Okay I'm Like, So Pissed Rn.

Okay I'm like, so pissed rn.

I was scrolling through Ig, seeing some kpop edits etc. I came across this video of the bp members on the born pink tour twerking on stage. The video was cute or whatever, but the second I opened the comments was when I got mad. EVERYONE was saying how they're sluts and attention whores and how all they know what to do is be vulgar and inappropriate onstage. But let's consider some things:

- It's their show

- They're grown adults

- ALL those videos come from the encores of the shows, AFTER the main performances. They're HAVING FUN.

Anyways, I scrolled down a bit more and came across another edit, this time BTS. Now listen ARMYs: NO HATE TOWARDS BTS. I am an ARMY myself and am just using them as an example to show this fucked up industry that we love.

Back to the edit.

As I watched it, it showed each member pulling up their shirt and humping the air. I opened the comments section, and guess who found everyone calling them sluts? Yeah, not me. And let's consider this:

- It's their show

- They're grown adults

- It's their DANCE STEP

Now why don't people treat male idols like they treat female idols? Why is it sexy for men to hump air and show abs, but vulgar for women to twerk? Why are men praised when they're "sexy" onstage, but women are slutshamed for doing the same or even LESS? Why is it acceptable for men to be vulgar, but not women? Because, in my opinion, if twerking is considered vulgar, humping the air shirtless is vulgar as well. But maybe you don't consider the dance step vulgar.

Maybe you consider the person doing it vulgar.

But why only the women?

Maybe the problem isn't the female idols.

Maybe the problem is you.

the only romance i like is necromancy

every day i get more and more shocked with the amount of disrespect the trans community gets. fucking gross.

its actually deeply upsetting that not a single active ftm tag is inclusive of anyone who wants bottom surgery. i want surgery. i need it. but post op bodies are never ever treated as desirable. i have never seen any even remotely sexual content allowing ftm characters to not be DEFINED by having a cunt. you realize how awful it feels to read that? not only does so much attention being put on body parts that make me want to die make a lot of guys dysphoric (making it impossible to read fics about people like us), it also feels very isolating. am i not allowed to want surgery? i cant have sex until i get bottom surgery. i can hardly even masturbate. it makes me cry. i have seen exactly two artworks featuring guys with bottom sugery. i cant go into ftm tags without seeing boypussy everywhere. it feels like theres no one else like me. those tags are just porn. they treat trans men like we're just sexual fantasies. as if we're not real. as if we're objects for cis people to rail and nothing else. it also seems that they think old trans men don't exist. almost all of the fetish porn i see is about femboys who are barely even legal age. its disgusting on so many levels. i don't want to be an anime femboy, but thats all you see us as. you treat us like fucktoys. we're people. treat us as such. do your fucking research and stop demonizing life saving surgery. youre just a terf. even worse its mostly young trans men saying surgery is disgusting. stop it. if you keep telling young guys that surgery is dangerous and all that, people will not get surgery they need to live. if you convince people not to get that tumour removed they will die. if you convince people not to get bottom surgery when they really need it, they will die. if you do this shit and youre trans, you are still transphobic. you need to deconstruct patriarchy. you are telling people not to get surgery that could save their life. do better.

I don't want a boyfriend. I want a boyfriend.

I want a boyfriend who will hug me every time we see each other, but it's those hugs that last for like 5 seconds. A boyfriend to sit on the couch with and read a book together, and I always have to flip back a page bc I read too fast and he reads too slow. A boyfriend who is willing to learn my native language, but specifically the cuss words. A boyfriend who holds my hand with intertwined fingers but his hand is kinda like in front of mine and he doesn't care my hands are always so fucking sweaty. A boyfriend who keeps his eyes only on my eyes despite me not looking into his bc I hate eye contact, but he doesn't mind that. A boyfriend who will help me diffuse the back of my hair, and he'll make sure the diffuser isn't too hot on my nape. A boyfriend who likes me for me and not for sex or kisses and he couldn't give two shits about me being ace and not wanting anything sexual because he loves me for me. A boyfriend who loves me completely and doesn't need me to be sexual because he doesn't see me this way and never will.

So yeah, I want a boyfriend and not a boyfriend. I want someone who will love me like I will love him. Not sexually, not completely romantically, but just two connected souls that feel too deeply for each other.

Is it too much to ask?

Me every damn day

Reblog if you're gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, transgender or a supporter.

This should be reblogged by everyone. Even if you’re straight, you should be a supporter.