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The best of morning cuddles 😇
Imagine your belly getting so big and swollen, so full of life. Life that I've made you carry. Our little life that we've made. I've claimed and marked you, every part of you, and now your womb is so so full, just as it should be.
I believe it stems from the primal instinct: ooga booga, woman carry baby, me hunt mammoth. It just manifests differently now, since, well, no more mammoths.
For a lot of men, providing for their woman is one of their love languages. On the one hand, you show yourself as capable, successful, etc. and on the other, you take some kind of worry off the shoulders of someone you love and (hopefully) see them relax and be happier and more carefree because of your efforts.
So, as long as you want to stay committed to him, don't feel bad for him paying for everything. If you really trust him, don't be afraid to be reliant on him. Independence can only go so far in a relationship and that goes for both sides. If you want to return the gesture, find something he can rely on you for.
Men, as an extremely independent woman, why do y'all wanna be a provider so bad when you're really in love with someone?? I went from paying for and doing everything for myself and now never lifting a finger or dropping a cent when he's around and it confuses the hell out of me. It scratches a very primal part of my brain but also it makes me feel bad :c
A more serious post, will be returning to horniposting shortly o7 (...unless?)
What’s the best thing about having a trad wife? Coming from a woman who doesn’t get the appeal… sell it to me 🫣
Ooh, I can rant about this for a while! :D
Traditional relationships are firstly founded on stability and commitment. They're not something temporary, they're not something that can be easily thrown away on a whim. This makes it a lot easier to build up a strong, lasting relationship and a good environment to raise children in.
I also think such a relationship is the more natural state of things that we are better suited for. Two people with different skill sets and abilities completing each other instead of competing with each other. Man and woman working together, in their own way, for the betterment of themselves, the other, and their children.
As for specifically having a tradwife from my perspective, it goes thus:
I get to be a protector and a provider. This is not a role that's just given, one has to earn it. And when someday I'm strong enough to be all those things and earn a woman's trust so she may marry me, and submit to me, well... that'd be simply wonderful! I'd feel like I've achieved something great! It's caveman brain - I bring food, shelter, security, my woman brings warmth, cooked food, bears children, makes the house a home, etc.
(For the submission thing, I'd like to briefly say that I think both parties need to submit to the other in their own way for a relationship to be successful. In the interest of this not being a novel, I'll leave it for another time.)
The other big thing is children. I want a lot of children one day, and the logistics of having that and both parents working is not good, to say the least. Especially when you want to raise them well. So, a wife at home to be with them when I'm out is perfect! Of course, the ideal would be both of us being at home, but that's a little difficult to achieve.
The home itself would be better run when there's someone there at the regular. It's not going to be just the place we all gather at the end of the day to sleep in, but it'll be a proper home.
To summarise: protecting, providing, being strong for someone is one of my primary love languages. I think traditional relationships last better, and that they make for a better environment to raise children in.
To explicitly sell it to you - if you find yourself a proper man for the job and he wifes you up, you'll be taken care of, loved, cherished, and appreciated. You'll of course need to give back all those things, that's love. Just because he's the employed one doesn't mean you're not working. But you'll be more fulfilled since you're not working for some corporate overlord who couldn't give half a stomped shit about you - all your efforts will be in service to people you love and care about, your family.
I can write three times as much about all this, but I think this is enough for now, it got pretty long as it is 😅
Pregnancy is peak femininity. Your body fulfilling its purpose, growing and swelling and changing because someone came deep inside of you.
And the more you do it, the more you want it. The more you need to feel that life inside of your womb, your belly and breasts and hips swelling with each passing day.
So submit to your master, stay naked, and get pregnant <3
Coming into the bedroom to find her sleeping soundly... 🥰
I want to breed her in our bed.
I want to breed her in our kitchen while we cook.
I want to breed her in our living room on a lazy afternoon.
I want to breed her on the porch at night.
I want to breed her against a window on a stormy day.
I want to breed her in the backyard amongst the vegetable patch.
I want to breed her amongst the fruit trees.
I want to breed her in the tent while we're on a camping trip.
I want to breed her next to the campfire.
I want to breed her against a tree deep in the woods.
I want to breed her in a cosy cave only we know about.