Okay I'm Like, So Pissed Rn.

Okay I'm like, so pissed rn.

I was scrolling through Ig, seeing some kpop edits etc. I came across this video of the bp members on the born pink tour twerking on stage. The video was cute or whatever, but the second I opened the comments was when I got mad. EVERYONE was saying how they're sluts and attention whores and how all they know what to do is be vulgar and inappropriate onstage. But let's consider some things:

- It's their show

- They're grown adults

- ALL those videos come from the encores of the shows, AFTER the main performances. They're HAVING FUN.

Anyways, I scrolled down a bit more and came across another edit, this time BTS. Now listen ARMYs: NO HATE TOWARDS BTS. I am an ARMY myself and am just using them as an example to show this fucked up industry that we love.

Back to the edit.

As I watched it, it showed each member pulling up their shirt and humping the air. I opened the comments section, and guess who found everyone calling them sluts? Yeah, not me. And let's consider this:

- It's their show

- They're grown adults

- It's their DANCE STEP

Now why don't people treat male idols like they treat female idols? Why is it sexy for men to hump air and show abs, but vulgar for women to twerk? Why are men praised when they're "sexy" onstage, but women are slutshamed for doing the same or even LESS? Why is it acceptable for men to be vulgar, but not women? Because, in my opinion, if twerking is considered vulgar, humping the air shirtless is vulgar as well. But maybe you don't consider the dance step vulgar.

Maybe you consider the person doing it vulgar.

But why only the women?

Maybe the problem isn't the female idols.

Maybe the problem is you.

pro-AI in the sense of "they taught a bread scanning computer to recognize cancer cells" etc etc

against AI in the sense of "we stole artwork from hundreds to thousands of artists, didn't credit them and didn't financially compensate them"

the only romance i like is necromancy

If he wanted to, he would.

It is so true. To make whatever tf this is more credible, I'll use my own life experiences as an example.

I met my bestest friend in the world on the first day of 8th grade last year. And within one year, she became my best friend ever and I became hers. We hung out every day, and in a few weeks, we managed to take the most complicated paths around school to see each other in between the classes that we didn't have together. All that mattered was that we saw each other. And during classes, we'd email each other the whole class.

We both got in trouble multiple times whenever we used cuss words in our emails, since we used our school-issued laptops to talk to each other and the school could see what we wrote.

Now, we're in different schools. When I tell you I cried my eyes out bc I go to school and I don't see her every day, I mean it. We still email each other every day, but here's when the whole "If he wanted to, he would" thing comes up.

I've written her enough letters to build a whole ass notebook, and she confessed she does too. We basically write stuff we'd say to each other in these letters, and we agreed to give these letters to each other next time we meet.

In the past year, I expanded my music taste for her. I got into Mitski, Demi Lovato, Ayesha Erotica, Hannah Montana, and many other artists for her because every day in p.e. she'd sneak her laptop and would listen to these artists, singing along to the songs, and I wanted to sing along with her. Now, I know the lyrics to every single song she loves, and I sing along with her every time.

She also listened to what I like. She listened to a few Blackpink songs, one BTS song, FANCY by twice. She hates kpop, but she listened to these songs for me.

After school, she WALKS to the nearest library just to use the computer and enter on her Instagram account so we can talk.

During Thanksgiving break, she sneaked her grandma's phone so she could text me.

Whenever I see anything Stitch related, I buy it and I save it for when we meet so I can gift them to her.

I listen to her rants and I suffer her anger with her.

She listens to my dramatic complains and cusses people out with me.

And we're just best friends.

I found in her what I thought I would've found in a man, because the world makes us think our soulmate is a romantic partner.

But not necessarily.

What I want to say with all this is:

If he wanted to, he would.

If he LOVED you, he would've.

Don't settle for anything less than what you deserve, because when someone loves you, you'll know it.

No matter who they are, they'll show you their love.

When you love someone, you'll go to Saturn and around the moon and right into the sun for them without an astronaut suit. And they'll do it for you as well.

I'm already planning the funeral🤞

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