The Whole Choke Me Daddy Normalisation Of Bdsm Is Fucking Repulsive And Its No Wonder That Men Like Grace

The whole ‘choke me daddy’ normalisation of bdsm is fucking repulsive and it’s no wonder that men like Grace Millane’s killer are trying to convince people that the women they callously murder ‘wanted it’

If they rape us, they say we wanted it and if they kill us during sex, they say we wanted it too.

People who normalise violence as eroticism, actively make it part of mainstream culture and advocate a mentality of ‘no kink shaming!’ and ‘don’t yuck someone’s yum!’ are responsible for creating a culture where the idea that a woman asked to be strangled so severely that she died might be enough to evoke reasonable doubt.

Since the incel community is getting a lot of headlines rn, I just wanna make a quick reminder that anyone who tries to console and pity them by attaching isolation and loneliness is full of shit since the incel community is vehemently against including gay men, who are statistically more likely to commit suicide due to isolation.  They even make memes and valorise suicide. They’re not here to save men from themselves just like how meninists never gave a shit about police violence against black men. It’s rationalised white male entitlement and violent misogyny masquerading as community

never forget

might be my prudish catholic upbringing jumping out but imho makeup companies shouldn’t name their products after explicit sexual terms

people don't hate "platonic male intimacy" they hate men seeming gay because they're homophobic and homophobia is normalized. shut the fuck up about normalizing platonic intimacy. stop pretending straight males are the victims of toxic masculinity and homophobia and gay men aren't. what is wrong with all of you

fandoms act like pedophiles don’t watch tv, read books, or use the internet. “fiction vs reality” all you want but predators consume content that aligns with their interests. real, actual predators ship adults with minors, possess child porn of both real kids and fictional ones, read stories that show csa in a positive light, etc.

like I can see a predator watching how y'all justify minor / adult ships and feeling validated. they don’t just enact violence outside of the internet. they are real people who consume media just like you and me. those of you who ship children with adults share a space with actual predators

it’s also wild to me that y'all don’t think a pedophile could ever be an artist or writer. I guarantee you they are content creators you enjoy on social media. you’re giving them a space to safely express their interests and you validate their inclination to hurt real children when you promote “hebephilia” as healthy. every time you say “the technical definition of pedophilia is 13 years old and younger”, some adult freak feels better about being attracted to a 14 year old. saved by the bell huh!

you’re harboring actual predators, making them feel great about themselves, giving them a platform in fandom & the ability to harass minors into silence with that platform. it isn’t just desensitizing kids, it’s also desensitizing predators

just like white people felt justified in thinking of black people as all sorts of stereotypes (monkeys, mammies, pickanninies, unintelligent, biologically predisposed to being enslaved, etc) thanks to racist cartoons, justifying pedophilia in fiction is a gateway to them excusing harmful behavior in real life and actually doing it. if that should bother you