It's Okay If You're An Alter Without A Name Or Know Much About Yourself. Not Every Part Needs A Name,

It's okay if you're an alter without a name or know much about yourself. Not every part needs a name, and you don't need to come up with one to be a valid "part". For us, we have plenty of parts who prefer to just use the system/body/singletsona name. And similarly, it's normal not to know what you like and dislike. That all comes from living your life and being allowed to express yourself, and if you've been a mostly internal part or been masking for a while or for any other reason been unable to explore what makes you "you", then it's no wonder you may not know these things about yourself. Take your time, and in the end if you feel that it isn't important to differentiate yourself with such things then that's fine too.

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Sometimes self care can be watching Scream with your partner system on call because neither of your have Halloween plans

including the tags of this cause just < 3 - ✨

I love being part of a system <- guy who hates being part of a system <- guy who loves being part of a system <- guy who hates being part of a system <- guy who loves being part of a system <- guy who

Reblog to put one of these in your mutuals’ pocket when they’re not looking

partner who never gets upset that you need reassurance when your insecurities get the best of you. partner who listens to your interests and supports you no matter what. partner who makes you laugh and smile even when you're sad. partner who misses you even though you just talked. partner who makes time for you. partner who makes all the love songs and books and movies make sense. partner who respects your identity and pronouns. partner who calls you pretty and smart even when its hard to believe. partner who listens as you ramble about random things that happened to you that day. partner who is so safe and kind and understanding and loving that they're who you immediately want to talk to when you wake up and who you fall asleep thinking about.