Being Aegosexual Is So Weird. Like Damn Someone Pull This Man's Hair And Put Him On His Knees. Not Me

Being aegosexual is so weird. Like damn someone pull this man's hair and put him on his knees. Not me though. I don't want to be involved in that.

I am Cupiosexual and sex favorable. It feels good and I’m generally a kinky person, but I’m not sexually attracted to people. People and their bodies don’t do it for me so I have no preference when it comes to that. I choose to have sex if the person I’m with is trustworthy and if our sexual dynamics line up. Dynamic as in top/bottom/verse and dom/sub/switch as well as what sexual acts the person prefers to take part in within those dynamics. I end up having sex quite a bit because of this which definitely doesn’t fit what most people think of when they hear “asexual”.

doll face...♡ {cr. moreloveforhobi, namuspromised}

being a sex-ambivalent low-libido ace is so weird sometimes. how do i feel about sex?? i don’t fucking know ask again later. maybe shake a magic 8 ball and tell me what it says and we’ll go with that

i’m actually a little worried about it if i get a romantic partner. obviously i’d disclose this with them, i’m very much open about this kind of stuff, but i’m worried it would make navigating anything sexual really confusing. what if i’m feeling favorable and my partner wants to so we start… something whatever and then suddenly i’m feeling super repulsed ??? i know that in a healthy relationship things can stop for any reason and it should always be okay, but by nature whether or not i want to engage with that stuff is very fickle and i can see it getting frustrating for people who do actually experience sexual desire. i guess the easiest solution to this would be to only date other aspecs since they’d understand the most but it’s kind of hard to find us when out irl bc. most people don’t go around telling people they’re aspec. i’m one of the most open people i know with it and i still reserve it for trusted friends. not to mention i’d rather not limit my dating pool :/

SIIIIIGGGHHH. sometimes i do wish i was just favorable or neutral or averse or WHATEVER so long as it stopped changing all the damn time. then again i’m also genderfluid so i think i am just fated (not doomed, but fated) to constantly be shifting around forever. at least i get a taste of every experience??? idk i’m tired

Submitted June 14, 2023

aego culture is wanting the kink part of sex but not the sex part of sex lmao

Mhmmm keep the sex part out of sex