Martin? Martin? What Are You Looking At? - Jon At Some Point Probably.

“Martin? Martin? What are you looking at?” - Jon at some point probably.

[check out the link in my pinned post if at all possible it would be a massive help]

Every day my relationship with the word “love” and what it means gets more complex and more impossible to explain to the rest of you people

Like yeah dude im in love with someone. Not like that though. Not like the other way either. You wouldn’t understand

For me being in a qpr lately is like. No we're not dating. Yes this is my boyfriend isn't he great and lovely and handsome aren't I lucky. No I don't want anyone to mistake us for romantic partners. Yes I want to marry him. No we're not "just friends". Yes I don't want people to think our friendship matters less than our love. No I don't care what people think. Yes I want you to know that we're each other's and each other's alone. No I've never had a crush on him. Yes, I love him with all my heart and soul.

aromanticism is such a weird experience combined with everything going on w me.

i have a massive crush on one of my sysmates but i don’t even know what type of attraction it is besides it definitely not being romantic.

sexual? maybe. platonic? maybe. sensual? maybe. i don’t know.

but i have *never* experienced romantic attraction! woooohg.

i wouldn’t give up being aromantic for anything though.

can we deromanticize kissing or are we still too deep in amatonormativity for that conversation :/ ?

How my qprs going:

[for context their allo/demi]