I Do Hate "normal"

I do hate "normal"

I've always hated expectations. The norm. It's always about what other people want you to do, want you to be.

I can understand that there's a need for "normal" in society. Biologically, our brains just group up similar concepts together to better manage all of it. So it intrinsically dislikes what goes out of the norm, what's different.

But it sucks especially when you're what's different. Or don't do what people expect of you, don't dress how they expect you to dress, don't talk or walk or act in the ways they want. If anything, I want to say that I'm never gonna be normal. There are days where I'll be more different, days where I'll be less different, but.. not normal. And if anything, people shouldn't expect you to be whatever you're not. They'll have to deal if they don't like it. But I like different. There's something quite beautiful in different. And everyone is different in a way. Not "special", just different. Unique.

And that's beautiful!

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Demiboy ramblings

It's a weird thing to be born as a guy, then discover you're like not all that much of a guy. I find it there are days where I wanna be so androgynous, other days I wanna be fem and wear skirts and shit. But like still most days I'll be just a boy. The thing is I kinda went on a rampage last week where I'd wear fem outfits whenever I could, cause I was in full on "honeymoon phase" if you will. I was so happy to discover this new part of me that I just leaned on it. But that's the thing, I do have days where I'm more "boy." And I think I realized that that's ok. That doesn't make me less of a demiboy for having days where I wanna just put on a shirt and jeans. Where I don't wanna deal with my hair or paint my nails. Like, most days I'll be ok with wichever, but it's kinda important to just.. listen to yourself. You know what you want in the end, you know what you like. And even if it switches a bit from day to day, it doesn't make you less queer for it. ... Idk, just be you! That's all I had to say.

btw the biggest lie you will ever be told about being trans is that transitioning will make you ugly. that could not be further from the truth: i never got compliments on my appearance ever, but after i transitioned, began dressing like myself, wore my hair the way i wanted to, and especially started T, i have gotten more compliments than i ever have before in my life. people can tell when you look like yourself, like who you're meant to be. it's beautiful, attractive, and sexy. transition will not make you "ugly". it will make you yourself, and that's inherently beautiful

Weird gender joy thing: I used scented body wash for the first time today and I literally was so happy. I didn't realize something so small could make me so happy, cause it smelled of wild berry and it made me feel so giddy I smelled like something more "fruity."

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