Hard Question. Huskerdust Or Chaggie? :)

hard question. huskerdust or chaggie? :)

go lesbians go

Hey! Just a reminder that bisexuals and queer men/achilleans are absolutely allowed to identify as butch or femme, and I encourage you to loudly identify as butch or femme if you feel like it. This is not a discourse topic, you have always been part of, and included in, the butch & femme labels and I would love to see more bisexuals and achilleans identify as butch or femme!!! YOU ARE ALLOWED!!! And you absolutely SHOULD if you desire to!

This is it. This is what the pan label did to bisexual people.

No matter how hard you all try to change the meaning of pansexuality, it will always stem out of misunderstanding bisexuality. It will always be the result of transphobia and a false belief that bisexuality is about being attracted to cis men and cis women. I hate this and I hate you all for forcing us to be ashamed of our identity.

Are women allowed to have any standards when it comes to dating men?

If a woman wants a man who is conventionally attractive, tall or athletic, she is shallow.

If a woman wants a man who earns good money or at least has some financial stability/gainful employment, a career or good career prospects, she is a gold-digger.

If a woman wants a man who is educated, cultivated or takes an active interest in the world around him one way or another, she is a snob.

If a woman wants a man who is not a complete porn-addict with a severe case of terminal misogyny, she is a stuck-up bitch.

If a woman wants a man who is kind, considerate and actually cares about her, she pussy-whips her boyfriend or husband.

If a women wants a man who shares values, interests or life-style choices that are important to her, she is mean and exclusionary, because why wouldn't she give men a chance she is clearly not compatible with?

Seriously, what are women allowed to look for in a male partner? Oh, wait, I know! She is supposed to want a man who is funny and makes her laugh. That is a demand no man feels threatened by, because they all think they are comedy gold.