍬: Bee?

👑🐝: Hm?

🍬: Can I has candy?

👑🐝: Sure! Here you go cutie!

🍓: Please stop indulging him…

The way I see it (tho obviously this is just my opinion), only the alter is responsible for the actions, but the system needs to take accountability for it, at least when thinking about online spaces because you can’t really block just one alter

Yeah. I completely understand that. What’s really upsetting for me right now especially is that I had done the stupid thing privately, and had handled it privately, but then had it shared publicly when we decided to stop being friends with the person because they were acting like our ex-abuser had.

Then suddenly my own actions became everyone in the system’s fault. We were all marked as “problematic.” That’s what hurts me.

But I completely understand what you’re saying. The thing is, it seems that I’m using a different definition of accountability or something, because I always understood accountability as “it’s your fault, you now have to deal with it.” Might be past trauma talking, idk.

But yeah, I do understand what you’re saying. Thanks for answering! :)

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Um… hey, can you explain this a little more clearly? Sorry the response confused me a little bit.

Why exactly is it 90% the system though?? Not trying to be mean. Just curious.

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Another poll kinda related to the earlier one that is less specific.

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