I Believe It Stems From The Primal Instinct: Ooga Booga, Woman Carry Baby, Me Hunt Mammoth. It Just Manifests

I believe it stems from the primal instinct: ooga booga, woman carry baby, me hunt mammoth. It just manifests differently now, since, well, no more mammoths.

For a lot of men, providing for their woman is one of their love languages. On the one hand, you show yourself as capable, successful, etc. and on the other, you take some kind of worry off the shoulders of someone you love and (hopefully) see them relax and be happier and more carefree because of your efforts.

So, as long as you want to stay committed to him, don't feel bad for him paying for everything. If you really trust him, don't be afraid to be reliant on him. Independence can only go so far in a relationship and that goes for both sides. If you want to return the gesture, find something he can rely on you for.

Men, as an extremely independent woman, why do y'all wanna be a provider so bad when you're really in love with someone?? I went from paying for and doing everything for myself and now never lifting a finger or dropping a cent when he's around and it confuses the hell out of me. It scratches a very primal part of my brain but also it makes me feel bad :c

Fill her womb, mark her, claim her, make her heavy with child. Make her body change to accommodate the new life you've put inside her

reblog if you either want to be absurdly pregnant or get someone absurdly pregnant

Need to watch someone go through these changes because of me 😤😋

Growing out of clothes during pregnancy

Pants/shorts

The first time you can’t easily button them and have to suck it in to button.

Outgrowing the ability to comfortably button them and realizing you’ve hit the “my little bump is big enough that now I need a button extender” stage.

When your belly has popped out past the zipper and now just rests where you used to zip up and button your pants.

Hips and thighs widening and softening. Not being able to pull your pants up at all because you’ve gotten plumper and curvier.

Getting harder and harder to put on the more your belly makes it hard for you to bend over

Getting to the point where it’s impossible to even try to pull any pants up so your pants just go up to where your belly starts jutting forward

Shirts

Tight shirts being the first thing to give you away, not standing a chance against your changing body.

As time passes your belly starting to show ever so slightly against looser shirts.

Getting to the point where your bump is so big you’re showing even with your baggiest shirt

Needing to buy shirts that have a lot of stretch to them so they last you more than a couple of weeks

The bottom of your bump constantly being exposed because your shirt keeps riding up

Not being able to pull a shirt down past your tits because they’ve gotten so huge

Putting on a shirt and it feeling like you can only wear it a few more times before you put grow it

Putting on a shirt and realizing this is probably the last time you’re going to wear it for a while

Getting to the stage where shirts are optional because is it worth the hassle?

Feeling a shirt start to get little tighter when you sit versus when you stand

Feeling like you’re gonna burst out of a shirt when your belly pops out way more when seated versus when standing

Your belly button popping being visible to everyone through your tight shirt

Hoodies/Sweaters

Being able to hide your bump with a hoodie

Watching a hoodie get tighter and rounder by the week

When the hoodie is so tight is looks like it’s actually helping carry and support the belly. Looks like it’s helping keep everything held in together

Outgrowing your hoodies and needing your partners sweaters

Outgrowing zip up sweaters and only being able to wear them open

Dresses

Lose flow-y dresses being worn like a shirt because you’re too big for it be worn as a dress anymore

Not being able to zip up dresses in the back because the front keeps growing out

Wearing tight dresses that show off your shape

Wearing loose dresses that hide your shape until you pull it tighter

Trying to figure out a dress situation to the event you have in a few months from now when you don’t know how big you’ll be then

Feeling tight around your midsection when you sit versus when you stand

Bras

Feeling them get tighter

Needing bra extenders

Spilling out of them from the sides 🙂‍↔️

Spilling out in the front

Having clothes look more scandalous than it is because your chest is so much bigger

Having to take a deep breath in to hook it and then breathing out and realizing you need to size up if you want to keep breathing

Wondering if you should just go braless

Putting on a shirt that’s tighter than you thought it would be and realizing it shows you just how tight your bra is underneath your shirt