To Real.

to real.

When I'm crushless I'm desperate to have a crush but when I get one I want to jump out of a window cause I know I won't get her.

Topper.

I have the best grades in my class

i am the most intelligent person in my class

I am the most intelligent person in my school.

i have the best grades in my school.

every one knows I’m the class topper, it’s literally a fact.

i have the best grade in all my classes

being a class topper comes so easily to me!

I already know in my mind no one can surpass me.

I love being the topper of my class!

huh?! How come I’m the most smart person AND have the best grades in all my classes?

I’m always #1 in class rank.

I just got told I’m ranked #1 in my class, I'm so proud of myself!

💖🍡DEALING WITH HATERS💖🍡

💖Oh that person said this about me 😭They commented rude things about me ☹️They attacked me for expressing my opinions 🥲. Girl stop it 🛑 ✋️ Get over yourself . We need to step into our " IDAF" ERA !

🍡BEING HATED ON IS A PRIVILEGE

Being hated on means you are RELEVANT ! You are so extremely relevant because that person is taking their time off to focus on YOU rather than themselves. Only the insecure people would choose you as their target because they are threatened by you.

💖STOP PUTTING YOUR HATERS ON A PEDESTAL

Why are you putting your haters or bullies on a pedestal ? Why do their opinions outweigh your own opinions ? 🤔 Value yourself above these haters. Reassure yourself and put yourself on a pedestal. You should know you are great and you know your intention. Their words stay in your mind because you are giving them your power , precious energy and attention to them. You are giving their words more power than your own words.

🍡YOUR WORTH DOES NOT RELY ON EXTERNAL OPINIONS

You are not an opinion of someone who does not know you or care about you. Realize this and you will be free ! As I told you before in my know your worth post , your worth should not rely on external opinions, if your worth relies on external opinions , you are a slave to other people. Your worth is intrinsic, it comes from within and it is present since the day you were born.

💖JUDGEMENT IS THE GAME OF THE MISERABLE.

Haters are miserable. It is a fact. Even if it looks like they are doing better , they are not. Your hater could be the prettiest person in the world but when they look at themselves , they feel ugly. That is why people who usually bully or hate on others try to make the other person make insecure so that they can feel better about themselves. Happy people do not hate .

🍡IT IS NOT PERSONAL

It is never personal, it is not about you, it is about them.It is so important to realize that haters are always projecting.

💖NO RESPONSE IS THE BEST RESPONSE

The best response to a hater is no response. Do not give them your precious energy and time. If you show them that you are hurt by their comments , they will not feel bad for you . In fact , they will be happy because they won , they wanted your energy, time and wanted to feel they have power over you. Just be unbothered , do not give a damn about these losers. That is how you take your power back . Other people need your permission to make you feel bad about yourself, do not give them the permission.

🍡A-T-T-E-N-T-I-O-N

If someone has an issue with you and they are telling everyone except you , they do not have a real issue with you , they just enjoy the attention they get from talking about you.

💖I DONT CARE , YOU ARE YOU , I AM ME

Like our Queen Wonyoung said, if someone says something about her that is not true , she does not care . I don't care , You are You, I am me.

🍡LOVE YOURSELF

Focus on your good qualities about yourself. Love yourself. Our Queen Wonyoung said that people will give you criticism even when you do not need it , so she only gives herself nothing but love. That is how you should think too. Give yourself nothing but love.

💖 FOCUS ON YOU

Have a life. Be too busy to focus on these gremlins. If you are sitting idle and rotting in bed the whole day , of course , your brain will wonder. Have a routine. Be too focused on yourself to care about them.

🍡KNOW YOURSELF

If you know yourself and understand yourself , you will not care what other people think about you. For example , if you know you are smart and beautiful , you will not care if someone else says that you are dumb or ugly. Take it like this, you are wearing a red t-shirt , someone comes upto and says your t-shirt is blue , will you believe them ? Will you try to explain yourself to them ? Or will you just be like - oh what a dumb person and move on with your life ?

💖HAVE COMPASSION

You need to stop seeing them as a toxic , mean or evil person😈 . See them as someone who is unhealed , hurt or insecure . You do not need to be nice, kind or say anything to them. Have compassion for them and wish that they heal from whatever they are going through. Shift your energy from hurt and sadness to compassion. You will protect your peace and you will be unfazed.

🍡THEY ARE NOT THAT IMPORTANT

Does this person contribute anything to your life ? Will their opinions help you pay your bills? Will their opinions help you pass your exam ? If no , why do you care about them ? They are not that important but you are . You should take care of you and not lose yourself because of what one person or many people say about you. They do not matter. They are irrelevant. You are the main character of your life.

💖YOU ARE NOT BORN TO IMPRESS

In this world of social media , we often try to impress people who we do not even know. Always remember that YOU ARE BORN TO EXPRESS , NOT TO IMPRESS.

True reality is not what you see with your eyes, but what you recognize and acknowledge as such.

universe’s favorite being.

Every day I’m becoming closer, and closer to the universe.

i love being the universe’s favorite!

I’m constantly spoiled by the universe.

i always get what I want.

the universe always gives me what I want.

the universe loves me!

I’m super lucky!

people constantly wonder how I always get so lucky, its cause I’m loved by the universe!

I’m so glad the universe always gives me what I want! ❤️

so....my interview for the 2nd job got canceled AND I have found that I may be unable to pay for college for my spring semester due to the nature of my current job and the fact that I won't have work during fall break, winter break, etc. My rent is double what it used to be, as I'm moving in 10 days, and I was denied a 1$ pay raise at my current job (believe me, it would be made a difference). They also told me they can't guarantee me 40 hours a week, and I'm just really stressed out about finances right now.

I told myself I'd always figure it out, however I'm struggling to figure out what to do. I never learned to drive, and I don't have a car (my step mom is not the best person out there and I'm still dealing with the consequences of HER actions today, including not knowing how to drive or having many resources for getting around) so trying to get any other 2nd job seems nearly impossible.

If I made a gofundme for my college, would anyone be able to donate to it or help me reblog it to at least try and get some assistance to continue my college career? My apartment also depends on if I'm in college, so if I end up having to drop a semester, it puts my housing in jeopardy. I hope you can see how stressful this is for me. A lot of cards stacked against me, it feels like.

if I do make a gofundme, please, do NOT feel pressured or like you need to donate. Anything helps, and I'd be so appreciative of any assistance. I've been trying to sell clothes on depop, but that's not doing much anymore either, which is why I'm kind of going to gofundme as a last resort. I love this community and everything you all have been for me.

Here's the link to my gofundme. I love and appreciate all of you <3

https://gofund.me/772b73e9

til next time lovelies 🩷