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the idea of baking for my man every day sounds so sweet and heavenly ♡

Trust in the name of the LORD, who knows what you need and what you are ready for better than you yourself do.  We often try to force certain things to happen in our life - marriage, parenthood, careers, and more - but these choices are often to our detriment.  Know that the Almighty God has a timeline for us all, a timeline which cannot be rushed.

There are lots of lonely people out there, people who are desperate to find someone who can fill the void in their life.  A spouse will not bring you ultimate happiness, nor will a huge salary, a mansion, or even parenthood - the only Way to true happiness is Christ Jesus.  I hope that you will stay strong and stay faithful as you wait for God to bless you when the right time arrives.  God bless you

Am I abnormal???

Ok so I've known I have always wanted to have a males body like. How do I explain this so it make sense. So whenever I look in the mirror I hate seeing my feminine features, like for one I have D cup boobs so it's alot harder for me to not notice them half the time. And my face structure is a bit more feminine at least to me. My voice is feminine and over all I just hate seeing my female body.

But when it comes to pronouns and things like that. I really don't give two fucks what you call me. You can call me he,him,she,her, it, they,them, that being I don't care. It's also like that's with my name but like a bit different because my name birth name is Iliana, so to make it easier on my younger relatives and siblings I told them to call me Ilias because everyone tends to call me Ili. And to help out my best friend as well seeing as big changes stress her out. But truthfully I have always loved the name Elijah but that's just a me thing. Anyways don't need to get into me choosing a name. Because what someone calls me isn't that big of a deal to me what pronouns you use also isn't that big of a deal. Because in my mind I'm human so that's the only part that matters to me. Yeah I would prefer if people didn't use my birth name as much, but at the end of the day at least to me it's just a name it doesn't truly matter at least in my books.

I'll get more into this topic in a new part because I feel as if I wrote to much already.

Am I abnormal??? part 2 of me questioning life.

So the point of the tittle is am I crazy,wrong, or abnormal to think the way I think. Because it's like I know I want to transition from a feminine body to a more masculine body. Because I know that would help me alot I'm my mind and all that but, I feel as tho I shouldn't seeing as I don't really want to have my pronouns to be masculine. It's like my brain is so fucking confused when it comes to what pronouns I want people to call me by because I don't care what people call me. But in my mind I feel like I should care what people call me and the fact that I don't care is bad. Like I'm gonna be judged for not sticking to the he/him pronouns if I want to transition.

There is also the fact that the feelings I have repressed now will truly come out and that scares me. Because I'm so in the middle with a few things right now its just I know things I'm repressing now will truly come out because I feel like I will feel more true to myself. I know transitioning is not going to"fix me" but I feel as tho it will help open up the door I have been trying to keep locked. A few examples are

I will probably actually start truly dating again because I wouldn't feel like I'm scamming someone or lying to them.

I will actually start enjoying doing more"feminine" things (I try not to do a lot lot things I actually find interesting because I feel as tho that would just play into me being biology female)

I might actually start enjoying life and want to make friends again.

I stopped trying to make friends and talk to people when I got out of a really toxic relationship with my ex boyfriend. It was bad for ALOT of reasons and I mean ALOT. But at the time I was seeing him I just was starting to come to terms with who I was and he would use this and my age to his advantage like he would threaten to tell people about it. He woul tell me he would tell my father seeing as I was living with him at the time. He would say shit like he's the only one who would accept me the way I was and things like that. That no one would want a abnormal freak of nature like me and things like that.

Anyways what I wanted to know and ask is am I crazy,wrongs, or abnormal for thinking like this?

I believe it stems from the primal instinct: ooga booga, woman carry baby, me hunt mammoth. It just manifests differently now, since, well, no more mammoths.

For a lot of men, providing for their woman is one of their love languages. On the one hand, you show yourself as capable, successful, etc. and on the other, you take some kind of worry off the shoulders of someone you love and (hopefully) see them relax and be happier and more carefree because of your efforts.

So, as long as you want to stay committed to him, don't feel bad for him paying for everything. If you really trust him, don't be afraid to be reliant on him. Independence can only go so far in a relationship and that goes for both sides. If you want to return the gesture, find something he can rely on you for.

Men, as an extremely independent woman, why do y'all wanna be a provider so bad when you're really in love with someone?? I went from paying for and doing everything for myself and now never lifting a finger or dropping a cent when he's around and it confuses the hell out of me. It scratches a very primal part of my brain but also it makes me feel bad :c

A more serious post, will be returning to horniposting shortly o7 (...unless?)

What’s the best thing about having a trad wife? Coming from a woman who doesn’t get the appeal… sell it to me 🫣

Ooh, I can rant about this for a while! :D

Traditional relationships are firstly founded on stability and commitment. They're not something temporary, they're not something that can be easily thrown away on a whim. This makes it a lot easier to build up a strong, lasting relationship and a good environment to raise children in.

I also think such a relationship is the more natural state of things that we are better suited for. Two people with different skill sets and abilities completing each other instead of competing with each other. Man and woman working together, in their own way, for the betterment of themselves, the other, and their children.

As for specifically having a tradwife from my perspective, it goes thus:

I get to be a protector and a provider. This is not a role that's just given, one has to earn it. And when someday I'm strong enough to be all those things and earn a woman's trust so she may marry me, and submit to me, well... that'd be simply wonderful! I'd feel like I've achieved something great! It's caveman brain - I bring food, shelter, security, my woman brings warmth, cooked food, bears children, makes the house a home, etc.

(For the submission thing, I'd like to briefly say that I think both parties need to submit to the other in their own way for a relationship to be successful. In the interest of this not being a novel, I'll leave it for another time.)

The other big thing is children. I want a lot of children one day, and the logistics of having that and both parents working is not good, to say the least. Especially when you want to raise them well. So, a wife at home to be with them when I'm out is perfect! Of course, the ideal would be both of us being at home, but that's a little difficult to achieve.

The home itself would be better run when there's someone there at the regular. It's not going to be just the place we all gather at the end of the day to sleep in, but it'll be a proper home.

To summarise: protecting, providing, being strong for someone is one of my primary love languages. I think traditional relationships last better, and that they make for a better environment to raise children in.

To explicitly sell it to you - if you find yourself a proper man for the job and he wifes you up, you'll be taken care of, loved, cherished, and appreciated. You'll of course need to give back all those things, that's love. Just because he's the employed one doesn't mean you're not working. But you'll be more fulfilled since you're not working for some corporate overlord who couldn't give half a stomped shit about you - all your efforts will be in service to people you love and care about, your family.

I can write three times as much about all this, but I think this is enough for now, it got pretty long as it is 😅

im not going to profess to agree with everything you put on this blog, but I do appreciate you acknowledging fathers as an active and important part of how this kink works

Thank you! Not many people are talking about the long term and/or what happens after when it comes to breeding. Which is unfortunate, since the love and responsibility stemming from it can be quite hot!

Coming into the bedroom to find her sleeping soundly... 🥰

I want to breed her in our bed.

I want to breed her in our kitchen while we cook.

I want to breed her in our living room on a lazy afternoon.

I want to breed her on the porch at night.

I want to breed her against a window on a stormy day.

I want to breed her in the backyard amongst the vegetable patch.

I want to breed her amongst the fruit trees.

I want to breed her in the tent while we're on a camping trip.

I want to breed her next to the campfire.

I want to breed her against a tree deep in the woods.

I want to breed her in a cosy cave only we know about.

Countryside + Homestead = The Perfect Wife

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There’s something incredibly calming and lovely about when someone, particularly an older gentleman, sweetly adds “Miss” before my name. It feels so elegant and charming.

When he says things like, “Here you go, Miss Juliet,” or “Hello, little Miss Juliet,” it just warms my heart.

I’m completely in love with this little gesture.

You think women should be the 80 in an 80/20 relationship? No! Women are manipulated into thinking that. They are naturally the 20 and with proper guidance and protection from their boyfriends and husbands,who are the natural 80 in the relationship,they relearn their happiness and are freed by the light of God and the King. Women are happier with their boyfriends,husbands,fathers,and men in their lives,which they are made to serve and care for.