Youre Not Annoying!!! Ur Not Annoying When U Talk About What U Love!! Ur Not Annoying When U Double Text!!!

you’re not annoying!!! ur not annoying when u talk about what u love!! ur not annoying when u double text!!! ur not annoying when u share ur feelings or call that person or laugh at that joke!!! ur not annoying!!!!

Mythology 🖤🍃

idea: scene with two characters eagerly stripping each other clearly about to bone, but they keep getting interrupted by finding carefully concealed weapons in each other’s clothing, so they keep just unholstering, revealing and unstrapping increasingly ludicrous amounts of hidden guns and knives as the clothes come off, and it’s lowkey killing the mood a little

when we say "you can decide how you identify" and "you can create your own labels to fit you" we do not mean "you can choose who you are"

nobody is saying you can choose what to be; we're saying you can choose how you label those parts of you and how you don't, or if you label them at all

[trumed/terf/anti-mogai dni]

Given that I get at least three messages from terfs, from faux-pity about my apparent internalised misogyny to outright corrective rape threats a month as a fucking boat fandom blogger with ~650 followers

And given that the radfem push against trans healthcare for teens in the uk is specifically aimed at afab trans kids

And given that radfem extraordinaire Kathy Brennan deliberately doxed and outed young transmasculine people

And given how many other trans masculine people have many, many stories to tell about being targeted by radfems and terfs

I would really, REALLY fucking like it if any post about the dangers of terf rhetoric and how engaging with these people is a waste of time actually acknowledged that we are hurt by them too.

I am so, so tired of always seeing these things only mentioning the harm they cause to trans women. They do, of course they do, but by never mentioning us, by making a point to never mention us, you’re saying none of the harm they do to us matters. Or that it’s not deliberate, that they only ever harm us collaterally.

It also plays into the myth that they actively support us; which I suppose they do, if you consider pray-away-the-gay camps to be supportive of gay people.