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Damnrat - Year Of The Rat - Tumblr Blog
It's okay to 'grieve' things that aren't just death. I've allowed myself to grieve a friendship ending, a situationship, losing something important to me, etc. It's okay to give yourself time to process the loss of something. Grief looks different for everyone, try to find a way that works for you to help make it easier for you.
new realizations and sweeping feelings around old trauma does not mean you're more broken than you thought you were, if anything it means you're more healed than you may have noticed. pain does not show up in full until your being believes that your mind and body has the capacity to hold, process and move through it
Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.
“The strongest people are the ones who are still kind even after the world tore them a part.”
— Raven Emotion
Normalize never forcing people to choose you. If someone thinks they can get better elsewhere – let them. Respectfully.
Stop letting people consume you. they didn’t call? go to sleep. they didn’t message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn’t make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone
You’re allowed to miss someone even if you know it’s better for you to cut them out of your life. These feelings can exist together.
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Non-Contained Theme with the option of 400px, 450px, 500px and 540px posts.
Custom Body Fonts and Body Font sizes.
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5 extra links in the navigation tab.
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Fully supports NPF (beta editor) posts (but also works with legacy posts still)
The theme adjusts to different screen sizes.
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This code is JAVASCRIPT FREE!!!!!!!!
Adjusts to different screen sizes automatically.
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Ask Page, Rules Page, Multimuse Page
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“Notice the people who make an effort to stay in your life.”
— Unknown
Processing trauma takes time. You can’t force yourself to “get over” it faster. The time it takes is unpredictable. Being hard on yourself isn’t likely to make that time shorter.
Giving yourself time and space, giving yourself room to breathe and permission to have setbacks or breakdowns or anything else you need - that has a much better chance to help you process and heal.
