Astro Observation About 11th House Placements/Aquarius Placements

Astro observation about 11th house placements/Aquarius placements

Hello workaholics!

Sun in 11th house natives are social butterflies. They can be the most silent person at home but are social butterflies in public. They also travel a lot. They are travelling all day for job purpose from one place to other. They have natural charm in public. People trust them with their money. People want to do business with them. These natives emit a natural businessperson energy that people want to commit to. For eg, to understand better, people with sun in 7th house attract a lot of potential romantic partner who perceive them as people they want to be with romantically. Similarly, Sun in 11th house people attract a lot of people who want to commit to them for business purposes. This is really fascinating to see how people perceive them as business savvy.

Jupiter in 11th house people also attract people who commit to their ideas. Since 11th house is all about social networking, money and especially business. These natives attract people who want to commit to their wisdom, brainchild, vision and ideas. For eg, Steve Jobs had Jupiter in 11th house (sidereal astro) and he really was a visionary man in whose ideas and visions people invested their money and wanted to do business with him. I am not making it up.

11th house/Aquarius natives are all about work. It is their life theme. They have a long fulfilling work life with late retirement. They always are doing some work. They know how to make money. They know how to grind. They have the potential and caliber. Saturn rules Aquarius: patience, discipline, hard work, long hours. They have that. They cannot retire early and enjoy life. They love to hustle all their lives.

These natives also spend less time at home relaxing and more time doing work or business. They have the caliber to do side hustle. It really comes naturally to them. They are the ones to be doing 2/3 business or work at a time. Making money. Vision, ideas, grit and social charm -- they got it all.

Public places is where they shine. Sun in 11th house or Aquarius natives shine in public settings. They love to be amongst large groups of people. They love the validation it gives them.

But no placement comes without shadow side. Behind their workaholic attitude is an intense self sabotage. I remember watching Jobs movie and Steve's character says "why did my mother birth me if she had to leave me anyway?" I have seen that these natives are workaholic as a way to avoid the shame of self sabotage. They use work to avoid the intimacy in other areas of life. They feel a compulsive urge to work work work! It is the need to individuation in them and run from their self reflection. For eg, some people understand themselves using occult tools like astro and tarot. Whereas others understand themselves by being in a relationship. While others understand themselves through work and business. It is the different areas of life with different tools that people use to individuate. To individuate yourself means to understand all parts of yourself.

These natives understand themselves when they go out in public and do their work. They even wonder why not other people do the same. They wonder why others are not workaholic like them.

Projections and astrology

This is something I have observed that who you are as a person and what people perceive you as are two very different things. For eg, in one case a native has south node/ketu in 7th house. This makes their partner emotional disinterested, both partners spend long time away from each other, don't talk to each other much and the marriage is just hollow. Despite this reality, the external world thinks that they have a normal marriage, they communicate daily, they are normal loving couple. I wondered why this is the case until I realized that people are projecting their own unconscious onto the native and their partner.

2. Have you heard a quote "don't care about your reputation but care about your character. Your reputation is who people think you are but character is who you actually are". This applies to astrology so much. Who you actually are -- see from your birth chart. How people see you -- their synastry with you, their unconscious projections on you and especially your energy you emit.

3. Earlier I thought that "synastry" is something that only happens in romantic relationships. But you have a synastry with everyone. The stranger on the bus has synastry with you. Sometimes we see a person behaving rudely to others but nicely to some people. They must have friendly synastry with these people. I am not making it up, I know with astrology we always have to be cautious as to not making superstitious and fanatical statements but this is something you can see for yourself. For eg, I am venus in 8th house and my mom is venus in scorpio in 2nd house. Yes, we are both similar water venusian and we are more like competitors than mother-daughter. Envy, jealousy, control, possession, mind reading, projection and something weirdly sexual is there in the way we perceive each other. I feel ashamed of my sexuality around my mom. It is like we are both outdoing each other in who is more desirable by men.

4. Similarly I have seen people getting bad treatment, bullying and insensitivity from others for no reason. But if probe deeper, they will admit they feel envious, insecure and inferior around this person so they belittle them to feel good about themselves. This happens to 8th house placements. They can be minding their own business and people come out of nowhere, say something insensitive or treat them badly. 8th house natives have to be so guarded, it's really sad. People project their own self loathing on these natives.

5. Similarly I have seen people being praised, held highly, treated with too much respect even if they did not earn it with a lot of hard work. Some people are highly respected by society for no reason while some are highly disrespected for no reason. I have seen people with bad traits being treated positively by others. Somehow people perceive them as good and project their own goodness on bad people.

6. Similarly not everyone is meant for same life theme. This changed my outlook towards life. I would sit sulking why xyz happened to someone else but did not happen to me? Why them not me? Until I realized that I have a unique life theme.

7. Look up the second para in the above attached picture. "If you fulfill the pattern that is peculiar to yourself" -- see, not everyone is meant for everything in life. Not everyone is meant to become a superstar or sportsperson or millionaire or astronaut. What are you meant for? Think, observe, intuit, journal your life, know your emotional patterns, identify your emotions and see how each emotion directs your behaviour. This is how I know to "figure out what I am meant for in my life". For eg, if I always gossip about others, judge others, belittle others, why am i doing this behaviour? How do they make me feel? Do I feel inferior, insecure, little, inadequate, ashamed of myself?

8. It is also important to beware that the media and content you consume does not normalize such behaviour.

Remember these clips? How do you see these people? How do you see their expressions, body language and behaviour? Are they toxic people...? Err, but this is called "queen, sassy, cool" behaviour. Imagine being the target of such people in real life, that's gotta hurt. Especially to water dominant individuals. I must say you have to be very cautious of what you consume in media. Although it feels like entertainment and mindless, but you subconsciously learn what you consume.

9. Similarly, I have seen that there are individuals for whom toxic behaviour is actually normal behaviour. It reminds me of the narcissistic family trees. Fire and air sign placements can be really distanced from their emotions. As a result, they tend to be insensitive, enabler of toxicity and protagonist of toxic behaviour which even becomes family traits. Somewhere down the generation, some kids are born who end up realizing how fucked up their family tree is and they become the "cycle breakers". Having water house or sign placement is very important to trigger "cycle breaker". I once saw an astro observation "Aries sign are the cycle breaker in their family. They can rise from nothing and change the family pattern". If material patterns, yes they might because they tend to be self centered, assertive, self promoter, grandiose in public eye. But in emotional ways, hell no, unless they have significant water placements to trigger self destruction.

10. "Destiny" has definitely something to do with your ancestors. What your ancestors did in their life determines the kind of life you will live too. Good fortune and misfortune are not just your own karma. It has to do with the collective karma of your bloodline, even if you dont know who your ancestors were. So be very mindful of what you do in your life unless you want your descendants to suffer because of what you did to self gratify. But sadly, the kind of audience who will read this post on tumblr is already part of demographic who are not abusive and toxic (I hope) because I have seen a lot of people being very much into spirituality and self improvement on tumblr. The actual audience is the one who dont know tumblr exists and keep abusing others for the sake of power, dominance, ego, material fulfillment.

11. Material fulfillment is not a bad thing by the way. Show me one person who wants to be dirt poor. The purpose of life is to literally create something. Art, music, books, engineering, food, gardening, literally anything and everything. Just try to spend one month doing nothing, living in streets and say goodbye to money, just see what happens to your mental health. You will become so depressed and darkened. Material security is very important part of mental health. So I do not believe in "money cannot buy you happiness" propaganda. They are either very ignorant of their own privilege or very insecure of their scarcity. Money can buy you happiness. It definitely does. Moreover, "happiness" does not even mean anything. For that we have to know what being happy means. "Happiness" is a fleeting emotion.

12. I think that career is the most important thing in a person's life. It determines everything about you. Even a monk is a "monk". That is their career. Even a priest is a "priest". That is their career. Show me one person who has no career and is still content with their life, unless they inherit money, financed by someone else, are housewife (controversial topic), or get lucky with a family business or gambling or illegal ways to make money. Even then it is their 10th house being active, triggering a career, their 11th house triggering income, their 2nd house triggering wealth and savings, their 8th house triggering other people's money come to them. All the famous people we know are known for their careers. Scientist, businessmen, artists, celebrities, kings and queens, everything is a career even if they are not "employed" by a job letter. Think about it. It is the same thing like people living together in live in, cohabit together, doing civil contract marriage call it as real as a traditional marriage with rituals and custom. Are they the similar things? Similar energy under different names?

I would love to have a thoughtful discussion on any of the points I raised in the comment section, if you guys are interested.

Astro notes about air signs

Air signs people have this desire to be in relationship with a lot of people at once. It does not mean that they will cheat necessarily. For that we look at the houses their air signs are placed in. For eg, water element houses will not make them cheat despite the impulse is there. So someone with Gemini venus in 4th, 8th or 12th house will feel the desire to date many partners but will remain committed to one person because the water house element balances the impulse.

Whether dating a lot of people is a "good" thing or not is really complicated to answer. A lot of people on internet claim to be polyamorous. A lot of communities have practiced dating/marrying many people at once. For eg, in Islam a man is allowed to marry 4 wives though for reasons of providership and preservation, many men might also do it for pleasure and personal fun.

But I am sure that all the air placements must have felt a wandering eye in themselves and been confused by it. Like one part of them wants to commit to one person forever and the other part wants to flirt, date and fool around with a lot of people. It has something to do with the nature of air signs that makes them independent, short attention span, attention seeking, unable to integrate their insecurities in constructive ways, unable to go deep within their psyche to introspect themselves, fear of rejection, wanting to be liked by a lot of people.

Air sign + water house/earth house will make them not cheat.

Air sign + air house (for eg Gemini moon in 3rd house) = multiple affairs.

You can study it yourself. Just pick up charts of people and see for yourself how different signs and house combinations manifest in different people.

Even if for cultural reasons or social pressure, they dont cheat, they will still feel the impulse and desire within themselves. They will be confused by it. Being able to date many partners is a luxury. Not everyone has the time, freedom, cultural settings, lack of responsibilities, lack of consequences, power, money, social connections to make it happen. Air signs also struggle with short term gratification over long term goals, so cheating for the uncertainty, excitement and adrenaline rush of it is acceptable to them over investing themselves in one person for long years, finding a cause to commit to one person and building an exclusive relationship for life.

Why do people commit to only person for life? (Water signs/water houses can answer it well). It is that possessiveness, merger of souls, deep connection, some spiritual insights into nature of relationship, knowing that betrayal will have karmic consequences in this life or next life, looking for meaning in life, personal values, personal morality and most importantly the mental peace.

Air signs don't feel "so deeply" that it starts to hurt them physically. They can jump from one relationship to the other not really feeling any emotional connection to them but for other reasons like excitement, mental stimulation, adventure, fun seeking, run from boredom.

Best thing is to accept this complex as a part of you and find activities in your life that somehow satisfy this impulse. Like exercise or a lot of hobbies or anything to do with a lot of airy energy to satisfy this craving.

Ok sister I need to say this but you have posted moon in 8th posts well written as mooon in 8th I completely resonate with that I noticed even in your astrological observations posts here and there you posted bits of moon in 8th house you posts are highly appreciated and hugely supported💓☺😍🥰😘😌

Hehe, thank you! I started this blog just to find answers to my questions. I was going through a difficult time with dominant 8th house themes. One day i decided to start writing my experiences, learnings and some other things that interest me. Ironically, this blog is all about occult, psychology, astrology which is also an 8th house theme. 8th house attracts all of us to tumblr astro community.

Venus in 8th house astro observation

These girls are chasing father and boyfriend in one man. They want a provider and lover. Someone to love them "unconditionally" despite their mess, chaos and craziness. They want a man who will fix them and love them. A man to possess, keep only to herself, keep him into a locker and merge into his soul. They dont know what love looks like. They think abuse is love. They think trauma is love. They dont know better. What does "love" even mean? It is subjective. For some, love is dinner dates, movie nights, travelling the world, posting pics on social media, etc. For some love is financial support, being there for you in times of need, social support, security, safety and comfort. For some, love means conversations, friendship, emotional connection, similar traits. For some, love means sex, physical gratification, exploring and adventure. For some, love means cooking, cleaning, doing things for loved one;earning money, investing money, saving money for loved one. For some, love means having no other choice, cohabiting, making amends with life, sacrificing your needs for others. For some, love means giving second chances, forgiveness, fear of change and convenience. These are not mutually exclusive. You will find them crossing paths at different timeframes in your life.

Life lessons and astro lessons

Parents who traumatize you don't really intend to traumatize you. I have moon in 8th house; my parents were emotionally and psychologically abusive. Throughout my teenage, I was just tolerating a lot. I held a lot of resentment against my parents for traumatizing my development years. But now I realize that my parents didnt know what they were doing. They thought they were disciplining me and making me a good person. They did not know healthy ways to talk, punish and raise children. It is hard to swallow but it is the truth.

Not everyone will get their karma. I have seen a lot of people committing infidelity, financial crimes, lying, manipulating, abusing others but they do not face any setbacks. They go on living comfortable lives. Conversely, if an 8th house native tries to copy them, he will face karmic consequences, disease or being exposed in public or public image tarnished or career setbacks. 8th house placements keep giving you karmic lessons but a lot of people without 8th house placements feel no consequences at all. For eg, I saw man cheating on wife but his public image is flawless. People even call him "so innocent and modest man".

You have to unlearn a lot of things you were taught since childhood. Unless your parents and surroundings were spiritual and self aware, the fact is you would be acting our unconsciously things you learned directly or indirectly growing up. Once you realize that everything you were told was wrong, you start to unlearn everything and relearn things using your own thought process, self reflection, psychological education and mindfulness.

Although ethics and morality are called subjective in universal basis (sometimes even legal. For eg, adultery is legally punishable is some countries but not in others), however on karmic plane, all actions have their consequences. It is simply fatalism, cause and effect, domino effect. It is very hard to figure out what actions cause what consequences but suffice to say that your inner conscience tells you when you have done something wrong or right.

How others see you and how you see others is your "perception". You perceive your parents, partner, friends. You don't objectively see them how they are. You only see them from your own perspective. Different placements have different perspective. Water placements are emotional and deeply feelings based. In personality disorders like BPD, the person does not perceive himself and others in a right manner. He is intensely emotional and acts on his feelings.

Most of us act "right" because we fear consequences of doing wrong. If there were no consequence at all, not many people would choose to act right. There is no such thing as unconditional love. Parents and partner love you because they want emotional needs, want good karma for themselves and don't want to face the consequences of neglect/abuse (society saying "look, he doesn't provide for his wife/family).

Conmen are not always doing crimes, doing frauds, being players. Most conmen are in your family and surroundings. Many people use spiritual wisdom and rote memorize one liners, philosophy liners, spiritual liners to impress others and present a fake persona. For eg, many times people who claim to be spiritual and doing self improvement are actually completely lying. Behind the scenes, they commit all sorts of bad things (smoking, drinking, cheating) but pretend to be so innocent, wise, spiritual and even convince you that they are so great. Beware of these conmen who play with your psychology.

Conflicts and disagreements are a part of life. Water placements people will benefit from knowing that they dont need to run from disagreements to avoid hurting their feelings. You are not supposed to be happy and friendly 24x7 with others. You are supposed to argue, self reflect and improve yourself.

Sometimes life seems to be meaningless nihilist. If you try to create a meaning in life, you can choose to. Most of the times, we find meaning in life because our actions directly and remotely impact other people. For eg, if a kid gets good scores in exam, his parents will be happy, he will get awards, etc. If he gets into good college, his career will improve, his actions will impact his friends, etc. If he starts doing job, he will impact lifestyle of his family, productivity of his nation, his job will impact lives of other people. Doing things for other people gives a lot of meaning to life (and also this is how karma works).

10. There are some people who are genuinely good people, for eg. those who fit into "the innocent" archetype (many water placements natives who have matured and evolved are self aware and rightful in their actions). And then there are others who pretend to be good people because they know this is what the world wants to see. I personally find inauthentic people intolerable but it takes experience and brainwork to be able to spot fake people.

11. Astrology tells you about yourself, your life theme and time frame when things will happen in your life. You dont need to convince others that "astrology is real, astrology works, astrology is scientific etc". You see validation of truth of astrology when things happen in your life according to your chart. Every single person is living according to their charts; whether they understand astrology or not is their destiny. Most people are simply not meant for occult. No need to convince them or argue them.

12. Most of what you see in movies and media is lies. They are fantasy. They are idealism. Somtimes some passionate people make good movie or song as art but most of it is crap for money and benefits only. Even then, art really adds no value to your life except to 1. express your personality 2. manifest your symbolic mind 3. relax your stress and provide relief from chaos buzzing of life and 4. if you are a professional, yes it can add monetary value to your life too. But don't really trust movies and music. They are deceptive and Rahu illusions.

13. Some people are naturally funny. Sense of humor takes natural skills and practice. Air placements Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius can be really funny. They are the ones to write and act in sitcoms. Look up chart of your favourite comedian and see their sun and moon placements. I have Gemini moon and was the funniest clown in my class. I was totally silly and shameless comedian. Now I have sobered up though. 😉😉