Sex Isn't A Moral Or Immoral Act- It's Just An Act. The Second We Stop Placing Morality On Sex The Second

sex isn't a moral or immoral act- it's just an act. the second we stop placing morality on sex the second we move past repressing ourselves over something that is in fact a morally neutral behavior

not to like suck on my own clit or anything but i actually do deserve to be adored and loved in the purest way

(sarcastically) i love going from being called a “smol soft boy” in high school to being afraid to be a transmasculine man.

my goal was to always be able to present comfortably as masculine and straight because that’s what i am and when i get shamed for it in LGBTQ+ spaces… it fucking sucks.

i’m used to it, unfortunately, in cis spaces, but when it comes to a community that i’m supposed to belong to, it feels like i’m getting stabbed.

and i’m not just talking about being online. i’m talking about my day-to-day life. i’m taking a class right now about gender, crime, and justice that is full of cis women, queer women, queer people, etc.

i have only spoken twice in the past 7 weeks i have been in the class because i know that the way i physically present myself would be absolutely shit on by at least 95% of the people in that class.

this also goes for the entirety of my college experience. once i started being able to dress the way i wanted and feel comfortable in my own body finally (going to the gym, wearing masculine clothing, doing things cis guys do like watch baseball and drink beer, etc.), it was like the entire community just said “oh wait. you’re not gay or feminine or bi or something that’s different from straight cis men? we don’t want you.”

that honestly hurts more than being misgendered by cis people and people outside of the LGBTQ+ community. because now i have such limited space to be comfortable in. i have such limited space that i don’t feel like there’s a massive fucking target on my back and people talking shit about me.

it seems like in straight cis spaces, i can’t be even the slightest bit feminine or i’m automatically gay. it seems like in queer spaces, i can’t even be the slightest bit masculine or i automatically hate women or hate the community.

shoutout to all the bitches who constantly leave lil wet spots on their underwear bc they’re so needy n desperate all the time! i see u! i love u! im one of u! <3

Sometimes I do be wishing my clit was inside my vagina tho😔

Fact:

People who enjoy sex are valid

People who do not enjoy sex are valid

People who want to be in a romantic relationship are valid

People who do not want to be in a romantic relationship are valid

People who just want to be friends/have platonic relationships are valid

People who are in polyamorous relationships are valid

People who just want to be with themselves/want to find love in themselves are valid

Y'all are valid and amazing and beautiful.

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