Just Found Out My Qpp Has Been Waiting To See If Id Eventually Develop Feelings For Them.

Just found out my qpp has been waiting to see if I’d eventually develop feelings for them.

Our entire qpr. They’ve been holding out on a chance that I’d change.

It’s not on them at all. I just feel like a cunt that lead them on now fuckkkkk

I don’t know what to do

Kind of interesting that there’s overlap in the aspec and poly spaces

Every day my relationship with the word “love” and what it means gets more complex and more impossible to explain to the rest of you people

Like yeah dude im in love with someone. Not like that though. Not like the other way either. You wouldn’t understand

An aro meme for myself

My take, from experience trying to convey it to others:

Crush = I want a romantic relationship with that

Squish = I want strong emotional connection with that

Basically, a crush is wanting romance with someone and a squish is wanting platonic closeness with someone (qpr, or “just” unlabelled super close friends)

...Honestly, yeah, you're right, that might be the best way of summing it up, thank you very much for that!

being aromantic is so confusing because i literally have no idea how i feel ever, actually