In Once Upon A Time Is It Okay To Ship Felix And Pan? Because Like I Have No Idea How Old They're Meant

In once upon a time is it okay to ship Felix and Pan? Because like I have no idea how old they're meant to be

Pan was middle aged and then became 18, I'm assuming Felix is about 18. But they've both been alive for about 400 years?

(This is a genuine question pls help)

It's the "oh I like them!" vs the "I LIKE THEM??"

Like two equally sized tomatoes falling off the eiffel tower but you drop one and launch the other. Equally heavy, just one hurts more to whoever happens to be sitting below the tower

I think people misunderstand "x fell first, y fell harder " trope because it's not about like the one who fell harder loves the other person harder. It's just that the one who fell first falls in a graceful way, one step at the time, maybe gradually over a span of time. The one who fell harder smashes trough the air, there's blood everywhere, everything is fine-

(wicked spoilers)

Galinda saying "and goodness knows, the wicked die alone" knowing that she was right there when Elphaba died

Bi & Bi solidarity? Bi & Bi violence?

"if you survive my murder attempt let's double date!"

Harley: You may be annoying, but queer solidarity!

I first watched ouat when I was like 13 and I just kinda accepted everything without question.

And I didn't process the fact that teenagers could be lost boys so I assumed that Felix was meant to be like a 12 year old kid at 6'1 (the actor was like 26)

I'm assuming he was like 18 but god why didn't I question that

I always go to you with my bullshit and then I forget you don't know the characters 😅

I wish I could share character headcanons but all of mine are either so specific or just sticking charactes I like into other fandoms I like

Like it's either "if they were in this situation and someone did this, they'd probably do this back" or it's "yeah they're a slytherin" and "if they were a Taylor Swift album they'd be midnights"

Do you get what I mean lol