[Image Description: Two Men Stand Around Two Different Cars. One Man Points At A Car Labeled "Sending

[Image description: Two men stand around two different cars. One man points at a car labeled "Sending flowers to your crush" and says: "This is brilliant." He turns and points to the other car, labeled "Sending flowers to your friends," and says: "But I like this." End ID]

I‘m he/him but like in a they/them way

My gender is that I'm a man in the same way as the plucked chicken from the story of Diogenes

I'm not actually a man but I could be in theory-

BEHOLD, A GENDER!

me listening to the radio as a kid: why are all the songs about love?

my mom: well, everybody can relate to them

me, now aroace:

let's go to that new coffee shop downtown and order our favorite drinks and desserts and talk about our favorite movies and books for hours ✨. no romo though... just best friends who love each other's company and spend lots of time together 💓.

So I feel like I am demiromantic and aroflux, but like can I use both? because I feel like they are equally prevalent in how I experience romantic attraction... or should I just use aroflux because demi is included in that?

You can use both; I believe that you can use aroflux as it covers the entire spectrum of romantic attraction. For example, I’m homoromantic, and when I say that I’m aroflux it applies to that romantic attraction. I hope this helps!!